Kawirikawiri chilakolako chimenechi chimakhala chokwanira kwambiri, chimakhala chaufupi, kotero mumayenera kusangalala ndi chimwemwe chimenechi komanso kumverera kwa kuthawa kwathunthu. Panthawi yochepayi, malingaliro anu onse ndi okhwima komanso atsopano, ndipo inu mumatulutsa mphamvu zogonana. Kukongola, "kukanika" mwa munthu kumatha kuchita zambiri: kununkhiza, njira yolankhulirana, njira yosunthira, kuyang'ana ndi kumwetulira. Nthawi zina zokopa zoterezi zingayambitse chidziwitso chauchiwawa, mwachitsanzo, kugonana.
Kugonana pa tsiku loyamba, motsatira malamulo oyenera ndi miyezo ya makhalidwe, sikungakhale kovomerezeka kwambiri. Inu nokha, mwinamwake, kukayikira-ndipo mukufuna ndipo mukusowa, chifukwa kugonana pa tsiku loyamba - kumatanthawuza kuti mupeze mbiri ya munthu wopeza, wonyansa. Chitani kapena ayi, ziri kwa inu, tiyeni tiyesere kukumba mozama chifukwa chake nthawi zina mumafuna kugonana ndi mwamuna wosadziwika bwino.
Mwinamwake munakumana ndi munthu yemwe akugwirizana ndi lingaliro lanu la munthu wabwino wokongola. Zikatero, zimakhala zovuta kusiya usiku wa chikondi ndi zabwino, mwadzidzidzi chochitika choterocho sichidzafotokozedwanso. Ganizirani za zomwe zimakukondani. Kukhala ndi chikoka cha kugonana ndi njira yachibadwa ya thupi labwino. Pamapeto pake, ngati mutakana kugonana, kumbukirani kuti mudziko lino muli ndi mphamvu zowonjezera, mutanganidwa ndi zinthu zofunika zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kale.
Ngati, komabe, munaganiza zopitilirabe zokhumba zanu, ndiye kumbukirani kuti munthu, pamene akupanga kugwirizana kwachangu, saganizira kwambiri za kupitiriza kwawo. Ngati mumavomereza kuyanjana usiku umodzi, ndiye kuti zonse zikuwonekera, ngati ayi, musati muwonetsenso mtundu umene munthu amakukakamizani kuti mukhale ndi chidwi chotere.
Kuti mumvetse bwino munthu, muyenera kuyembekezera nthawi. Chikhumbo chanu chidzatha, inu mukhazika mtima pansi, mudzafika ku chikhalidwe chachilendo ndi kusankha ngati mukufuna kumupeza kapena ayi. Mwadzidzidzi, mutakhala chete, simungakonde konse.
Kumbukirani, musamangokhalira kulimbikitsana nokha. Ziribe kanthu kuti mumakopeka bwanji, mwamuna mwiniyo ayenera kukwiyitsa kugonana. Mukhoza kungomuuza kuti simukutsutsana naye. Mafunso atatu akuluakulu omwe amazunza atsikana pazinthu izi: bwanji kuti musakhumudwitse munthu, ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji yodikirira musanagonane, bwanji kuti musakhumudwe ndi mwamuna?
Kugonana pa tsiku loyamba ndi bizinesi yowopsya, chifukwa simukudziwa ngati mukuwona mwamuna weniweni kapena chigoba chokongola, chomwe chimakhala chobisika. Ngati simukufunikira kokha khalidwe lachiwerewere la amuna, komanso kwa ena, ndibwino kuti musafulumire ndi kugonana. Kawirikawiri chibwenzi chogonana pa tsiku loyamba chimaonjezereka. Kubvomerezana ndi kugonana, kumbukirani kuti pambuyo pake mutha kuyembekezera zodabwitsa komanso zokhumudwitsa.
Ubale wapamtima pa tsiku loyamba, ngati kulumphira m'madzi kuchokera ku kasupe - anaganiza, analumpha, sanayese - kumasula trampoline. Ndipo, ngati kugonana kumagwirizanitsa ngakhale kuti uli ndi udindo wina, ndiye kwa munthu - chinthu ichi chimadziwonekera, kukhala chopanda kanthu.
Ndipo nsonga yotsiriza, ngati zilakolako zanu zolakalaka zikulepheretsani kupeza mpweya wa oxygen kwa inu, osamalira thanzi lanu! Kugonana mosatetezeka ndi kugonana ndi kondomu. Chilakolako ndi chilakolako, ndipo thanzi ndilopambana!