Kuchokera apo, monga m'dziko lathu kunali kugonana, kwakhala nthawi yaitali. Tsopano palibe amene amadabwa poyankhula za izo. Tiyeni tipatsenso chidwi chenicheni ndikukambirana za masewero olimbana ndi kugonana, mafano amapezeka nthawi zambiri m'maganizo a amuna ndi akazi.
Choyamba, ndikufuna kudziwa kuti maseŵera a kugonana ndi osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, zovala. Panthawiyi, kuchuluka kwa malingaliro kukukwanira. Izi ndizofufuza ndi zovala zamkati, mtundu wake ndi kalembedwe. Ndizosatheka kuzindikira kuti amuna ambiri amapereka mbali yofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe abwenzi awo amaganizira. Kusankha zovala zakunja tsopano ndi kwakukulu. Awa ndi mithunzi yokoma, ndi yowala, yowopsya, ndi tigu, ndi nyalugwe. Zovala zovala ndizosiyana kwambiri. Mitundu yonse ya masitonkeni, thupi, masentimita amatha kukondweretsa aliyense woimira mwamuna. Zovala zosiyanasiyana zamasewera zingathenso kutenga mbali yofunikira pamoyo wa kugonana.
Mtundu wina wa masewera achiwerewere ndi mkhalidwe. Masewera oterewa akuphatikiza zovala zosavuta ndi masewera aliwonse a masewera. Ambiri amadziwa masewera oterewa ngati kugonana, ndipo amataya zambiri. Masewerawa angamangirizane ndi moyo weniweni kapena malingaliro, mwachitsanzo, pa nkhani za mbiriyakale. Ndikofunika kulingalira lamulo lalikulu: chirichonse chomwe chiri chokondweretsa chimaloledwa. Ndipo bwanji osayambanso kubadwanso ku Casanova kapena mfumu ya ku France?
Mukhoza kusewera makadi (iyi ndi masewera omwe amagwira ntchito, omwe amawoneka ngati chithunzithunzi cha china chirichonse) kuti asokoneze kapena kuti azindikire zowona zowopsa. Masewera oterewa adzawonjezera adrenaline ku chiyanjano cha wina ndi mzake, koma ndi oyenera makamaka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi ubale weniweni omwe adziwa wina kwa zaka zambiri. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kusasamala ndi kusasewera. N'zosavuta kuti azizolowereka kujambula zithunzi, komanso kuti agwe pansi, chifukwa masewerawo amatha kukhala owona, ndipo ayenera kukhala m'chipinda chanu chogona. Masewera achiwerewere amathandiza mabanja ambiri okwatirana kukhala osangalala ndipo kwa kanthawi amasokoneza moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mungathe kumenyana ndi chigamulo cha wina wa zibwenzi. Ndimasangalatsanso kusinthana maudindo.
Pali mtundu wina wa chitonthozo cha kugonana - masewera oopsa. Iwo amavomerezedwa osati kwa aliyense, koma mafani nthawizonse amadodometsa mitsempha yawo. Mtundu wofewa kwambiri wa masewerawa ndi womangiriza ndi poshlepyvanie.
Ku Russia muli ambiri mafani a BDSM. Kawirikawiri anthu awa amasangalala masewera omwe ali pansi pamutu wakuti "kapolo wamkazi". Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiliro chofala, mafilimu a zosangalatsa zotere samachititsa kuti ziwonongeke ndi kuvulala kwakukulu kwa wina ndi mzake.
Kuyambira pomwe filimuyo imaoneka "masabata 9 ½" pamasewero a masewerawo, pogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala ochititsa chidwi, mwachitsanzo, ayisikilimu, kukwapulidwa kirimu, maswiti, ndi otchuka kwambiri. Anthu ambiri amakhala ndi chikhulupiliro chofunikira kwambiri cha kugonana. Masewera oterewa amachulukitsa zofuna kupanga chikondi.
Gawo la zosiyana pa kugonana lingapangitse kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana. Maofesi apadera tsopano ndi ochuluka ndipo mautchi awo ndi osiyanasiyana. Pali zithunzithunzi, zithunzithunzi, zithunzithunzi zamitundu yonse ndi mitundu, mafuta osiyanasiyana, ndi zipangizo zina zambiri zomwe zimapangidwira kupanga zokondweretsa zokonda.
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu masewera achiwerewere sikuti chikhale choposa ndikuti chikhale chomwecho kuti onse awiri azisangalala. Kondanani wina ndi mzake, kupanga zogonana ndi zosiyana ndi zonyansa, ndipo zidzakubweretsani chimwemwe chokha!