Maphunziro a kugonana, motere, palibe amene ayenera kuphunzitsa sikofunika. Zachibadwa zachibadwa zimapatsidwa kwa ife tokha. Zinthu ndi zosiyana kwambiri ngati mukufuna kudziwa osati "chidziwitso chokhazikika", koma mukufuna kudziwa, monga mbuye waluso, luso la kugwirizana. M'nkhaniyi ndikukuuzani momwe mungasangalalire ndi chithandizo cha abambo ochuluka.
Kodi kugonana kwa tantric ndi chiyani? Tantra ndi kachitidwe ka filosofi yachikale komwe kugonana kumaonedwa kuti ndi kopatulika. Kugonana kwa Tantric kumatanthauza kusagwirizana kwambiri, monga mgwirizano wa uzimu wa okondedwa. Pakati pa kugonana, abwenzi amachulukitsa mphamvu ndi mphamvu ya wina ndi mzake, chifukwa cha lingaliro lodziwika bwino la mwamuna ndi mkazi, Yin ndi Yang. Mgwirizano wa kupuma, kukhudzidwa ndi kugwirana kwabwino kumapatsa chisangalalo chosaneneka kuchokera ku kugonana, osati kungozindikira zokhumba zakuthupi.
Mbali yofunika kwambiri ya kugonana kwa tantric ndi wokondana naye nthawi zonse. Inde, mnzanu akhoza kusintha, koma kawirikawiri. Izi ndizofunikira, chifukwa muyenera kudziwa zomwe amakonda, zizoloŵezi, zofuna za mnzanuyo, dziko lake lamkati.
Kwenikweni, kugonana kwa tantric ndi mtundu wa ntchito, kuchita zinthu zowonjezera chisangalalo chauzimu, ndipo kwa iwo ndikofunika kupanga zinthu zina: malo amtendere, mtendere wamumtima, kumvetsetsa ndi mgwirizano.
Pa nthawi yogonana pa tantra ndikofunika ndi kofunika kuti mukhale ndi "kukhudzidwa ndi mtima wonse", kumasuka kwa kugonana: kulira, kufuula, kudandaula, kotero chipinda chiyenera kukhala ndi mawu omveka bwino. Ngati simungathe kumasuka nthawi zonse, kugonjetsedwa ndi chilakolako, ndiye tantra si kwa inu.
Zochitika zogonana pa tantra ziyenera kupangidwira, zomwe zimafuna maphunziro ndi luso. Amuna ndi akazi amakono amachititsa kuti thupi lawo ndi minofu ikhale yochepa, yomwe ndi nthawi yolakwika yochita zogonana ndi tantric. Koma, ngati mutasankha kupita ku mtundu umenewu wa kugonana, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wophunzitsa thupi lanu kuti mukwaniritse zosangalatsa zambiri. Ku Tantra, nthawi yogonana imachokera ku theka la ola limodzi mpaka maola awiri ndi theka, ndipo mphamvu ya chiwonongeko imatchulidwa kwambiri kuposa kugonana komweko.
Pakati pa tantra ndi yoga mungathe kufanana. Machitidwe awiriwa ali ndi cholinga chokwaniritsa mgwirizano pakati pa moyo ndi thupi, osati mwachindunji motero "tantra yoga".
Zotsatira za kugonana kwa tantra yoga zikhale zophweka komanso zosagwirizana. Vuto lililonse limapangitsa kugonana kwa wina ndi mnzake, kumafulumira kugonana ndikuletsa kugwirizana kwauzimu. Kugonana kuyenera kuonedwa ngati kuvina, kusinthika pakati pa poses kuyenera kukhala kosalala komanso kosaoneka, monga ngati kuvina.
Kufunika kwakukulu kumasewera pochita zoganiza za ziwalo zoganiza: kununkhira, kugwira, kulawa, kumva ndi masomphenya. Kukwanitsa kumva ndi kusangalala ndi ena, kukhala ndi chiwerewere nthawi zonse kumathandiza kuti pakhale kulandira panthawi yogonana.
Njira ya kugonana kwa tantric ndi iyi:
- Pa gawo loyambalo, abwenziwo amachitira zinthu mofatsa, nthawi yaitali. Mafupa ayenera kukhala ophweka, osagwirizana, osakakamiza. Gawo ili liri ndi modzichepetsa. Mzimayi ayenera kusamala kwambiri mnzako, musathamangire kukhudza mbolo, kuti asayambe kukwiya. Ngati onse awiriwa atatha zaka zingapo amatha kukhala okonzeka kugonana, ndiye kuti phokoso lotsatira likutengedwa. Chiyambi cha chiwerewere ndi kuika mutu wa mbolo m'thumba pakati pa labia kwa mphindi 5-10 kuti muchepetse kuthamanga kwadzidzidzi komanso kuchepetsa vutoli.
- Kuyamba kwa phallus mu chikazi, koma osaposa 3 cm Kupuma kwakukulu komanso kusowa kwa zonse kumathandiza kuchepetsa kugonana. Pachikhalidwe ichi, zimatenga maminiti awiri, kenako mbolo imachotsedwa mukazi - ndikuphanso kwa mphindi ziwiri ndikupuma mokwanira. Pambuyo pa mphindi 15 zoterezi, kugonana kwawonjezeka kwambiri, chifukwa cha zomwe abwenzi akuyesetsa kuti kugonana kukwaniritsidwe msanga. Kenaka mwamunayo amachititsa chidwi mofulumira, kumukakamiza mkaziyo. Kugonana kumeneku kumayambiranso kumatenga mphindi 15. Mankhwala a penis amapangidwa kwa theka la kutalika kwake ndipo kusuntha kulikonse kumatenga mphindi zitatu. Pambuyo pa kutha kwa kayendedwe kotere, abwenziwo akhoza kupitiliza kulumikiza orgasm mwafupipafupi, mofulumira komanso mozama.
- Kugonana pakati pa tantra yoga ndi nthawi yaitali ndipo kumafuna mwamuna kuti aziletsa ndi kuletsa kutsegula. Pali njira ziwiri zothetsera. Njira yoyamba: Mukamamva kuti mukukakamizika kwambiri kugonana, muyenera kuyimitsa nthawi zonse, kupuma bwino ndi kumasula minofu. Njira yachiwiri ndi kuchotsa kwathunthu mbolo kuchokera mukazi ndi kupuma kwakukulu kwa mphindi 2-3.
- Kugonana kwachitatu, kwachinayi ndi kwachisanu kumagwirizana ndi kupeza maluso abwino. Panthawi imeneyi, mbolo ikhoza kuyambika kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka theka la kutalika kwake, ndipo kayendetsedwe kameneka kamatha pafupifupi mphindi zitatu. Panthawiyi, "wokwera" ponseponse akulimbikitsidwa, pamene mkaziyo ali pamwamba.
- Pambuyo pachitetezo chachisanu ndi chimodzi cha kugonana, mukalandira maluso abwino pazamasewero, abwenzi omwe adaphunzira kudziletsa kugonana, mukhoza kugonana pa malo alionse.
Ndinakuuzani mfundo zakugonana pa tantra. Ngati mwasankha kuyang'ana "chikondi" mwanjira yatsopano, podziwa njira ya kugonana kwa tantric, ndiye kuti mudzapeza mwayi waukulu wa zokondweretsa zakuthupi, ndipo chizoloŵezi cha maubwenzi chidzasanduka ulendo wachikondi wamkuntho kupita kumtunda wautali. Ndipo mutha kukondweretsa kale ndi chithandizo cha kugonana kwachizungu.