Zimati: "Pemphani, ndipo mudzapatsidwa kwa inu." Ndipo ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati ndapempha, koma sindinaperekedwe, chifukwa ndinalandira kukana, ndi ndani amene angasankhe momwe angayankhire?
Ndi zingati zomwe zatchulidwa posachedwapa pa mutu wakuti: "Momwe mungaphunzirire kunena" ayi "! Ndipotu, kwa anthu ambiri, vutoli ndi lofunika kwambiri: ndani akufuna kuti asamve mavuto ndi zofewa, kuti onse athe kugwiritsa ntchito zofooka zawo? Koma palinso vuto lina lokhudzana ndi mawu amatsenga awa. Osati osasunthika , komabe, chofunika kwambiri. Ndipo momwe, kwenikweni, amaphunzira kumvera "ayi"? Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati ndalandira kukana, ndikumvetserani bwanji vuto? Pambuyo pake, sizichitika nthawi zonse monga momwe tingafunire. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndizo: mukakhala pa phwando - ndipo mukuuzidwa kuti "bwerani mawa", pemphani mnzanu ndi pempho lothandizira - ndipo akunena "Pepani, sindingathe", mumapanga chithunzi chabwino kwa munthu wokongola - ndipo amapereka "kukhala mabwenzi" ... kusankha zosankha ku mavuto? Ndiponsotu, ngati kukanidwa kulikonse, komwe mungasankhe kuthana ndi vuto, momwe mungadziwire ngati chowopsya, chidzakwaniritsirani nokha, osasangalala? Ndipotu, vuto loipa kwambiri silingapezeke kwa nthawi yaitali.
Awa ndi mawu owopsya ... Choyamba tidzatha kumvetsetsa: ndikuti, ndikuti, masautso ndi zochitika zomwe zatengedwa? Nchiyani chimatilepheretsa ife kuyankha pa kukana kusiya, kuiwala ndi moyo wamtendere kulingalira zina zomwe mungasankhe? Choyamba, kulandila kukana kukuwoneka ngati kulimbika kwachinsinsi kwambiri - kudzidalira. Pa zovuta zaumphawi, pamene mayi anga anakana kugula chidole, sizingowonongeka chabe (ndi zofanana, mungathe kusewera mwamtendere), koma amayiwo sakakukondani kuti mukwaniritse zofuna zanu! Ndalama kwa iye, ndiye, ndi yotsika mtengo komanso yofunika kwambiri? Chachiwiri, zotsatira zodziwika za kukoma kwa chipatso choletsedwa zimagwira ntchito.
Chimene simumazipeza nthawi yomweyo chimakhala chokongola kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, vouch voucher, yomwe panthawi yomaliza imene mabwana anapereka kwa wina wogwira ntchito, analidi m'paradaiso wina! Ndipo mnyamata yemwe sankafuna kukumana nanu, kumbukirani mochuluka kwambiri kuposa zomwe zinakwaniritsa zonse zomwe mumachita. Chachitatu, takhala "ophunzitsidwa" ndi kuti kuvomereza ndifooka, ndipo kukana ndi mphamvu yomwe iwo omwe amatikana ife amawoneka apamwamba ndi opambana. Ndipo ife tokha tiri m'gulu la anthu opanda pake - operewera ndi opanda pake. Kodi simukudziwa, mutalandira kukana, ndiwotani mukakumana ndi vuto? Ndikufuna kutsanulira misonzi yowawa ya mkwiyo, mwina kubwereza, komanso kwa wina wotsutsa wina ...
Ayi, palibe mayesero ! Kotero, sikuti kukana kwenikweni kuli koopsa, koma kuli kofunika kwambiri ndi kofunika kwambiri mmaso mwathu. Podziwa izi, mungathe kumanga zosavuta kuzidziwitsira. Pachiyambi choyamba: Kuti musadandaule ndi malingaliro anu mwachindunji kwa inu, ndikwanira kumvetsetsa kuti chifukwa cha kukana sizomwe mukuipa kapena osapindulitsa. Amene sanakucitire kanthu, poyamba, ndi zofuna zake. Monga, makamaka, ndi anthu ambiri. Ndipo izi ndi zachilengedwe. Kotero ndizokwanira kuti kunali kofunikira kwambiri kuti mnzanu azichezera mchimake chakumtunda kusiyana ndi kukuthandizani kusankha microwave. Ndipo ngati anali ndi nthawi yaulere, ndithudi amavomereza. Pachifukwa chachiwiri: kuchokera ku malo osungirako nsomba "nsomba yayikulu kwambiri-imene inagwera pa ndowe" ikhoza kuthetsedweratu pochotseratu nsomba pang'ono kwambiri ndi mafupa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, pofufuza zolephera zonsezo. Chikondi chanu choyamba kamasamphani inu kwanthawizonse chifukwa chakutanthauza kuti "simukukonda"? Pitani kwa iye tsopano, zaka zambiri pambuyo pake. Onetsetsani kuti kale ali ndi tsitsi, mkazi wake akuwona, ndipo kuchokera ku melancholy iwo ngakhale maluwa amafota miphika. Ndipo musataye zosayembekezereka! Kachitatu: musakhulupirire zotsatira za optical, zomwe zimawonjezera kukanidwa m'maso mwanu. Ganizilani: Ndi ndani yemwe akufuna kusokoneza, kuteteza ndi njira zonse zotheka kuti "asalole kupita", ngati mabopods ang'onoang'ono, omwe sangatchedwe amphamvu ndi opambana?
Nthawi yomweyo nasominu nabesh ... Mukukumbukira kukumbidwa komwe kunatchulidwa m'nthano yotchuka "Fox ndi mphesa"? Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwa njira zowonjezera zokhuza maganizo. Ndi losavuta ndi lolunjika: "Mudzaganiza, sizinali zofunika kwambiri! Iwo anakana - chifukwa iwo eni ali anthu oipa, radishes, mwa mawu! "Ndipo ine ndiyenera kunena kuti pamene inu mulandira kukana, ndipo, ndithudi, siziri muzochitika zonse, koma nthawi zambiri njira iyi imagwira ntchito kwenikweni. Choyamba, pomwe simukuyenera kusokoneza mitsempha yanu. Simunayankhepo pempho lanu mu sitolo - ndizoipa kwambiri, mumagwiritsa ntchito ndalama kuchokera kwa mpikisano wawo! Simunatenge polojekiti yanu - ndi bwino, kugulitsa kwa kasitomala wina, ndi okwera mtengo. Manyala ndi njira yabwino yothetsera kukanidwa. Koma musamathyole ndodo: zonyansa zowononga zingawononge ubwenzi.