Kodi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi ndani?

Mchitidwe wogonana ndi amuna ogonana ndi amuna okhaokha ndi mawu omwe amasonyeza munthu yemwe amatsatira maonekedwe ake, amalandira bwino, amayendera ma salon, malo olimbitsa thupi komanso amazindikira zinthu zonse zatsopano za mafashoni. Mawu omwewo anawonekera pakati pa zaka za m'ma 1990. Ngati mukuganiza bwino, ndiye kuti amuna oterewa anali nthawi zonse, ambiri mwa iwo sanalengeze. Amuna achilendo ndi osasangalatsa, ogonana ndi amuna okhaokha amakhala otentheka pazinthu izi, samakhutira ndi manicure okha, mukufunikira kupanga misomali yanu yokhala ndi maonekedwe obiriwira kapena osongoka. Tsopano zinthu zasintha - kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumapangidwira.

Kutchuka kwa kugonana kwa amuna okhaokha kumathandizidwa ndi ofalitsa. Pa televizioni, pali mapulogalamu ambiri omwe amuna ndi alongo amaphunzitsa amuna osiyana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha momwe angawonekere bwino komanso momwe angakhalire ndi chibwenzi. Okonza amapanga zokolola zapamwamba zomwe zimangoganizira amuna oterowo, opanga zodzoladzola nthawi zonse akuwonjezera zodzikongoletsera zomwe zimayang'aniridwa ndi amuna omvera. Ochita masewera otchuka ndi oimba amalandira mamiliyoni ambiri pofalitsa izi kapena mankhwala odzola. Kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi kumakhala mbali ya chikhalidwe cha anthu ambiri, ngakhale kuti malo oterewa a Soviet zinthu sizinali zachilendo.

Zizindikiro zazikulu za kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi ndi:

• Amakhala mumzinda waukulu kapena m'midzi yake.
• Zimapindula bwino.
• Ali ndi malo abwino okhala ndi anthu, komanso galimoto yokwera mtengo.
• Nthawi zonse amapita kukaona salons, amalowa masewera, amatsogolera moyo wathanzi.
• Amatsatira zochitika zamakono m'mafashoni.
• Ali ndi mapangidwe ambiri.
• Amathera nthawi yochuluka pamaso pa galasilo.
• Amagwiritsa ntchito zodzoladzola zokongoletsera.
  

Kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi masiku ano kumadziŵa kuti ndi koyenera. Amadzikonda yekha ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama yekha. Amuna amenewa, zikuwoneka kuti amawoneka bwino kuposa anzawo, ngakhale kuti amasankha atsikana okongola kwambiri komanso okonzekera bwino.

Metrosexual, monga mwamuna aliyense amakonda akazi, komabe amadzikonda yekha. Malinga ndi maganizo a amayi okhudzana ndi amuna oterewa, palibe malingaliro olakwika. Zoonadi, ambiri amakondana ngati sakukonda pamene wokondedwa wawo amakonda maonekedwe ake kuposa momwe amachitira. Azimayi ena ngati amuna awa ndipo ali okonzeka kuvomereza zochitika zawo zonse, pamene ena amaganiza kuti payenera kukhala muyeso mu chirichonse.

Ngati mutayang'ana pa chigoba chokongola cha kugonana, chomwe amasonyeza kwa ena, mumatha kuona munthu wosatetezeka yemwe, mwa kukonzekeretsa ndi kukongola, amayesa kuti apepetsere kusowa kwa khalidweli. Metrosekual amasamala za maonekedwe ake, koma pa nthawi yomweyi sakuyesa kukhala ndi dziko lapansi. Amuna amenewa samasamala za dziko lawo lamkati. Ngati mwasankha kuyamba chibwenzi ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, khalani okonzeka kugawaniza za thupi lanu. Muyenera kudziŵa zinthu zonse zatsopano, komanso musadabwe ngati mnzanu akuyamba kukutsutsani.

Ndi munthu wotero sadzatopa. Disco, maphwando a mafashoni, maola ambiri ogula. Amuna amenewa amakonda kukondana, choncho musachite nsanje. Mayi wina, ngati munthu wamba, amamuchitira nsanje ndi wokondedwa wake, ngati amamukonda. Mchitidwe wogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi, kapena wotchedwa, mwamuna wokhala ndi chikhalidwe chokomera bwino, posachedwapa adzakhala mtundu wamba wa anthu m'dziko lathu. Amuna oterewa amakhala pampando wa amayi ndi amuna okhaokha komanso omwe amadziwa kuti adzakhala ndi nthawi yanji. Consolation ndi chakuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikukhalabe moyo wawo wonse, koma nthawi inayake. Mchitidwe wogonana ndi amuna okhaokha ndi njira ya moyo.