Mwinamwake, mkazi aliyense mu malingaliro ake akuyimira momwe, pamene ali nazo, mwamuna samusiya pakamwa pake, bulu, chifuwa, kapena gawo lirilonse la thupi mosamalitsa ... kuyambira ndi chala nthawi yomwe imalowa mkati ndikumaliza ndi kugonana kwathunthu.
Mwachidziwikire, ambiri adzachita manyazi ngati muwafunsanso atapanga ... inde, kugonana koyamba. Kwa ena, izi ndi zosatheka, ena amaopa kuyesa, ena amavomereza. Komabe, chithumwa chonse cha kugonana koteroko chachepetsedwa kukhala chinthu chatsopano, chachilendo.
Chikondi cha kugonana kwa abambo
Musadalire tsankho lanu lokhudza kugonana kwa abambo, kupatula ngati mutadziyesera nokha. Koma pomwepo ndikufuna kunena kuti sizingatheke kudzipatulira kwa munthu amene mumamukana kwambiri. Muyenera kukonda ndikufuna kuti mnzanuyo aganizire pa izi.
Kodi mungapeze ubwino wanji mu phunziro ili?
Choyamba, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti kugonana kwa abambo sikusowa ngakhale pakati pa akatswiri omwe amachita. Kotero, iye sadzatopa konse. Izi ndi zokoma za ubale wapamtima pakati pa abwenzi. Khulupirirani ngakhale ... fufuzani - mungasangalale, ndipo mumazifuna kwambiri ... makamaka m'maganizo! Osachepera, ngati chirichonse chikuchitidwa molondola ndi molondola, padzakhala zinthu zambiri zabwino komanso zosayembekezereka.
Chachiwiri, kugonana kwa abambo ndi mphindi yomwe imafuna kudalira kwathunthu kwa wokondedwa. Ngati zili zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ngakhale kunena kuti sizonyansa kwa wina-wapamwamba komanso kufotokozera zakuya zazithunzi, ndiye kuti mutha kukambirana za kugonana kwa mwana amene mumamukonda, ndipo amakukondani. Onetsetsani kuti ngati mutayankhula za chikondi choterechi mu ubale wanu, ndiye kuti ndinu abwino kwambiri muzithu zonse. Kachiwiri, kugonana kwa anamuna ndi chiwerengero cha kukhulupirirana.
Chachitatu, chisangalalo chochuluka ndi zosangalatsa. Pazogonana zoterozo, mapulogalamu ndi mapeto a mitsempha, omwe ali pamtengowu, akuphatikizidwa. Ndipo izi nthawi zambiri zimatanthawuza kuti mungathe kupeza chisangalalo chochuluka kuchokera ku zosangalatsa zawo. Kuwonjezera apo, magawo osokonezeka a munthuyo amatha kugawana mosangalala chisangalalo pakati pa vagin ndi anus, zomwe zimabwereza chiwerengero cha zisokonezo. Zomwe zimaperekedwa pa nthawi yoterezi zimasiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe zimakhala bwino, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala okondwa kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri amai (komanso amuna, koma ndi nkhani ina), omwe ali ndi vuto loti azitha kugonana nthawi yomweyo, amawathetsa nthawi yomweyo Zotsatira za malowa.
Chachinayi. Kugonana kwabwino ndi kosavuta. Pano tidzakambirana mbali ziwiri:
- Chitonthozo cha thupi. Izi zinachitika kuti abulu ali pafupi kwambiri ndi abambo. Choncho, palibe vuto linalake posankha udindo: Nthawi zina, zovutazo ndizokulu kwambiri.
- Kudziimira pa nthawi ya nthawi komanso kusamba, komanso mavuto osiyanasiyana. Mosiyana ndi kugonana kwachilendo kawirikawiri, mungathe kuchita izi, ngati mavuto aakulu omwe akufunika kuti awonedwe ndi wogulitsa malonda sayenera kusokoneza izi.
Chachisanu. Kugonana ndi abambo ndi njira zabwino zothandizira. Kwa mabanja ambiri, nkhani yothetsera mimba yosafuna imakhala yotseguka ndipo chiopsezo cha kuwonjezereka kumachepetsa kumverera komanso kumachepetsa kuthekera kwa chisangalalo. Pamene mutenga chisangalalo cha mtundu umenewu, simukusowa kudera nkhaŵa za mimba. Mafunso onga "ndipo mwadzidzidzi amatuluka?" Zimayenera kudetsa nkhawa kwambiri, chifukwa:
- Ukhondo umanena kuti muyenera kugonana ndi abambo m'kondomu (kupewa matenda ndi matenda).
- Ngati, ngakhale mutasankha kugonana popanda chitetezo ndikupeza chisangalalo chakuti wokondedwa wanu "adamaliza", ndiye mabakiteriya omwe angathe kuvutika, kumene ayenera kupita, amawopa. Kutsegulira mu rectum sikutha kuchititsa mimba. Ntchito yanu ndikungotulutsa mbolo mosamala pambuyo pa "kutupa".
Chachisanu ndi chimodzi. Kugonana pogonana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yosinthira moyo wa kugonana. Otsatira omwe ali pachibwenzi amakhala abwino, amadziwana bwino. Ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo mavuto ena omwe amayamba chifukwa cha kugona pabedi. Amuna awa alibe chizolowezi chogonana. Ndipo pamene iwo, akulowa gawo latsopano la maubwenzi apamtima, aganizire pachithunzi ichi, kukhutira ndi malingaliro atsopano ndi ofunika kwambiri. Kusowa kwa ntchito yake kumatulutsanso nthawi yoyamba kuti mukumva kuti dzikoli laiwalika kale komanso kuti mukondweretse kukumbukira ndi thupi lakumverera ndi kulingalira.
Chachisanu ndi chiwiri, kudziyimira kumverera kwa kukula kwa ziwalo zoberekera. Si chinsinsi kwa wina aliyense kuti kukula kwa chiberekero cha amai ndi abambo ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi chiwerengero chabwino. Chifukwa cha chipangizo chapadera cha rectum, bulu amatha kupeza chinenero chodziwika ndi munthu wamkulu kapena wamng'amba, ndipo mwamunayo alibe chochita koma amasangalala ndi kutsika komanso kumangiriza kwa bondo la munthu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti madera aakulu osayenerera ali pafupi "pakhomo" la nsalu, kotero kuti mawu akuti "kukula" amataya tanthawuzo lake: zonse zidzakhutitsidwa.
Chachisanu ndi chimodzi, chiwonetsero chatsopano. Pano tikambirana za amuna. Mwachidziwikire, palibe amene samva za kuti mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kugwiritsira ntchito anus mwa munthu ikhoza kumubweretsa iye. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe munthuyo mwiniwakeyo alili. Ngati mwamuna wanu samatsutsa makamaka, mungagwiritse ntchito bwino! Kulimbikitsana kwa anus panthawi yopanda chiwonongeko kumamulemekeza! Ndipo ngati zimabweretsa zolaula za kugonana kwa iye, kumene mumagwira ntchito yaikulu, malire anu a chiwerewere ndi kumasulidwa sangathe kuwona malire!
Kunenepa kwambiri kwa kugonana kwa abambo kapena kugonana kungakhale kovulaza?
Ndikuganiza kuti aliyense angavomereze kuti kuvulaza kungakhale kugonana kwambiri, komanso kusowa kwake. Chimodzimodzinso ndi kugonana kwa abambo, koma pakadali pano, zovutazo zimakhala mwachinsinsi posamva, osayesa zatsopano, kudziletsa kuti usangalale.
Ndipo kuwonongeka kwa mtundu umenewu wa kugonana kungagawidwe m'magulu awiri: zenizeni ndi zopeka. Zoganizira kapena zovomerezeka zikhoza kuonedwa kuti ndizoopsa kwa makhalidwe ndi psyche (pano ndi ntchito ya munthu aliyense momwe angachitire izi), thupi (monga "anus si chifukwa cha izi," kumbukirani kugonana kwachinsinsi ...) Maganizo onga "chiwerewere ndimadothi" kapena "amayerekezera munthu ndi nyama "Zidzakhalanso zopanda pake kwa munthu woganiza omwe ali ndi masomphenya ochulukirapo osiyana siyana.
Zoopsa kwenikweni ndizokhalanso zamoyo, ndi makhalidwe, kusiyana ndiko ndi andobsinovaniyu. Ponena za zaumulungu, ndiye kuti ndizomveka: pali mwayi kuyamba ksebe mu thupi la tizilombo toyambitsa matenda (makamaka kwa amuna), mwinamwake kupeza mpweya mu urinary system (zomwe ziri zoipa kwambiri), pambali, ngozi ya kuvulala ikuwonjezeka kwambiri. Zomwe zingayambitse munthu kukhala ndi chiopsezo cha mthupi, zimakhala ndi chidwi chokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa abambo, kusokonezeka kwa kugonana kwachibadwa, mwayi wopangitsa mkangano kuyanjana, umene umakhudza kwambiri maganizo a dziko lapansi.
Chiwerengero
Kugonana kwathunthu kosalekeza sikungakhale, ndizosagwirizana. Komabe, mitundu yonse ya kugonana sizingakhale choncho. Kugonana koyenera kumaphatikizapo zinthu zambiri zozizwitsa, zopanda zosangalatsa zomwe zingathe kukhala mavuto, kukangana ndi machiritso a zilonda. Ndi njira yoyenera yothetsera vutoli, kugonana kwa abambo kungabweretse gawo lalikulu la zosangalatsa ndikupatsa chisangalalo (pamodzi ndi mitundu ina) mu moyo wapamtima.
Choncho, owerenga okondedwa, musankhe nokha, mupatseni tsankho kapena munthu wokondedwa.