Kugonana ndi khalidwe lachikhalidwe limene lingakhale lopangidwa pakati pa amai ndi abambo. Kugonana kumachitika mwa amayi malinga ndi malamulo awo, nthawi zambiri izi zimatanthawuza kukhwimitsa kugonana, ndiko kuti, kugonana.
Liwu la orgasm limapangidwa kuchokera ku liwu lachigriki orgao, limene potembenuza limatanthauza "kuwotcha ndi chilakolako." Orgasm - iyi ndipamwamba kwambiri, chiwerengero cha chiukitsiro cha kugonana, pambuyo pake pamakhala kumasulidwa kwakukulu kwa mikangano ya kugonana. Amuna amamva zolaula pa nthawi ya kutha msinkhu: Kutsegulira koyamba kumakhala kovuta. Pambuyo pake, chiwonongeko chimachitika ndi kuthamanga kulikonse ndi pafupi ndi kugonana kulikonse, komwe kumalimbikitsa amuna kuti azigonana. Mwa amayi, zonse zimachitika mosiyana. Kuwoneka kwa msambo woyamba sikukutanthauza kuti mkazi amatha kumva chiwombankhanga. Akatswiri a sayansi ya zamoyo amakhulupirira kuti zozizwitsa zazimayi zimaonetsa kuti sizothandiza kuti apitirize mtunduwu, chifukwa ntchito yaikulu ya mayi ndi njira yoberekera mwanayo. Ndicho chifukwa chake, malingaliro awo, kuthekera kwakumva zowawa mwa akazi sikunakonzedwenso, mosiyana ndi amuna.
Akatswiri mu kugonana amasiyanitsa magawo otsatirawa pa kugonana: kukakamiza, ndiye "tsamba", gawo lotsatira ndilokhalitsa komanso pambuyo-kutsekemera (kopanda kumasuka).
Orgasm ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana ndi chisangalalo, pomwe mphamvu zonse zowonjezera zimatayika mwa mawonekedwe a minofu omwe sagonjetsedwa. Pali zizindikiro zosayenerera zomwe tinganene kuti panali phokoso: kupuma mofulumira kapena kuchedwa kwafupipafupi pakupuma, kuthamanga kwa thupi, ndi zina zotero.
Panthawi yachisokonezo, amayi ali ndi zojambula bwino, mosiyana ndi amuna. Akazi ena amamva kutentha m'mimba, yomwe imafalikira pa thupi. Anthu ena ali ndi zipsyinjo zazikulu za mimba, ndipo ena amakhala ndi zovuta zokhazokha, koma zimaphimba thupi lonse kumutu mpaka kumapazi. Mmodzi ndi mkazi yemweyo, zizindikiro za kugonana ndi chisangalalo pa nthawi yomwe ikuyambika zimatha kusintha nthawi.
Asayansi anafufuza zochitika zamaganizo za ubongo wa amayi ndipo zinawululidwa kuti zasintha mu ubongo, zofanana ndi zomwe zimachitika m'maganizo a khunyu. Ndicho chifukwa chake amayi ena sangathe kudziletsa okha panthawi yomwe amamva zowawa zoterezi. Amatha kuluma, kulira, kufuula, ndi zina zotero. Ngati amaletsa mtima wawo, ndiye kuti ziwalo zawo zidzakhala zochepa, ndipo izi zingachititse kuti asakhale ndi ubongo kapena chinyengo.
Pali mitundu itatu ya maonekedwe a mkazi, omwe amasiyana malinga ndi malo omwe amachokera: mzimayi, kuchotsedwa ndi kusakaniza. Mtundu wachiwiri umaphatikizapo zamlomo, zam'kati, zamatsenga, ndi zina zotero.
Anthu ogonana okhaokha amasiyanitsa okha chomwe chimatchedwa kuti maganizo okhudza maganizo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuonera filimu yokhudzana ndi zolaula kapena kuwerenga, m'maloto, ndi zina zotero. Makhalidwe oterewa amapezeka ndi makumi anayi ndi asanu mwa amayi 100 alionse. Poyamba ankakhulupirira kuti chiberekero chokwanira ndi chachikazi chokhacho chingalingalire kuti ndi chachikazi chachikazi. Physiologically, chiwonongeko ndi chenichenicho, ngati chimachititsa kuti thupi likhale lokhazikika ndipo limatha kubweretsa chisangalalo.
Pakati pa amai pali gawo laling'ono la omwe sali okondwa. Zimayambitsa matenda okhudza thupi kapena mahomoni omwe achitika mthupi lawo.
Anorgasmia
Ngati mkazi ali ndi chilakolako ndipo amatha kukondwa, koma palibe chifukwa chogonana panthawi yogonana, ndiye wina amalankhula za zodabwitsa monga anorgasmia. Physiologically, mkazi aliyense amatha kupwetekedwa ngati alibe vuto lililonse la mahomoni. Zokhazo zingakhale amayi omwe amavutika ndi vaginismus kapena ngati mkazi ndi wokondedwa wake ali ndi kusiyana kosiyana pakati pa ziwalo zoberekera. Ziwerengero zimasonyeza kuti ziwalozi zimapezeka ndi makumi anayi mpaka makumi asanu ndi awiri pa zana. Azimayi 10 mpaka 20% ali ndi friji. Ndipo izi zikusonyeza kuti amayi khumi ndi makumi asanu pa makumi asanu aliwonse samapewa zifukwa zosagwirizana ndi thupi.