Kapena, monga mwayi, Kukambirana kwa Dona. Munthu amene amakhala pansi pa chilankhulochi: "Ndipatseni chifukwa - ndipo ndikutsimikizira kuti ndi ndani wanzeru kwambiri pano." Chabwino, wina aliyense - mukudziwa yemwe. Ndinali ndi mnzanga yemwe angayambe kukambirana "popanda kanthu" mu nkhondo ya maganizo. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti amvetsetsa bwanji nkhaniyi: akatha kukangana ndi zosankha zake za wothamanga wotchuka ndi mbale wake! Anadabwa, adakulungidwa pa khoma ndi zifukwa zosamvetsetseka komanso zovuta kwambiri "Koma ndikudziwa!".
Lowani mumtsutso uliwonse ndi Lady Dee - ntchito yomwe idzawonongeke pasadakhale. Choyamba, palibe zifukwa zomwe sungathe kupirira ndi chilakolako chake, ndipo kachiwiri - mudzapanga adani.
Mtsutso kwa anthu oterowo si njira yokhalira kukambirana kapena kufufuza malingaliro ochititsa chidwi, koma mapeto okha, omwe ali ndi zifukwa zifukwa ziwiri: mwina kudzidzimvera mopambanitsa ndi kusowa kwa otsutsa (omwe angayankhe modzikweza m'malo mwake), kapena kuyesa mwa njira mwadala mwachinyengo kubisa kusatsimikizika kwake ndipo, kuti ukhale wofatsa, osati malingaliro aakulu.
Ngati muli ndi "mwayi" kuti muyang'ane ndi Arbiter, chisankho chodabwitsa kwambiri chidzakhala kuchotsa chisokonezo choyambitsa kutsutsana pakufufuza choonadi chamuyaya ponena za kulimbikitsa munthu, kudzipereka yekha. Ndiye wogonjetsayo adzataya chidwi mwamsanga ndikusintha kwa munthu watsopano.
Zowononga nthawi zonse, koma ambiri mwa iwo omwe ali ndi mwayi wokwanira kufika pamapiri ena otsika a bizinesi Olympus, amafuna kuti atenge ngakhale anthu oona mtima chifukwa cha zolephera zawo zakale. Kapena, mmalo mwake, udindo umene iwo amakhala nawo sagwirizana ndi zolakalaka zawo ndipo kenako amachotsa mantha awo pa wina woopsya - kukhudzidwa maganizo chifukwa cha. Kumbukirani zokambirana za filimu "Night Fun":
- Nanga bambo anu amagwira ntchito yanji? - Chief.
- Zambiri kapena zazing'ono? - Small.
- Ndizoipa. Kukhala bwana wamng'ono kumakhala kochititsa manyazi!
Pali mafumu ena otchuka - a cad wamba omwe amawona kuti maudindo awo akukhala ngati chilolezo chokhalira opanda ulemu kwa aliyense mzere. Wachiwiri - nkhani yovuta kwambiri, osati mwachinyengo, maphunziro ochepa kuchokera kunja. Pokambirana ndi chitsanzochi, chida chanu chachikulu ndizomwe zili mkati mwake (ndi kunja!) Ulemu ndi osachepera chakukhosi: dziloleni nokha kudzipangitsa nokha, osasangalala. Ngati boorishness kwa iye ndi chimwemwe chokha m'moyo, amatha kumvetsa chisoni.
Nkhani ya Dobrolyubov idzakhala ndi moyo kosatha! Ndikuvomereza, nthawizonse ndinkachita manyazi ndi chidziwitso cha wotsutsa wodabwitsa uyu: lingaliro lotereli, monga kukoma mtima, lingagwirizane ndi mtundu wake wotani? N'zochititsa chidwi kuti anthu ochita masewera amatsutsa ziweruzo zawo zosangalatsa monga chikhumbo chofuna kupanga dziko kukhala malo abwino.
"Mu diresi iyi, ndinu olemera kwambiri!", "Simukusokonezeka lero." Mavuto? "," O, ndizovuta zanji zomwe mukuziona! " - tcheru "Dobrolyubovs" kite akuwoneka pang'ono chabe kuwoneka, ndipo nthawi zina chosowa chosaoneka. Poyang'ana, zonse zimawoneka bwino komanso zopanda chilungamo: bwenzi labwino likuyang'ana za kupezeka kwa mtundu wanu ndi chikhalidwe chanu. Ngakhale ... Kodi ndizochitika nthawi zambiri komanso kumakhala ngati akuchita?
Ndi chithandizo cha kutsutsidwa mu kukula kwa umunthu, kudzidalira kudzidalira, nthawi zambiri amuna odzidalira otetezeka. "Inu mumachita zonse zolakwika!", "Ndipo wanga wakale anali wokongola kuposa iwe!" - Mawu oterewa akuvulazidwa molimbika. Komabe, msungwana wamng'ono amaganiza kuti kumbuyo kwao amadziŵa kwambiri za iye mwini ndipo ali ndi chilakolako choletsa mkaziyo mwa njira iliyonse.
"Simungatsutsane!" - womenyana ndi vuto la chilungamo amakwiya.
Kuwona kuti zofuna zake sizingakhale zovuta: ndizofunikira, kusankha nthawi, kusonyeza (koma mwachidwi komanso mopanda malire) polakwika. Ndipo yang'anani zomwe zimachitika. Ngati wakhumudwitsidwa kapena akukhumudwitsidwa, zikutanthawuza kuti mukuchita ndi mtundu wina wa kudzidalira pazinthu za wina.
Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu kwa kudzidzimva ndi chiyanjano koma chipsinjo chokhala ndi ufulu wodzitcha wodzikonda kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mumagula kavalidwe katsopano komanso mosadzikuza ponena za bwenzi lanu. Msungwanayo akuyesa. Ndipo phwando likubwera ... mu diresi la kachitidwe kamodzi, koma kokha ndi mtundu wowonekera bwino ndi wodzaza ndi zowonjezereka zopangira zipangizo. Chotsatira chake, iye amachoka ngati mulungu wamkazi, ndipo mwalembedwera mumatsanzira - aliyense amadziwa kuti ndinu abwenzi!
Kuntchito The Best of the Best kungopereka malingaliro a anthu ena payekha, mu ubale waumwini - otsogolera otsogolera ndi othandizana nawo enieni. Maofesi awo ndikulephera kupanga malingaliro okha, iwo amadzibisa mwachangu chikhumbo cha utsogoleri ndi aplomb. Komanso - ndi yabwino kwambiri - kugwiritsa ntchito ntchito zopangidwa ndi ena!
Kulankhulana ndi zabwino koposa - ndi bizinesi lovuta. Ndi mnzanu wotere nthawi zonse akudikira chinyengo: simudziwa zomwe akufuna kuti azipikisana nanu nthawi ino.
Ndizomvetsa chisoni, koma nthawi zina ziwalo za psychotype zimadzuka ngakhale mnzako, kuyesedwa ndi moto, madzi ndi mkuwa wamipope - pansi pa chikoka chaumwini kapena zofooka zazing'ono. Ntchito yanu ndiyimitsa nthawi yomwe yesetsani kukugwiritsani ntchito ngati chitsimikizo chokha. Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo - kuti musagonje poyesedwa kuti mudziwonetse nokha phindu la munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi inu. Ndiponsotu, abwino ndi omwe ali mu mzimu ndi kutanthauzira, osati poyerekeza ndi ena.
Miseche ndi gulu lapadera la kudzidzimangira okha. Anthu ena samadyetsa mkate okha, amawawone maso awo ndi "masters". Kudziwa kuti mmodzi yekha amadziwika (mmodzi) ndi chinsinsi chobisika, nthawi zambiri chimapatsa munthu yemwe ali ndi ulamuliro waukulu m'maso mwake.
"Tiyeni tipite pambali, ndikuuzani za Vasechkina zotero ..." - poyang'ana mozama, "telegraph" yomwe ikudziwika bwino ikufalitsidwa. Ndipo modzichepetsa mumachotsa: mlingo wa chidwi ndikusowa zolakwika! Mphindi zochepa inu mukudziwa kale chikondi ndi ntchito zomwe zasintha pa malo anu. Pamene mukukumba kuchuluka kwa uthenga wolandiridwa, "telegraph" imakhutira kwambiri (inanenedwa!) Ndipo ndikuyang'ana mukufunafuna womvera watsopano.
Sindidzabisala, nthawi zina kukhala ndi miseche pafupi nayo kungakhale kothandiza: ndi nkhani zochepa zomwe angakuuzeni. Ngakhale kuti pali vuto lalikulu: mfundo zake sizowesedwa kawirikawiri ndipo nthawi zambiri zimatulutsidwa, chifukwa cha mawu ofiira. Choncho, ndi bwino kusunga malingaliro akutali. Choyamba, kupezeka kwa miseche sikumakhudza mbiri yanu. Chachiwiri, ndani akudziwa gawo lanu la moyo wanu lomwe lingatumikire ngati mwayi wa nkhani zotsatila zotsatirazi? "Telegraphs" samamvetsa yemwe mnzako ali, ndi yemwe mdani ali, ndi kukupera mafupa kwa aliyense.
Tonse ndife kutali ndi zoyenera, ndipo timalakwitsa, ndizobadwa mwa ife enieni. Zimakhala kuti chimodzi mwa zina zomwe timachita kapena mawu athu zingakhumudwitse munthu wina. Nthawi zina zimakhala zabwino, nthawi zina sizowona.
Anthu ena amavutika kwambiri ndi khalidwe la anthu omwe amawazungulira omwe sagwirizana ndi malingaliro awo, kuti amazindikira khalidwe lochepa chabe monga vuto. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo amapita kumagulu ankhondo.
Kukhumudwitsa (ndi kuya kwa kuya kwa moyo) munthu wodandaula kwambiri akhoza kuchita chirichonse. Osati mawonekedwe, moni kapena miseche yochokera kumbali: "Mukudziwa, koma anandiuza kuti simukukonda L". "Njira yabwino kwambiri yotetezera ndi kuukira," Raider wovulazidwa amasankha ndipo nthawi yomweyo amadabwa ndi nkhani zotsutsana. Muzinthu zamalonda palinso zipsyinjo zazing'ono m'makalata a munthu wolakwira, komanso zamatsenga ngati zopanda pake pambuyo, komanso zisanafike pamwamba.
Zimasangalatsa, koma omwe amati amatsutsana ndi zowononga nthawi zambiri samakayikira kuti ali ndi "kulakwitsa" ndipo amadabwa kwambiri ndi khalidwe lachiwerewere la munthu wosadziwika. Kulingalira kosamveka sikuphunzitsidwa ndi wina aliyense: sangathe kuwerengera zomwe mawu anu kapena chiwonetsero chanu chingakwiyitse chidani cha munthu.
Pali njira imodzi yokha yotulukira, ndipo, tsoka, pokhapokha atatha kunena: moona kulankhula ndi osakhutira. Musamenyane, musati mutenge, koma yesetsani kupeza zomwe mwakhumudwitsa. Kawirikawiri njira yotereyi ndi njira yabwino yothetsera nzeru - Avengers okhawo amaopa kufotokoza momveka bwino ubale ndi imfa.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti kunyengerera kungathenso kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati kudzipereka. Osati kokha kukwaniritsa nawo cholinga chenichenicho, komanso kungokhala ngati katswiri wodziwika pa miyoyo komanso munthu wodziwa zambiri.
Monga pali otsutsa omwe amafufuza molakwika aliyense ndi chirichonse, kotero pali anthu omwe saganizira za moyo wawo popanda kudzipusitsa nthawi zonse (akatswiri opanga mafilimu monga anthu a PR, ogulitsa ndi otsatsa malonda osiyanasiyana, ndithudi, samakhudzidwa ndi gululi). Amapereka modzipereka ndipo nthawi zina amadziwa kuti palibe chifukwa choyamika. Iwo amatha kuyamikira kusasankhidwa bwino kwa tsitsi kapena zovala ndi kupereka phokoso lokhazikika pa polojekiti yolephera kuntchito. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti kunyengerera ndikunyoza kwambiri kuti cholinga cha ubwenzi ndi interlocutor. Ndipo izi nthawi zambiri zimagwirizana ndi zenizeni!
Komabe, mwachilungamo, ndizofunikira kusiyanitsa ma subspecies ena. Anthu ena okhumudwa amakhala osamvetsetseka kwa anthu omwe ali okonzeka kunena matamando ambiri, ngati atsekedwa pobwezera ndikuyamikira zoyesayesa zawo.
"Lerolino ndiwe wabwino kwambiri kuposa kale lonse!" - amakuuzani mnzanu panthawiyo, pamene mukudandaula mukakonzera pagalasi mtundu wobiriwira wa nkhope yanu ndipo mumakhala wofiira usiku utatha. Choyamba mukuchita ndi kukwiya ndi kutsutsidwa ndikunyengerera. Musachedwe. Mwinamwake bambo uyu akufuna kungokupangitsani inu kumverera bwino, ngakhale ndi chithandizo cha mabodza enieni.
Wodzidalira, wachikondi komanso wosadetsedwa ndi chikondi ndi chidwi, anthu samafunsa mafunso oletsa kupondereza ena - alibe chochitira nsanje, chifukwa ali ndi makhalidwe awo okwanira kuti adziwe bwino.
Kutsimikizika pazinthu za ena ndiko kutaya mwadala mwadala, kumangopangitsa chinyengo chokhacho cha kupambana. Munthu adzalimbikitsidwa ndi malo ake ndipo sangathe kuchotsa maofesiwa.