Lero, anthu amafuna kuti akhalebe wokhulupirika, wokhulupirika, woona mtima. Kwa zaka mazana ambiri, akazi adagonjera udindo wa mnzawo wofanana ndi mwamuna. Ndipo mu kuyesetsa kwawo iwo apindula zambiri. Mayi wamakono alibe munthu aliyense wochepa: ali ndi ufulu womwewo, ali ndi mwayi womwewo ndi zotsatira za ntchito yake, amasonyeza zosangalatsa zochepa. M'mayiko ena - omwe amalimbikitsa chikhulupiliro chachisilamu - ndithudi, pali miyambo yakale, momwe mkaziyo amakhalabe munthu wachiwiri ndipo akuitanidwa kubweretsa zopindulitsa kwa munthuyo. Komabe, kuthetsa zinsinsi za njira yopanda chidwi ya Kummawa sizinali zotheka kwa zaka mazana ambiri, motero sikunganenedwe kuti akazi amakono a ku Asia sanapitirire awo oyambirira kale m'njira zambiri.
Koma molondola mungathe kuyankhula momwe amayi adasinthira mmalo mwa anthu, kupita ku Islam, omwe ali ovomerezeka okha. Chithunzi chawo chinasintha kwambiri: chodzazidwa ndi gloss yofashoni, chodzazidwa ndi kunyada kwa zomwe zinali zitapindula ndi kuwonjezereka kochokera kosalekeza. Pamodzi ndi mkaziyo, gulu lonse lathunthu lasintha. Chotsatira chake, dziko linayamba kuyankhula za nyengo yatsopano, chinthu china chofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa munthu, nyengo ya kufanana. Kotero kodi mkazi wamakono ndi weniweni ayenera kukhala wotani m'dziko lino?
Mkazi wamakono sakugwirizananso ndi fano la heroine, yogwira ndi wofooka.
Osati chenichenicho kuti kusintha uku ndibwino. Osati kwenikweni kuti apangitsa kuti azimayiwo akhale osavuta. Koma zoona zake ndizo: M'mabuku amakono, mkazi sangakwanitse kudzipereka kwathunthu ku mphamvu ya amuna omwe ali odalirika. Ayenera kukhala wodzidalira. Ichi ndi cha iye - chosowa cha maganizo. Ndipo mosiyana ndi munthu yemwe, mwachinyengo, amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi luso, mkazi sangathe kutsimikizira kuti iye ndi woyenera kupatulapo chifukwa chopeza zotsatira zomwe akufuna. Inde, ndipo munthu wamakono alibe chidwi kwambiri ndi mkazi yemwe sangathe kumuthandiza ndi kukambirana naye kapena kukambirana zina mwa ntchito zake. Chifukwa chake, udindo wa chidole chopanda chitetezo cha mkazi wamakono tsopano sichikutha.
Komabe, chenicheni chakuti funso la makhalidwe omwe mkazi wamakono ayenera kukhala nalo, mwachiwiri anawuka, akulankhula kale za kusintha kwaokha kwa theka ladziko lapansi. Kodi kunali kofunika kwa oyambirira omwe anali okongola a masiku ano kuti ayang'anire kupeza yankho la funsoli? Inde, ayi: iwo anaphunzitsidwa malamulo a makhalidwe pakati pa anthu kuyambira ali aang'ono, kubzala ulamuliro wamwamuna ndi utsogoleri wawo wosagwedezeka. Ndipo pamaso pa mkazi wamakono njira zonse zatseguka - mu ndale, mu chilamulo, mu ntchito za kulenga. Ndipo palibe paliponse pali malamulo kapena malamulo: zikhoza kukhala ngati zidzakwaniritsa zotsatira zabwino zokha. Kutsilizitsa: Mkazi wamakono ayenera kuyesa zokhumba ndikupanga zisankho zazikulu ndi zoyenera. Ndipo izo ziyenera kukhala zothetsera iwoeni, kwa iwoeni ndi kwa iwoeni.
Mkazi wamakono ayenera kukhala wachikazi.
Akazi amakhala opindulitsa amalonda, amapeza zotsatira zosayerekezereka m'maboma apamwamba, ngakhale m'maseĊµera azimayi mwa njira iliyonse sali otsika kwa amuna. Ku mbali imodzi, iyi ndi sitepe yaikulu: monga munthu, mkazi wabwino ndi wolemekezeka, amunawo amazindikira. Kumbali ina, iyi ndi ngozi yomwe ilipo muchitidwe chiri chonse pamene m'mphepete mwachotsedwa. Ndipo apa zolepheretsa zonse zimafalikira kukhala zogawanika ndipo palibe kusiyana konse pakati pa gawo la ntchito za mkazi ndi mwamuna.
Ndipotu, zonse zazing'ono zomwe mayiyo adzipulumutsira yekha (kapena m'malo mwake, ndi zachilengedwe zomwe zinamupangitsa iye) zimangokhala ndi kuthekera kokhala ndi ana komanso kuthetsa kusintha. Ndiyeno, otsiriza ndi zaka, naonso, akazi atayika. Koma mkazi - wakale, tsogolo, weniweni - ayenera kukhala mkaziyo. Ndi makhalidwe ake abwino a seductress weniweni, mafilimu amathawa, mayi wachikondi ndi mkazi wokhulupirika. Apo ayi, kuchokera ku makhalidwe apadera a mkazi, amayi okha adzakhalapo. Ndipo patapita nthawi, atayika mu kuchuluka kwa ntchito za amuna ndi izo. Ndiyeno anthu adzalangidwa. Chifukwa chake, pakati pa makhalidwe omwe mkazi wamakono ayenera kukhala nawo, osadziwika kuti ndi mkazi ndi wofunika kwambiri. Pakuti popanda izo, chikondi chimatha.
Mfundo za akazi amakono.
Ndicho chifukwa chake akazi ndi okongola komanso odabwitsa kuti amadzifanizira okha ndizo maonekedwe a mlangizi wanzeru komanso mbuye wamtengo wapatali, bwenzi lodalirika komanso mkulu wamtendere, wokonda zachikondi komanso woyang'anira nyumba. Momwe amatha kumvetsetsa izi kwa zaka zambiri, amuna. Kodi mzimayi wa bizinesi angakhale bwanji momveka bwino komanso wosakayika pakulongosola polojekiti yake ndikukhalabe osamvetsetseka komanso osadziwika - mu ubale ndi mwamuna wake? Kodi mayi amatha bwanji kugwira ntchito zapakhomo ndi kukongoletsa nyumba ya mnzako ndi nsalu yaikulu yokongoletsera yokongoletsa? Kodi wophunzira amatha bwanji kupita kumabwalo a usiku, ndikuphunzira "mwangwiro", ndikuyankhulana ndi mafani awiri awiri?
Mosakayikira, mayi ali ndi zaka zambiri akukula bwino. Koma izi si malire. Ndipo mochuluka kwambiri-palibe chifukwa choyimira. Mayi weniweni amafuna nthawi zonse, fano labwino, loyenera. Koma pali zizindikiro zingapo zomwe zingathandize mkazi aliyense kumvetsetsa ngati atha kudziganizira yekha kuchokera kwa iye, kapena adakali ndi zambiri zoti azigwira. Pali asanu mwa iwo.
1. Mayi weniweni wamakono samabisala maluso ake, koma sazidzitamandira. Mofananamo, amayamikira kupambana ndi kulephera. Koma nthawi iliyonse amakumbukira kuti zonse ziwiri zapambana ndizobodza komanso zosagwirizana.
2. Mayi weniweni wamakono ayenera kulemekeza ena. Koma okhawo omwe ali oyenerera ulemu wake. Sikuti amamuyamikira kampani, koma gulu la amuna limamuyamikira nthawi zonse.
3. Mayi weniweni wamakono ayenera kukhala ndi luso lomaliza kuwerenga. Pokhala nyenyezi ya kukula kwake koyamba, saopa kuti pamapeto pake amadzizungulira ndi anzake (abwenzi aakazi, anzako, anzake) ofanana nawo. Apo ayi, moyo wake sizosangalatsa.
4. Mkazi wamakono ndi wokongola komanso kunja, komanso mkati. Iye samakhala ndi nsanje ndipo amadziwa momwe angaphunzire mphindi iliyonse. Kutetezeka kapena kudzipambanitsa kudzilungamitsa sikuli kwa iye. Iwo samawalandira iwo ndipo samawalimbikitsa iwo kwa ena.
5. Ndipo, ndithudi, mkazi wamakono wamakono ndi wochenjera, waluso, wokondweretsa. Monga oyambirira ake. Ndi yekhayo amene amadziwa izi ndipo, mosiyana ndi mibadwo yakale, sadzabisa ulemu wake kwa omvera.