Chikondi ndi dalitso, kupatsidwa kwa anthu ochokera kumwamba. Pakati pa okonda nthawi zonse pali malingaliro osiyanasiyana ndi miyeso. Ngakhale kugwirana kokha kwa dzanja kungayambitse mkhalidwe wachifundo ndi kugonana. Zotsatira za kugonana zimangowonjezera ngati zikuchitika pakati pa okondedwa awiri. Pakapita nthawi, kumverera kwa chikondi kumatha ndipo pangakhale kumverera kwa chikondi, kapena palibe, kotero ndikofunikira kuti mutaphunzira zokhudzidwa zatsopano, musaiwale za kusiyana kwa kugonana. Kodi mungatani kuti wokondedwa wanu azisangalala kwambiri pogonana? Werengani za izi m'nkhani yathu ya lero.
Pamene munthu akukula, ali ndi kusintha kwa thupi m'thupi, pali zokopa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Panthawiyi ndikofunika kukomana ndi munthu wochenjera komanso wodziwa zambiri yemwe angaphunzitse kugonana kokongola ndi kotetezeka, komwe m'tsogolo kudzakhudza chitukuko cha kugonana kwa wina aliyense.
Muzogonana, chirichonse ndi chofunika, ndipo ngati wokondedwayo ndi wokondedwa, malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake, ndiye muyenera kumvetsera kanthu kalikonse. M'nkhaniyi ndikufuna kukambirana nkhani zokhudza kugonana kudzera m'maso mwa mkazi. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti wothandizana nawo akhale wokhutira kwambiri?
Choyamba, tiyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale kwa chinsinsi ichi ndikuganiza pazinthu zonse. Yambani ndi kuyatsa. Musaiwale kuti kuwala kumakula chilakolako. Gawo lotsatira pokonzekera ndizovala pansi. Zovala zamkati ziyenera kutsindika ubwino wonse ndi kubisala zolephera. Gawo lotsatira ndilopusitsa ndipo apa mkazi aliyense ali ndi njira zake zokha. Azimayi ambiri amaphunzitsidwa mwapadera ku striptease, kuvina kummawa ndi njira zina zachinyengo. Tiyenera kuganizira kanthu kena kakang'ono, ngakhale fungo la mkazi wokondedwa lingakulitse chilakolakocho, choncho muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mizimu yoyenera mpaka pano. Pakati pa kugonana, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zosiyana zomwe zili zoyenera kwa okondedwa. Kawirikawiri, chofala kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha "amishonale", chikhalidwe cha "wokwera" ndi "chotsatira". Kuti mupeze zokhudzidwa zatsopano, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zatsopano. Ambiri ammudzi amamva kufunika kokhala ndi kukhudzana kwa matupi ndi mwayi kuti awone maso ake. Pachifukwa ichi, "mishonare", yoga ya kugonana, komanso kuima pafupi ndi khoma kapena mipando, ndi abwino kwambiri. Kugwiritsa ntchito "wokwera" pose kumapangitsa abwenzi kuthetsa vutoli, koma apa mungagwiritse ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana monga "starfish" kapena "boatman". Poonjezera zotsatirazi, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zosiyanasiyana, monga mikanda yaikulu, masewera a masitolo ogonana komanso masamba. Kuchokera ku mazira ozizira ozizira ndi ziwalo zowonongeka, wokondedwayo adzawonjezera chikoka cha kugonana pambali pa zosiyana. Mungagwiritse ntchito zipinda zosiyana zogonana komanso kupanga masewero olimbitsa thupi: mwachitsanzo, mkazi wamwamuna wavala zovala zamkati, ndi mbuye wamwamuna amene adapeza "mtumiki" wachisanu mu chipinda chosambira amamutengera kumkayi. Nkhani yowonjezereka kwambiri, okondweretsa omwe abwenzi angapeze. Chofunika kwambiri pazogonana zimaperekedwa ku magalasi, pamene okonda amatha kuona zomwe zikuchitika kumbali, zomwe zimapangitsanso zotsatira. Ndichifukwa chake nthawi zambiri muzipinda zimakonzera galasilo ndi chophimba chrome.
Mwachidziwitso m'dziko lamakono, kugonana kumatchedwa kupanga chikondi. Mungathe kufotokozera zosiyana zambiri komanso zofunikirako, koma musaiwale za chitetezo cha kugonana. Choyamba, kugonana kumayenera kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu. Masiku ano pali njira zambiri zothandizira kulera ndi kuteteza, ndipo pofuna kupeĊµa zotsatira zosayenera ndi bwino kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ngati chiyanjano chikuyamba ndipo abwenziwo sadziwa zambiri, musaiwale za matenda omwe angayambe kuwonekera, choncho pamisonkhano yoyamba, makondomu ndi abwino kwambiri.
Pali mwayi wambiri, momwe mungapangitsire wokondedwa wanu mokondweretsa mu kugonana, tikukulangizani kuti muyese ndikuyesera!