N'chiyani chimatilepheretsa kusangalala? Kukhala wamanyazi, kusakonda thupi lanu, zoikidwiratu zozizwitsa, kugwirizana kwa mnzanu ... Mndandanda wa mayankho ku funso ili ukhoza kulembedwa kosatha. Komabe, chifukwa chachikulu chosakhutira chiri mu chitetezo chathu. Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuti musakhale ndi makompyuta ogona? Ndipo kodi tingathe ngakhale kuphunzira izi? Mungathe! Werengani nkhaniyi pansipa.
Mutha kuweruza makolo kwa nthawi yaitali komanso mobwerezabwereza (iwo sanaphunzitse bwino, sanaphunzitse chikhalidwe), dziko limene tinabadwira (mu USSR, monga momwe tikudziwira, panalibe kugonana), ndipo ndithudi dziko lonse lakumadzulo, kulimbikitsa lingaliro lachikondi chachithupithupi, koma zoona : Tonsefe tili m'njira imodzi ndikumangidwa ndi zolakwika. Malinga ndi kufufuza osadziwika, amayi 60% a ku Russia anadzimva kuti ndi olakwa kamodzi pa moyo wawo chifukwa cha zosangalatsa zomwe analandira, 55% samafuna kukonda chikondi, 30% amaonera mafilimu opanga zolaula kukhala "zosangalatsa zachiwerewere," ndipo 80% amaganiza za chiwerengero chawo panthawi yogonana ... Kuwonjezera pa malingaliro a chikhalidwe cha umunthu makhalidwe a kulera kwa wina aliyense wa ife (wina anakulira m'banja lachipembedzo kwambiri, wina analibe bambo kapena amayi, wina kuyambira ubwana anawerengedwa ndi nkhani zachikondi ndi nthano za akalonga ...), ndi mudzapeza wofunsira kukachezera pabedi osati wopenga fufuzani ndi sexologist, koma neuropsychiatrist. Tiyeni tiyese kupeza zomwe zikukulepheretsani kukhala opanda machitidwe ogona ndikusangalala ndi kugonana ndendende kwa inu ...
Ndimadzikonda ndekha
Izi ndi zomwe amayi athu, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi athu satiphunzitsa. Pakalipano, akatswiri a zamaganizo amati: kuvomereza nokha ndi thupi lanu ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti pakhale chitukuko chogwirizana cha munthu aliyense. Kodi simukukonda kujambula zithunzi? Musalole kuti mugule zinthu zanu zokha, nthawi zonse mumakulungidwa ndi zikhomo ndi matayala pamphepete mwa nyanja, panyumba mukupita kumalo otsetsereka (kuti muwoneke mopepuka) komanso muzigonana mu bokosi (apo ayi mabere anu sakuwoneka bwino) ndipo musati muzitsuka? Ngati munayankha inde inde mafunso angapo, simukukonda nokha ndi thupi lanu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti palibe munthu amene angakuyamikire. Tchutchutchu, koma zoona: munthu amaganiza za iwe momwe umadzikondera wekha. Anasiyidwa nokha pakhomo, yendende mozungulira nyumba muli wamaliseche. Osangoyang'ana pang'onopang'ono pagalasi, musati muphatikize kapena muphunzire mimba yoyenda. Muyenera kuiwala kuti muli wamaliseche. Dziwani kuti muli omasuka m'thupi lanu ndipo simukukoka zovala. Kusamba ndi mafuta onunkhira, kufalikira pa zokometsera bwino, kugona pabedi ndi kuganizira za kugonana. Mwa njira, maliseche adzakuthandizani kuthetsa nkhawa, kumvetsetsa kugonana kwanu ndi kukonda maonekedwe anu. Khwerero lotsatira ndi nudunji wodziphatikizana. Lolani kuti thupi lanu lisakhale langwiro - sitimakondedwa chifukwa cha ulemu, koma ndi zovuta zowopsya! Chinthu china chofunikira ndi nkhani ya inu nokha mwa munthu wachitatu. Mwamtima kapena pamapepala tidziwonetseni nokha ngati wolemba nkhani ya chikondi akanachita. Limbikitsani mphamvu zanu (mabere akulu, mapulogalamu okongola, chiuno cholimba) ndi kuwalola kuti ofooka apite.
Malamulo Osangalatsa
Komabe, chinthu chachikulu chimene chimatilepheretsa kumasuka, osati ngakhale kukana thupi lanu, koma maganizo a chikhalidwe omwe amakhazikitsidwa ndi anthu komanso makolo. Mungathe kuvomereza ndikugonana, ngati kuti mukukwaniritsa ntchito (mu flannel nightie, popanda kuwala komanso kokha mmalo mwaumishonale) ... Mungathe, mutatha kuwerenga magazini, mudziwonetse nokha ngati mkango wamphongo (zolakalaka zolakalaka, chilakolako chokhazikika ndi latex) ... Ndipo mukhoza yesetsani kupeza nokha golidi kutanthauza ndikumvetsa zomwe mukufunikira kuchokera kwa kugonana kwa inu.
Palibe chikhalidwe chonse cha kugonana bwino. Ndipo momwe mumaphunzirira kuti musakhale ndi zovuta pa bedi ndi inu-bizinesi yanu. Chifukwa chake, ndi zopusa kusintha zinthu zina. Ndizotheka kuti mumakonda malo amishonale, ayi. Koma ichi si chifukwa chosiya kuyesa. Kodi mumakonda zovala zamkati? Mkulu! Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti izi ndizo kusankha kwanu, osati msonkho wopanga mafashoni kapena malangizo ochokera kwa magazini ndi atsikana. Muzogonana, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuwona mtima ndi ufulu. Pali awiri okha a inu, mumadziwana matupi ndi osakayika - ndicho chinthu chachikulu.
Choipitsitsa kwambiri, ngati muli ndi malingaliro olakwira panthawi yogonana. Ngati mumangokhalira kudandaula chifukwa simukufika nthawi zonse, dziwani kuti ndinu wokonda kwambiri komanso nthawi zina panthawi yogonana mukuganiza kuti mukuchita chinachake choipa, muyenera kudzigwira nokha. Ndi bwino kutembenukira ku katswiri, chifukwa, mwinamwake, zomwe zimayambitsa zovuta zoterozo zimabisika ali mwana ndipo popanda kuphunzira zinthu zakale zomwe simungathe kuzichita. Cholinga chanu ndi kuzindikira kuti mulibe ngongole kwa wina aliyense. Zosangalatsa zanu m'njira zambiri zimadalira luso la mnzanuyo, simusowa kuti muwonetse zozizwitsa zolimbitsa nthawi zonse, komanso kuti musadzisangalale ndi zopusa! Pamapeto pake, ngakhale mutakulira m'banja lachipembedzo, palibe buku lopatulika lomwe likunena kuti ndi tchimo kusangalala ndi kugonana!
Timasokoneza zolakwika.
Tiyeni tiyesere kulingalira za tsankho lofala kwambiri.
Asanalowe m'banja saloledwa. Koma ngati mukufunadi, ndiye mungathe. Inu, ndithudi, mulibe ngongole kwa wina aliyense ndipo muli ndi ufulu wokhulupirira, koma ogonana amakhulupirira kuti: amayi ambiri amatha kuvumbulutsira kugonana kwake ndi wokondedwa wake wachitatu!
VIRGINITY YAKHALA. Chinthu china chopambanitsa chopusa. Muli ndi ufulu wosankha kuti ndi liti, ndi liti ndipo mungatayike ndi ndani. Mwa njira, ngati Aurope amayamba kuchita zachiwerewere zaka 17-20, ndiye Achimereka - zaka 25-27 (ndipo sizingakhale zovuta zokhudzana ndi izi).
ZINTHU ZOYENERA - POVERTY. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye zosangalatsa kwambiri. Mwa njirayi, amayi 40% amakhala ndi chilakolako chokha chifukwa cha cunnilingus, ndipo amuna 60% amaona kuti kugonana ndibwino kwambiri.
BEDI SIKHALA MFUNDO YOKAMBIRANA. Kuntchito kapena kunyumba kwa aakazi-kumamveka. Koma ndi mnzanu woti mukambirane za kugonana (zonse zanu ndi zomwe mukuwona pazenera), sizingatheke, komanso zimafunika.
ABC ya zovuta
ALICE WONSE mu Wonderland amapezeka mwa amayi omwe akukhala m'dziko lopanda nzeru. Maloto a mgwirizano weniweni amachititsa kuti amayi asangalale ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa weniweni. COMPLEX ASSOL imasonyeza malo osadziwika a moyo wa mkazi akuyembekezera kalonga kuchokera m'nthano yomwe idzamuwonetse iye kudziko labwino, kukongola, chitonthozo. Akazi oterewa amalota kuti azitamandidwa, adazindikira, atengedwa ku dziko lalikulu. Ali pa kama amakondwera.
MESSALIN'S COMPLEX ndi obadwa mwa akazi okonda komanso achiwerewere. Amayi oterewa ndi otsimikiza kuti okondedwa ayenera kusintha ngati magolovesi. Nthawi zina lingaliro limeneli limakhala lovuta kwambiri.
Ndi TITANIUM COMPLEX, mkazi amapanga malingaliro ake fanizo la munthu woyenera, yemwe akufunafuna moyo wake wonse. Masewera a zolemba kapena ojambula amachita nawo kugonana, makamaka, panthawi yogonana mkazi amaimira munthu wina ngati mnzake.
Eroticism ndi kulakwa zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zovuta za Tristan ndi Izolda. Atsikana omwe ali ndi vutoli, akugonana kunja kwaukwati, amakumana ndi malingaliro otsutsana: mbali imodzi, kukhutira, pamzake - kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa chifukwa chophwanya malamulo omwe amadziwika nawo.