Choncho, musanayankhe funsoli, pambuyo pake, momwe mungakhalire munthu wabwino kwa ena - ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa lamulo limodzi lagolide: musanayambe kukhala munthu, zomwe zimakhala zokhazokha, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungalankhulire molondola, popeza ichi ndi chachikulu chigawo chomwe chili ndi chokha. Kumbukirani kuti ma replicas anu onse ayenera kuganiziridwa ndi anzeru, ndi nthabwala - zoyenera ndi zopanda pake. Izi zidzakuthandizani kulimbikitsa chithunzi chabwino kwa nthawi yaitali, abwenzi anu adzakukumbukirani ngati munthu yemwe mumakonda kukambirana naye.
Mudzatumikiridwa ndi luso lapadera lothandizira kuyankhula momveka bwino komanso mosamalitsa. Pambuyo pake, aliyense wa ife akufuna kuti amve kufunika kwake. Ntchito yanu ndi kuzindikira mwa munthu aliyense chinthu chapadera chomwe angathe kunyada nacho, ndi kumuuza momveka bwino za izo. Ndipotu, cholinga cha kuyamikiridwa kuli kuyang'ana pa chinthu chofunika kwambiri komanso chokongola mwa munthu - chomwe chimavomereza, ndi chabwino kwambiri - kulandira mayamiko!
Kutamandidwa mungathe kutsindika kwambiri - kuchokera ku khalidwe labwino kapena kuwonekera kwachinsinsi chilichonse cha moyo. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti chikhale choposa, kumbukirani - paliponse pakhale paliyeso. Zonse zomwe mukuyamikila ziyenera kukhala zenizeni, mwinamwake zidzasanduka sycophancy wamba. Yerekezerani mawu awiriwa: "O! Ndiwe wokongola bwanji "ndi" Mtundu wa chovala ichi ukuyenda bwino kwambiri kwa iwe. " Kodi mumamva kusiyana? Choncho, ngakhale kutamandidwa bwino kukuthandizani kuti mupambane mutu wa munthu wabwino komanso woganizira.
Mwa njira, brevity ndi mlongo wa talente, ndipo izi zimatamandanso. Kuyamika kwanu sikuyenera kukhala ndi mawu amodzi kapena awiri ndi mawu osankhidwa bwino, ndipo lingaliro liyenera kukhala lophweka ndi lomveka.
Musati muthokoze ngati mukusowa kanthu kuchokera kwa munthu. Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kukhala chete, chifukwa khalidwe ili likuwoneka lonyansa kwambiri. Mwa njira, anthu abwino amadziwa momwe angalankhulire zokhazokha, komanso aziwatengera ku adiresi yawo. Nthawi zonse yathokoza chifukwa cha kuyamikila ndipo musaiwale za kumwetulira.
Njira ina yopita ku chithunzithunzi cha msilikali wabwino ndi khalidwe lanu muzosiyana. Kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi kuyanjana mwanzeru kumafunika pamene, poyankha pempho lanu kapena pempho lanu, "ayi" mwachindunji idatulutsidwa, kapena kutsutsidwa kwaukhondo kumalowa anu. Malangizo akulu ndikumvetsetsa maganizo a mdani. Inde, osakhala ndi malingaliro anu enieni, choncho, kukhala pansi pa chikoka cha munthu ndi choipa kwambiri, kumachepetsa munthu payekha. Nthawi zonse mvetserani mwatcheru maganizo a ena, ngakhale simukutsutsana nazo izi. Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi ufulu wa malingaliro ake, ndipo mutamva "ayi" pagulu lanu pempho lanu, yesetsani kuwonetsa womulankhulana kuti mumvetsetse chikhulupiliro chake, ndikutsutsani mfundo yanu. Chinthu chachikulu apa sikuti chikhumudwitse munthu wothandizira, koma kuti adziwonetse yekha ngati munthu wofatsa. Kuzunzika sikudzakupangitsani inu kukhala otsimikiza, ndipo ndizoona. Ngakhale makamaka zimadalira kampani yanu, chifukwa nthawizina samakonda mattresses ndi zofewa. Munthu wabwino adzatha kupeza njira yoyenera komanso yosangalala ngakhale mkhalidwe wovuta kwambiri.
Mwa njira, chifukwa cha chithunzi cha munthu wabwino, chinthu chachikulu si mawu okha, komanso mawonekedwe a nkhope, chiwonongeko. Ndipotu, zambiri zomwe timamva ndi zomwe timamva zimatiwonetsera kudzera mu nkhope ndi mawu. Choncho nthawi zonse kumwetulira, kulankhula momasuka ndi kukhala omasuka kwa anthu. Pa zokambirana zonse ndi zofotokozera za ena nthawi zonse muziyankha mokoma mtima. Ndi chifukwa cha njira yamoyo yomwe mungakwanitse kukwaniritsa ulemu wanu payekha. Muyenera kuphunzira "kuunika" ndi kuwala kwa chisangalalo, chimwemwe, chisangalalo chabwino. Khulupirirani ine, ndithudi idzaperekedwera kwa anthu ena - ndipo mukhoza kuwapatsa malipiro abwino.
Kuti mutanthauzire zonsezi pamwamba ndikukhala munthu wabwino, mukufunikira maphunziro apadera. Pano pali maphunziro omwe angakuthandizeni kupeza ndi kulimbikitsa chikhalidwe ichi. Ndipotu, kupeza chithunzichi sikophweka.
Ntchito yoyamba yopeza chifaniziro cha munthu wokondwa ndi wokondwa idzakhala chonchi: kuyambira m'mawa, yesetsani kudzuka mumtima wabwino. Pitani pagalasi ndikudandaula nokha - khulupirirani ine, zimathandiza kwambiri kuti ndizimva kuti ndikugwirizana, choyamba, ndi ine ndekha. Yambani ndi izi m'mawa uliwonse, ndipo mudzawona kusintha kwakukulu kwa maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu kwa ena.
Chachiwiri ntchito yanu ndi kuzindikira kosamveka kwa anthu. Kulankhulana ndi ena, nthawi zonse muzigwirizana ndi zabwino. Khulupirirani kuti pozungulira inu pali anthu abwino komanso okoma mtima omwe moyo wanu umatambasula. Ndiyeno munthu aliyense, atamva zolemba zabwino, amakuzindikira iwe ngati munthu wokondweretsa, amene ndikufuna kumulankhulana naye, ndipo mwinamwake, ndikulumikizana kwambiri.
Ntchito yachitatu. Khalani oleza mtima kwambiri mukamayankhula ndi anthu. Ngakhale ali ovuta komanso osasangalatsa. Lolani izi zikhale zoona kwa inu: munthu aliyense ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe oipa komanso abwino. Kulankhulana ndi anthu osokera, nthawi zonse muziganizira kuti muzomwe mukudziwa pali chinthu chamtengo wapatali. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumusonyeza munthuyo kuti muli ndi khalidwe labwino - simungathe kumvetsera mwatcheru, komanso kuti mulangize chinthu chofunika kwambiri.
Ndipo potsirizira pake: ikani ntchitoyi pambali ndi malingaliro anu a moyo, ndiyeno mudzawona momwe chirichonse chidzasinthira kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti munthu wabwino ndi munthu amene ali ndi nthawi ina iliyonse, angathe kuthandizira ndi kupereka malangizo othandiza, komanso chofunika kwambiri, kukhumudwitsa, osati ndi mawu kapena nthabwala, koma ndi kukhalapo. Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!