"Pang'ono sichiwerengera!".
Nkhani yomwe idalidalitsika, mwa ubale "kumbali", inapereka wokondedwa wake, chifukwa mkazi amamveka ngati chingwe chochokera ku buluu. Iye, choyamba, amamva kuti amanyengedwa mwachinyengo komanso mofanana ndi izi, ngati amakonda wokondedwa wake, amamva mantha, kutsogolo kwa tsogolo, amaopa kutaya wokondedwa wake. Koma muzochitika izi, palibe chifukwa chowopsya nthawi yambiri. Pambuyo pake, chifukwa cha mantha ndi malingaliro olakwika, mkazi, choyamba, amangoziphwanya pachabe, ndipo kachiwiri, ngakhale popanda kudzizindikira yekha, pakuumiriza munthu kuti apangitse vutoli. Malangizo athu akuphatikizapo izi: Musanayankhe funso ngati amuna akhoza kuiwala okondedwa awo chifukwa cha chilakolako chatsopano chogonana, m'pofunika kupeza chofunika kwambiri cha ubalewu "kumbali" ndi kuya kwake. Zingakhale zowonjezereka kunena, kuwulula momwe munthu amasangalatsidwa ndi mbuye wake, komanso mkazi wokondedwa kwambiri. Ngati cholinga cha chilakolako cha kugonana ndi chilakolako chosiyanitsa moyo wanu wa kugonana, "kulawa" chinachake chatsopano kapena kungoyenda "kuyendayenda kwa mzere", kuyesera kuphunzira zatsopano zogonana ndi dona wina, ndiye chifukwa cha zochitika kumeneko palibe zifukwa zapadera. Kuiwala zomwe "amayendayenda padziko lapansi mogwirizana," chifukwa cha wina watsopano, yemwe amamukonda yekha - osati china chilichonse choposa chinyengo. Ndipo mwamunayo amamvetsetsa bwino izi zonse. Kotero kuti amve phokoso chifukwa cha iye, ndithudi, prank yopanda pake, mwachipongwe, sizothandiza. Ngati, ndithudi, mkazi wokondedwa akhoza kumukhululukira iye prank uyu. Chifukwa chake, okhulupirika, atalawa "chatsopano" chatsopano, adzayenda, amayenda ndikubwerera, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika. Pambuyo pake, tonse timakumbukira mawu a nyimbo yomwe kale idali yotchuka: "Zing'onozing'ono sizikuwerengedwa ...". Vomerezani, koma ndi momwemo.
"Ndipita, ndikupeza chimwemwe ndi chikondi!".
Nambala yachiwiri: Mwamuna wamwamuna kumbaliyi ndi chifukwa chokhalira "pakatikati cha golidi" omwe banja lawo linataya mu chiyanjano chawo. Inde, kunena kuti malingaliro akufalikira adzakhala opanda pake, koma kukumbukira kuti penapake chilakolako choyamba ndi chilakolako chasoweka, zidzakhala zenizeni. Pa nthawiyi, panthawi ya zokondweretsa kunja kwa ubale, munthu amatha kuzindikira kuti ndi wina, ndi wokoma mtima komanso wotentha ... Monga akunena: Adzapeza mu chipinda chake onse chikondi ndi chimwemwe ndi chilakolako. Apa ndizotheka kuiwala zomwe mumakonda, zingakhale bwino, koma kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji? Mwachidziwitso, osati panthawi yomwe adzamangire maso ake? M'mawu ake, sikuli koyenera kukonzekera choipitsitsa, koma ngati mutakhala kuti muli otetezeka, mutadabwa ndi nsalu yatsopano yokongola kwambiri komanso khalidwe la "debauchee" pabedi, ndilofunikabe. Sikokwanira kuti mwadzidzidzi achoka, wokondedwa!
"Kugonana komanso kugonana!".
Iye, ndikungoyenda "makina ogonana". Choncho, mwachangu, ngakhale ngati sakufuna, manja ake okhulupirika kumanzere ndi kumanja (kumanzere, mwachiwonekere akupita bwino kwambiri). Nazi zosangalatsa zake ndipo ndi zokonda zokha. Mwamuna, pansi pa chithunzi cha kugonana kwake, ataya mutu wake kutsogolo kwaketi ya mkazi aliyense, kuyesera kulikonse ndi "kulimbikitsa chikondi." Inde, njonda yoteroyo sichiiwala za wokondedwa wake, ndipo ngakhale mosiyana, imamupatsa chidwi kwambiri, imapereka mawu achikondi ndipo amadzazidwa ndi chilakolako usiku. Koma sangathe kuima "kuyenda kumanzere". M'mawu ake, moyo wake wonse ndizopitiriza kuchita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi. Shura-mura yake yonse kumbali yake, amatha kuiŵala, mosavuta komanso mwachibadwa, komanso kupanga zatsopano. Wokondedwa wake, ndithudi, sakufuna kutaya mtima, ngati kuti atenge njira yoyenera, chifukwa ndi mwamuna, yemwe akuyenera kutsimikizira yekha. Chimene sichiyenera kunena, koma sankhani ngati njonda yoteroyo ikufunika nkomwe, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo. Inde, kugonana, komwe ali wokonzeka "kudyetsa" wokondedwa wake (ndi akazi ena angapo) kuyambira m'mawa kufikira usiku, ndibwino, koma kudzidalira ndi kunyada ndibwino kwambiri!
"Ndatopa ndi thupi ili, nditenga bizinesi yatsopano!".
Ndipo nthawi yotsiriza kwambiri, pamene mwamuna adzalumikizana ndi wokondedwa wake, chifukwa amangozindikira kuti, mwachitsanzo, ubale wawo watha. Zimaphatikizapo kuzindikira kuti iwo ndi anthu osiyana, kapena sakonda, koma "pang'ono" za malingaliro, omwe posakhalitsa adatha. Panthawi imeneyi, chizoloŵezi "kumbali" ndi njira yothandizira mayiyo komanso ubale wake. Chizoloŵezi ichi chitha msanga kukhala ndi udindo waukulu. Kotero, mwinamwake, chikondi cha munthu wotero kumbuyo kwa mkazi ndi chifukwa chosintha moyo ndi munthu amene ali pafupi ndi inu. Inde, chitsanzo ichi cha khalidwe lachimuna sichizindikiro chodziwika kuti anthu onse amathawira kumalo atsopano, kuiwala za maubwenzi akale ndi mkazi wokondedwa. Palinso zifukwa zinanso, mwachitsanzo, kuti mutengepo zitatu zomwe zapitazo. Kotero vuto ili ndilokutsiriza kotsiriza lomwe lingakhoze kuchitika mmoyo. Ndipo monga chomaliza, kuzinthu zonsezi, ndikufuna kuwonjezera kuti munthu amaiwala mkazi, ngati amamukonda, chifukwa cha chilakolako chogonana sangathe konse. Mlandu wina, ngati palibe chikondi pano. Mwa njira, mawu omwewo akuti "kujambula" sakhala ndi zoopsa pokha, ndizosangalatsa, zomwe ndi zovuta kuziiwala ndikuyamba kuchokera pachiyambi. Koma mu zochitika izi, chikhululukiro ndi china chirichonse chikubwera kale kuchokera kwa mkazi mwiniwake.