Kujambula anthu, kukonda ena

Chikhumbo chokopa mwamuna chinawonekera ndi mkazi woyamba. Luso lachinyengo laperekedwa kwa zaka mazana ambiri, chifukwa sikokwanira kufuna kunyengerera, likufunikanso kuchita. Ndipo kuonetsetsa kuti munthuyo sakhumudwa, ayesedwa kamodzi. Sikokwanira kuoneka kuti ndibwino, muyenera kukhala monga choncho. Tidzakambirana zofunikira za luso lachinyengo, lomwe linapangidwa ndi mayesero a anthu osiyanasiyana. Kujambula kwa anthu, kukwatira, timaphunzira kuchokera m'buku lino. Ndani sakudziwa kuti anthu "amakonda ndi maso"? Ndipo ngati mwasankha kunyenga mwamuna, muyenera kuyang'ana bwino, kuti mutha kukondweretsa maso omwewo. Osati kokha kuti aziwoneka bwino lero, koma inu nthawizonse mumafunikira kuwoneka bwino. Kuti mupange chithunzi chabwino, mukufunikira zinthu zazing'ono. Sikokwanira kukhala ndi chiwerengero chochepa komanso nkhope yokongola, muyenera kukhala wangwiro m'zinthu zonse. Ndipotu, sitikudziwa kumene kuona koyamba kwa munthu amene mumamufuna ndikukuponyera? Makhalidwe, mawonekedwe, fungo, tsitsi, maonekedwe, pedicure, manicure ndizo zigawo zazikulu za fano lanu lakunja.

Ngati mkazi akumva wokongola, ndiye kuti anthu oyandikana nawo amamva. Ndipotu, mkazi wokonzekera bwino amamuyang'anitsitsa ndipo ntchito yathu ndikutsimikiza kuti maganizo athu akuchedwa, malinga ndi momwe tingathere ndipo sitiyenera kuwonetsa maonekedwe komanso dziko lathu lamkati. Muyenera kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro mwa kugonana nokha, ndipo musaganize kuti muli ndi zokwanira, palibe malire kwa kugonana, ndipo ndi bwino kwambiri. Apa chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti simusokoneza kugonana ndi zonyansa. Musaope kuwonetsa maliseche a thupi lanu, komabe muyenera kulingalira za chilengedwe chakuzungulira. Musati muzivala siketi yomwe ikuwoneka ngati lamba ndi pamwamba yomwe ili ndi masentimita angapo a chifuwa chanu. Izi ndizonyansa, zomwe zingathe kuwopsya kusiyana ndi kukopa. Lolani kuti likhale bulali lomwe limaphimba chifuwa chonse, koma ndi lotseguka, nsalu yayitali yokhala ndi mdulidwe wambiri. Ganizirani malingaliro a munthu wosirira, ndipo mosamvetsetseka muwatsogolere malingaliro amenewa kwa ziwalo za thupi lanu zomwe mumaganiza kuti ndi zokongola.

Awoneni momwe mungagwire mwendo wanu mwangozi, ndipo atha kulingalira chomwe chimayambitsa izi. Koma popanda zovala, mawu ndi khalidwe ndizofunikira kwambiri. Sichikugwirizana ndi mawu osangalatsa ndi fano la mkazi wachigololo. Musaiwale za gait, ndipo apa chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikuti musapitirize. Ngati mkazi akugwedezeka kwambiri, izi sizingayambitse china chilichonse koma kusokonezeka. Tsindikani kuti ndinu mkazi. Zidzakhala zovuta kukhumba munthu ndi botolo la mowa wamphamvu m'dzanja lake, akulankhula "mawu osayenera", atavala mathalauza.

Musaiwale kuti chidaliro chimamverera patali, komanso musaiwale za kudzidalira kwanu. Pambuyo pa mkazi wodalirika, mwamuna angapereke dzanja pamtunda, mutsegule chitseko, pitikeni mpando ku lesitilanti, kuthandizira kuvala zovala zakunja. Koma ngakhale pano mukufunikira kuzindikira, simukufunikira kudzidalira kudzikuza. Khala wachikazi, yesetsani kukhala "wofewa ndi wofiira", khalani ndi ma skirts a mathalauza. Lembani kwathunthu fano la mkazi wosirira ndikupanga chithunzichi kukhala ndondomeko ya moyo wanu. Mudzanyengerera mwamuna osati usiku umodzi, koma mukufuna kukhala naye moyo wanu wonse.

Musamachite mantha kukonda wina. Kukopana ndimasewero otere, chifukwa cha kudzidalira kwanu, ndipo kumaphatikizapo munthu wokondwa kwambiri. Chifukwa cha kukwatulidwa kotereku, kukhudzana koyamba kosaoneka kosaoneka, komwe kudzatiloleza kuti tipitirizebe kukhumudwitsa. Musazengereze kukhala woyambitsa gawo lina la chiyanjano, ndipo amuna akuyamikira izo. Tonsefe ndife osiyana kwambiri ndipo ndi zovuta kuti mwamuna amvetsetse mkazi, ndipo ngati mutayamba kukulitsa zokhumba zanu, simukusowa kukambirana zachindunji, ndiye munthu adzathokoze chifukwa chake. Pangani chizolowezi cha moyo wanu, chokhumba, musalole kusewera nthawi imodzi. Poyamba, lolani maloto anu, yesetsani, muzikonda nokha. Ndipo pamene mwakwanitsa munthu wofunayo, khalani naye nthawi zonse.

Atsikana ozindikira amadziwa kuti sikofunikira kuti adye chakudya, thukuta la masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti adziwe wotchuka 90-60-90 kuti ayendetse munthu wamisala. Zokwanira kudziwa zinsinsi pang'ono za luso lachinyengo ndi chinyengo ndipo ndikwanira kukhala kumwetulira kokongola. Ndiyeno mutha kukonda munthu aliyense.

Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi luso lachinyengo
1. Maso ali m'diso
Timakonda kwambiri kuyang'anitsitsa zithunzi zakutchire m'mafilimu, koma mphamvu za malingaliro pamoyo sizinagwiritsidwe ntchito nthawi zambiri. Ngati mukukangana ndi munthu, yesetsani kuyang'ana naye maso kwa mphindi zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndiye kumwetulira ndi kuyang'ana patali. Ntchitoyi ikhoza kubwerezedwa kokha kwa ora kuchokera pa 5 mpaka 10. Wopereka chidziwitso chachikulu ndi maso, ndipo samanyengedwa.

2. Sungitsani
Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri mu luso lachinyengo ndi kumwetulira. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kusekerera kumapangitsa mkazi kukhala wokongola kwambiri, ndipo munthu amatha kupulumutsidwa. Ichi ndi chimwemwe, kutseguka, ubale. Sungani mobwerezabwereza. Geisha, mvetserani pambuyo pa mawu onse a munthu. Ndipo kumwetulira kwawo ndi chizindikiro cha ulemu.

3. Kukhala wekha
Alla Pugacheva atanena kuti nthawi zonse amayesa kukhala yekha, ndipo tsopano ndikuzindikira kuti ndiyenera kusewera ndekha. Musayese ntchito ya wina, simukusowa, mutenge nokha.

4. Samalani
Mvetserani ku chirichonse chimene interlocutor akukuuzani. Amuna ali ngati amenewo, amatha kumvetsera, kapena amatha kulankhula. Onetsani mwamuna wanu kuti mumagwirizanitsa kufunika kwa mawu ake onse ndi kumvetsetsa.

5. Mutu wamutu
Mu filimu iliyonse imasonyeza - kumangophweka kwa mutu kumbali. Yesani kuyang'ana njira yanu pamapewa anu. Tembenuzani mutu wanu ndikuyang'anirani paphewa lanu, ndipo pang'onopang'ono muziyang'anitsitsa. Mudzawona chilichonse pamaso pake. Yesetsani kutero pamaso pa galasilo, ndiyeno mudzachita bwino.

6. Kukongola
Ngati simukumva bwino pa zokambirana, yesetsani kudziuza kuti ndinu wokongola kwambiri. Iye amangoyang'anani pa inu. Ndiye bwanji mukukayikira kuti ndinu wokongola kwambiri.

7. Milomo yovuta
Madzi, milomo yofiira amaonedwa ngati chizindikiro cha kunyenga, unyamata komanso kugonana. Ngati simukukonda milomo yamoto, yesani uchi pang'ono kapena muzitsuka pamilomo yanu. Kusamala kwakukulu kumaperekedwa kwa kayendetsedwe ka pakamwa pamene akuyankhula, kotero iwo ayenera kutsindika.

8. Phazi pamapazi
Nsapato zokhala ndi zidendene pamapazi anu, kenaka phazi lanu likhale pamapazi anu. Amuna onga awa ndipo mosamalitsa akufuna kuwona zambiri.

9. Mapazi
Ngati mumayankhula, muyenera kuyesa mtunda wa pakati pa masentimita 15. Simukufunikira kuwafalitsa kwambiri kapena kufinya miyendo yanu.

10. Maonekedwe a nkhope
Sinthani ndi manja ndi zochitika za interlocutor yake. Njirayi imagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri. Khalani mawonekedwe ake ndi kusinkhasinkha. Mukasinthasintha mpweya wake, malo ake, munthuyo amamvetsa pa msinkhu wosamvetsetseka womwe muli nawo kutalika kwake.

Tsopano ife tikudziwa chomwe chingakhoze kukhala luso la kunyenga kwa amuna, kukwatira. Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito malangizo awa ndipo mutheka. Ndiyeno munthu wanu adzakhala pamapazi anu.