Amakhulupirira kuti kukopa ndi njira yoyankhulana, kuyambira nthawi yokopa chidwi cha munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu. Chiwonetsero cha chidwi chimachitika chifukwa cha manja ena, mawonekedwe a nkhope, kayendetsedwe ka kayendedwe kake, kudziwika kwambiri mu maganizo monga chilankhulo cha thupi. Kawirikawiri izi zimabweretsa zotsatira zambiri kuposa zokambirana.
Choncho, tiyeni tione njira zimenezi mwatsatanetsatane.
Ndiye kodi mtsikana amamukopa motani?
Choyamba, muyenera kudzifotokozera nokha kuti ndi amuna ati omwe ali okongola kwambiri. Ayenera kuika chidwi chawo pa iwo. Muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha zomwe zimamukopa kwambiri: mawonekedwe kapena dziko lake la mkati. Kawirikawiri atsikana, mofanana ndi amuna enieni, amangoyang'ana zowoneka kunja, akuiwala za moyo wa munthu komanso makhalidwe ake. Ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Choncho, munthu sayenera kuyang'ana pa zizindikiro zakunja, chifukwa amuna enieni nthawi zambiri amabisika osati pansi pa mask. Pamene akunena, mwamuna ayenera kukhala wokongola kwambiri kuposa nyani. Koma ndithudi simusowa kuti mupite mozama ndikuyang'ana chimodzimodzi. Azimayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti akamamumvera chisoni kwambiri, amakhala ndi moyo wosankhidwa. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zosiyana. Kuti mumve tanthauzo lenileni la mtundu wa munthu, akatswiri a maganizo akukulangizani kuti mutenge mapepala ndikulembapo za makhalidwe achimuna, omwe kale anawagawa m'magulu atatu. Gulu loyambirira liyenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe omwe mkazi sangathe kuchita, yachiwiri ndi makhalidwe abwino, ndipo lachitatu ndilovomerezeka ... Akatswiri a maganizo amavomereza kuti nthawi zonse aziwongolera mndandandawu pamene wofunsira dzanja ndi mtima akuwonekera pamoyo wanu.
Chachiwiri, m'pofunikira kuti muyanjanenso ndi munthu, ndipo pokhapokha yesetsani kukopa chidwi cha mnyamata. Simukusowa kunena nthawi zonse kuti ndizobaya, ndi nthawi yochepetsetsa ndipo khungu ndilobvuta .... kotero simungamuchepetse. Pofuna kukopa mnyamata, iye safunika kumamatira kumbuyo, kumumvera chisoni kapena kuchita manyazi ndi chinachake. Ndikofunika kukhulupirira kuti m'moyo mwanu padzakhala munthu yemwe adzakutsatirani pa magulu onse omwe akuchokera mndandandawu. Ndipo alipo, ndikukhulupirira ine. Kawirikawiri, vuto ndilokuti sitimapereka ndondomeko yoyenera ndipo sitikuyang'ana anthu omwe amabwera kwathu. Chotsani malingaliro ndi zolakwika zonse. Uwu ndi ntchito yanu yoyamba kuti mukope chidwi cha munthu watsopano. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuvala pepala malingaliro onse oipa, ndikuponyera pamoto, ngati kuti mukuwauza. Izi zidzakulimbikitsani, pakuti pamene mukulankhulana ndi munthu simungakhululukidwe kuti mukhale wokhumudwa ndikukhumudwa. Khalani okondwa komanso omasuka. Ichi ndi chothandiza kwambiri pakukopa chidwi cha amuna.
Chachitatu, kumbukirani kuti kudzichepetsa ndi mdani wanu, zomwe zimalepheretsa msungwana kutengeka ndi chidwi cha mnyamata, kumutengetsa ... Kukhazikika kumabweretsa mantha, kuopa kukanidwa, ndipo sikungapangitse chabwino chilichonse! Ngati mnzanu watsopano samapita kulankhulana, sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu woipa kapena woopsya, ayi, simunakonde. Pambuyo pake, sikuti anthu onse amawoneka okongola kwa inu. Ndiye bwanji mukudziimba mlandu? Khalani nokha ndipo mnyamata wanu ndithudi adzabwera kwa inu. Pitirizani kufufuza. Tengani zoopsa ndipo musaope!
Pambuyo pa zonsezi, mutha kuchoka pakhomo panu ndikupita kukafunafuna bwenzi lanu. Ikhoza kukhala malo alionse, kuchokera mumsewu mpaka chochitika chilichonse. Ndizothandiza m'zinthu zonse kuti muzipita ku magulu a masewera, komwe nthawi zambiri mulibe amuna. Pitani kawirikawiri ndikupita ku maphwando. Auzeni anzanu kuti tsopano ndinu mfulu ndipo mwakonzekera misonkhano yatsopano. Ndipo mwinamwake iwo ali ndi ofuna?
Chachinai, ziwoneka, pokhala pakati pa chipinda. Koma kumbukirani lamulo la golidi lachikondi - mawonekedwe abwino.
Amuna samavomereza, ndipo amayi samadziwa kuti amakopeka ndi fungo la amayi, komwe amapita, monga mbewa kuti tchizi. Ndipo kumwetulira. O, inde! Kumbukirani choonadi chimodzi: kumwetulira kwanu kumagwira ntchito zodabwitsa. Sungulani mobwerezabwereza ndipo dziko lapansi lidzakutometsani inu mobwerezabwereza.