Ku Soviet Union anthu omwe sanali achikhalidwe anaikidwa m'mbuyo, sanalowe usilikali, makamaka boma lolamulidwa ndi Soviet Union. Zonsezi zimafalikira kwa amuna okhaokha, akazi omwe alibe chikhalidwe chawo sichinaoneke kuti ndi zachiwerewere. Ziribe kanthu momwe amachitira ndi anthu omwe si achikhalidwe, iwo anali, ali ndipo adzakhala.
Ndi chiyani chosagwirizana ndi kugonana? Ndi chikondi chofanana cha kugonana, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Iwo amachitira mosiyana, omwe ndi chidani, omwe ali ndi kumvetsa, ndi wina aliyense samawachitira kanthu. Zirizonse zomwe zinali, iwo akupitiriza kukhala moyo ndi kukonda. Malingaliro amayamba kubadwa m'mimba mwa mayi, malingana ndi ma chromosome omwe adzakhalepo mu mluza. Izi zimachitika kuti msungwanayo akulamulidwa ndi mahomoni ambiri amphongo ndipo samvetsa zomwe zikuchitika kuti agwire naye kugonana. Inde, sikuti kokha ma chromosome okha amathandiza pazomwe si zachikhalidwe, posachedwapa ndi msonkho kwa mafashoni.
Mafilimu a zolaula ndi mapulogalamu osiyanasiyana, amadetsa maganizo a achinyamata, ndipo amayamba kukhala ndi moyo wogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti asayambe kuseri kwa "mafashoni". Amayi ambiri amapanga zotchedwa matenda aumuna. Iwo amayamba kulamulira dziko lapansi, amafunafuna kugonjera pakati pa anthu. Ndipo sangathe kukhalanso ndi abambo, amafunika kuti azikhala ndi chikondi, ndipo izi zikhoza kupezeka mwa amayi ambiri. Pano, chikondi cha akazi achiwerewere chikuwonetsedwa, mu chikondi chomwecho, chogawanika, chigawenga, chimagwirizanitsa ndi chiyanjano. Pakati pawo pali zochitika zofanana za nsanje, monga momwe zimakhalira pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Poyang'ana, azimayi ndi azimayi ambiri, omwe amaoneka ngati mabwenzi abwino.
Palinso chinthu china chomwe chimachititsa kuti mkazi akhale wamayi. Iye watopa ndi egoism yamphongo, nkhanza komanso mwano. Koma inu mukufunabe chikondi, koma iye amakana kukhulupirira amuna, chifukwa iye ndi zolengedwa zakuda ndi zoopsa. Apa iye amamupeza iye theka pakati pa ake omwe. Apa akupeza chikondi ndi mtendere, chifundo ndi kumvetsa. Ndani ati amvetsetse mkazi, ngati si mkaziyo. Mayi yekha amatha kuyamikira kukongola kwa thupi, kukongola kwa moyo, kupereka chikondi ndi chikondi. Mayi akhoza kumupatsa mkazi zinthu zonse zofunikira kwambiri kuti abweretse chimwemwe cha mnzake.
Kuti apewe malingaliro osokonezeka, amayenera kubisala, kubisa maganizo awo. Koma izi ndi zolakwika, chikondi ndikumvera chisoni konse ndipo ziribe kanthu pakati pawo. Anthu omwe sali achikhalidwe, malinga ndi chiwerengero, amakhala okoma mtima komanso omvera, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi maluso. N'zovuta kudziwa ngati mwana wanu ndi wachikhalidwe, koma taganizirani momwe zingakhalire zovuta kuti apulumuke m'dziko lino loletsedwa ndi malamulo. Choyamba, nkofunikira kulingalira, koma ndani adakhazikitsa malamulowa? Nchifukwa chiyani iwo anayika izo? Ngakhale mu zinyama, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumawonekera, ndipo palibe amene amawalanga, chifukwa amaperekedwa mwachibadwa.
Ambiri adapanga malamulo ndi anthu okha, malamulo, zoletsedwa, zonsezi zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wolimba. Kuyambira tili mwana, taika maganizo athu pa ana, ndipo tikuganiza kuti ndizo zokhazo, koma mwatsoka siziri choncho. Aliyense ali ndi ufulu wosankha, pa moyo wake womwe palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wokwera ndi maziko ake.
M'nkhaniyi, sindikuyesera kulimbikitsa aliyense kuti asamukire kuzinthu zachikhalidwe, ndikukulimbikitsani, owerenga okondedwa, kuti mupereke ufulu kwa anthu omwe si achikhalidwe chawo. Iwo anasiya kuwadzudzula ndi kuwakakamiza ndi ambiri mwazochita zogonana. Muwone basi monga iwo aliri, monga momwe iwo akukudziwirani moyenera.