Nditangoganiza, ndinayesetsa kumvetsa funso ili: "Kodi mkazi wamakono, wamakono angakhale wotani, komanso ngati ayenera kuchitapo kanthu?"
Dziko lamakono limatipatsa malamulo, ndipo ngati takhala tikuyendetsa nthawi, ndibwino kuti tisayime pakati. Kodi iye (dziko) anachita chiyani ndi mkaziyo? Anatembenuza amayi ake ndi amayi ake, oyang'anira nyumba, kuti akhale mkazi wodziimira panokha amene ali wothandizira katundu ndi ntchito zonse. Mzimayi amaukitsa ana, amapeza ndalama, amadziyang'anira yekha, amavala bwino, amachitira "maphwando" osiyanasiyana, nthawi zambiri amasuta ndi "zakumwa," moyenera. Ayi, mkaziyo sanakhale mwamuna, iye amangodzipangira ufulu komanso ena kapena kudzipereka kwathunthu.
Kodi kupambana kwa mkazi kumapindula, kapena kodi kumangowonjezera ku ukapolo wa moyo? N'zovuta kuyankha funsoli movomerezeka, chifukwa munthu aliyense, makamaka amayi, ali ndi zosowa zake za moyo ndi thupi. Mayi wina, mwachitsanzo, amayesetsa kuchita zonse zomwe wapanga ndipo amatha kuchita zonse mosavuta, koma winayo sangathe kudzigwira yekha ntchito zambiri. Kwa aliyense wake. Ngakhale, nthawi zambiri, mumayenera kupereka chinachake. Ngati cholinga ndi ntchito, banja ndi chikondi zimapita kumalo ena achiwiri, ndipo mosiyana. Kawirikawiri muyenera kuyang'ana momwe, popanda kukhala ndi nthawi yopita pa nthawi yopuma, amayi amatha kubwereranso ndi iye kuti achite zonse zomwe angathe m'ntchito yake ndi kuwonjezera ubwino wa banja lake. Pa nthawi yomweyi, sakudziwa momwe mwana wake amakulira, ndipo pakapita zaka akudandaula kuti (mwanayo) samamumvetsa nkomwe.
Inde, n'zovuta kukhala mkazi weniweni wamakono, koma, kumbali ina, n'zosavuta kukhala mkazi mu dziko lamakono kumene makina ochapa ndi kutsuka, ndi zogwiritsidwa ntchito limodzi zimakonzedwa m'masitolo. Kodi chofunika n'chiyani kuti mupambane? Choyamba, kukhala ndi makhalidwe ena. Za iwo ndi kuyankhula.
Mkazi wamakono ayenera kukhala wopindulitsa , kudziwa zomwe akufuna komanso zomwe akufuna. Zolinga zozizwitsa ndi zopanga zovuta zimapindula mosavuta, kaya ndizokwatirana bwino kapena kukwezedwa pamsinkhu wa ntchito. Mayi wokonda zolinga amadziwa pamene adzakwatirana, ndi ana angati omwe adzakhale nawo, ndi kuchuluka kwake komwe angapeze.
Kudziimira payekha ndi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri la mkazi. Simusowa kudalira wokondedwa wanu m'zonse. Mu moyo, chirichonse chikhoza kuchitika (wina sangathe kudalira kwathunthu ndi kudalirika kwa theka lachiwiri), ndipo muzochitika chotero mkazi wodziimira sangadabwe konse. Komano, simusowa kukhala wodziimira nokha payekha. Lolani ndipo mwamunayo akhale mwamuna: mwachitsanzo, akukuchitirani inu ku malo odyera ndikulipira.
Ndikuganiza kuti mkazi wamakono aliyense ayenera kudziwonetsa yekha, ayang'ane 100% kapena apamwamba . Choncho, sikungakhale zopanda nzeru kuti adziwe luso lopanga, kumvetsetsa mafashoni ndikupita ku kampani yolimbitsa thupi. Motero, zotsatira ziwirizi zimatheka: mkazi amawoneka wabwino ndipo amalandira zowonjezera zabwino kuchokera ku kukongola ndi kudzikongoletsa kwake. Zowonjezera zochitika zina zimathandiza kuti mgwirizanowu ukhale wogwirizana, ndi thupi lolimba komanso kulimbikitsa chitetezo, chomwe chili chofunika kwambiri pamoyo wokhutiritsa.
Kufufuza makhalidwe ndi maluso ena, ndinazindikira kuti nkofunika kuti mkazi athe kuyendetsa galimoto, adziwe zinenero zingapo zakunja, kupeza maphunziro apamwamba awiri, athe kuonera masewera olimbitsa thupi ngati n'kofunikira, athe kuphunzitsa ana, ndikumwetulira ndi kutulutsa maganizo abwino. Ndibwino kuti muzindikire chiphunzitso cha manja , kukamba bwino, kuyenda ndi kukhala . Ndifunikanso kuphunzira momwe mungachitire zinthu zitatu mwakamodzi ndikukhala m'malo angapo panthawi yomweyi (mwatsoka, kukhala ndi foni yamtunduwu kumapangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta kwa ife). Ndili ndi ntchito yaikulu yomwe muyenera kuphunzira kuti mupumule ndi mwayi pang'ono, paliponse.
Mukufunsani, nanga bwanji za nyumba ya banja ? Zomwe "zimatenga" mwa amayi ake osalimba manja ayenera kukhalabe mkazi - wofatsa, wofewa, wachikazi. Mzimayi weniweni nthawi zonse amakhala wofunda komanso wokoma mtima mnyumba, amamva fungo lokoma, labwino komanso losangalala.
Ziribe kanthu momwe dziko likusinthira, ife timakhalabe ofanana. Simukusowa kutenga nkhawa zonse za dzikoli, mukusowa mwamuna kuti akhale mwamuna, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi, mkazi ayenera kukhala mkazi. Mkazi wamakono wamakono angakhoze kuchita sizidalira kokha phindu la ena olimba, komanso pa ubwino wa anthu okwera mtengo kwambiri padziko lonse, amuna ndi ana. Ndipo ngakhale mu moyo mulibe nthawi, ganizirani ngati mwawauza achibale anu mawu ofunikira awa monga "Ndimakonda, ndikukhulupirira, ndimayamikira" ... Simungapeze ndalama zonse, simungathe kufika pamapiri onse, kotero muyenera kuganizira , monga ena amanenedwa, amodzi, koma ofunika kwambiri. Chibadwa choyambirira, zotsatira zake ndi banja, sichinachotsedwe panobe.
"Inde, wokondedwa, ndikubwerera msanga." Panganoli linasindikizidwa, kotero tsopano mukhoza kupita kunyanja bwinobwino, - anayankha, monga Natalia, kwa mwamuna wake pa foni. Anachoka ku cafe, adalowa m'galimoto yake ndipo anapita kwa wokondedwayo kuti akhale wofatsa, wofewa, wosasunthika komanso wokonda "mkazi wamakono wamakono" ...