Zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana m'miyezi
Pali chiopsezo chotenga matenda. Ndi ngozi yoopseza akazi, ndi amuna. Izi zimachokera ku maonekedwe a mabakiteriya, omwe magazi omwe ali nawo nthawi imeneyi ndi abwino kuswana. Mabakiteriya amatha kulowa mkati kudzera m'mimba yotseguka ndipo amachititsa matenda omwe amachititsa mavuto.
Amuna amakhalanso pachiopsezo chifukwa ngalande ya mkodzo imatha kukhetsa mkodzo ndikuyambitsa kutupa kwa purulent.
Cholakwika china cha kugonana koteroko ndizovuta. Othandizira ayenera kutsatira malamulo oyenera a ukhondo. Chikhalidwe chovomerezeka ndi kuvomereza kusanachitike ndi pambuyo pake. Musanayambe, konzekerani thaulo lamadzi ndi chinsalu choyera. Pansi pa izo mukhoza kuika chovala cha mafuta kuti mupewe kuvulaza bafuta.
Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu. Komabe, iye yekha angamuthandize mwamuna. Mayiyu adzalinso ndi chiopsezo chotenga kachilombo ka HIV.
Pa zifukwa zina zomwe zimalepheretsa kugonana pakati pa mwezi, mukhoza kufotokoza zachipembedzo. Mwachitsanzo, Asilamu panthawi imeneyi amawona kuti mkaziyo ndi wodetsedwa, koma Ayuda amachitira mwakachetechete ngakhale ngakhale mosiyana, ayenera kudziperekera ku chikondi.
Chinthu china cholakwika ndi mbali yokondweretsa. Sikuti aliyense akuyaka ndi chilakolako chofuna kukhala wodetsedwa ndi magazi. Osati chifukwa akufuna kutenga kachilomboka. Mwachidule, ambiri mwa iwo amanyalanyaza mwadzidzidzi chitayira chilichonse kuchokera ku ziwalo zoberekera, makamaka kumwezi. Ena amaganiza kuti kupanga chikondi pa nthawi ya kusamba ndi chinthu chodetsedwa komanso choipa.
Zotsatira Za Kugonana Pamodzi
Amayi ambiri panthaĊµiyi amalandira zowopsya kwambiri za kugonana, popeza kuthamanga kwa magazi kumaliseche kumalimbikitsa kutupa kwa chiberekero, chifukwa cha kuchepetsa kukula kwake ndipo kumakhala kosavuta komanso kunenepa.
Amayi ena ali ndi mwayi. Amachepetsa kupweteka kwa msinkhu pa nthawi yogonana. Mafinya ndi mphulupulu, muthamangitse madzi omwe apezeka mu chiberekero, potero kuchepetsa kutupa ndipo, motero, ululu umatha.
Zowonjezera zimaphatikizapo kuchepa kwa msambo, chifukwa zowonongeka, kusungidwa kwa selo kumachitika mofulumira, motsatira, ndipo ndi kosavuta kwa mkazi.
Pali amuna omwe ali okondwa kwambiri kugonana ndi mkazi pa nthawi. Zikuoneka kuti izi zimakhala chifukwa chakuti kugonana kumakhala kofanana ndi zochita za misala, ndipo munthuyo amasangalala kwambiri. Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito ku ubwino wa maganizo, chifukwa chaichi mukhonza kuthetsa malingaliro anu popanda kuchita zoletsedwa. Koma pali amuna ochepa okha. Amayambanso kukondana ndi mnzawo, wamphamvu kuposa nthawi zonse, chifukwa chogonana ndi chipatso choletsedwa.
Popeza chiopsezo cha mimba ndi mwezi ndichabechabechabe, chimapatsa mpata wokondweretsa okondedwa awiri ndikupeza chimwemwe chenicheni. Amuna apambana makamaka, chifukwa mwamuna aliyense amakonda kugonana kwathunthu. Komabe, kuthekera kwa mimba, ngakhale kuti ndi kosafunika, kumakhalabe. Nkhumba ikhoza kukhala mu thupi la mkazi kuyambira masiku asanu mpaka sabata! Choncho musaiwale za kulera.
Ngakhale kuti pali zifukwa zambiri zabwino ndi zolakwika pa nthawi ya kusamba, chiganizo chomaliza chimafanana ndi inu ndi mnzanuyo. Chinthu chokha chimene iwe uyenera kudzipilira wekha kuchokera ku nkhaniyi ndi kusaiwala kudziteteza, kusunga ukhondo ndi kulemekeza chilakolako cha wina. Ngati wina safuna kugonana - musamamukakamize, zimakhala bwino kuti mukhale pansi ndikukambirana nthawi zonse zomwe zikukutsatirani kapena osakonzekeretsani chifukwa chimodzi. Palibe malangizo ochokera pano omwe ali othandiza. Izi ndizomwe zimakondweretsa komanso nkhawa zanu. Zosangalatsa kwambiri kudziwa kuti zinsinsi za moyo wanu wapamtima sizidziwika kwa inu nokha.