Zoonadi, tiyenera kuvomereza kuti khalidwe lachilendo ndi zochita za theka lachiwiri silingamvetsetse nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina zimafotokozedwa. Ndipo, mwa njira, osati akazi okha, komanso amuna. Ndi chifukwa chanji cha khalidwe lachilendo la amuna? Inde, chirichonse chiri mu zofanana zosiyana pakati pazimayi, zomwe nthawi zambiri akatswiri amanena. Tengani makamera a kompyuta osiyana nawo. Kusiyana kuli koonekeratu, komabe si aliyense amene angafotokoze.
Kwa nthawi yaitali, katswiri wafilosofi wa ku America ndi wazachipatala Michael Gurian (Michael Gurian), wolemba wa "Kodi Iye Akuganiza Chiyani? "Kodi ubongo wa munthu umagwira ntchito bwanji?", Iye adaphunzira mbali zosiyanasiyana za ubongo, makamaka, zomwe zimayambitsa maganizo a munthu, ndipo zinakhala zovuta zodabwitsa. Zikuoneka kuti ubongo wamwamuna umapanga tizilombo tochepa kuposa ubongo wazimayi. Mawu okhudza oxytocin ndi serotonin, omwe amachititsa chidwi, wina amakhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa. Izi zikutanthauza, ndani yemwe amatsutsa kuti pambuyo pa ntchito, amphamvu a dziko lino akufuna kukagona pabedi ndi TV kutalikirana, komanso osagwirizana nawo pokambirana momwe tsiku linayendera komanso kuphika chakudya.
Ngati amai sangachite popanda kuyankhulana, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri amuna amatha kusokonezeka komanso amatanthawuza kumverera. Ndizimene zimakhala zolakwika zakuti nthawi zina zimangokhala "zokhazikika" pamene mukugawana nawo chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Mudzadabwa, koma pa nthawi ino mnzanuyo saganizira za moyo, za mowa kapena wogwira ntchito. Iye samaganizira za chirichonse. Ndi kovuta kukhulupirira, koma ndizoona. Kupita misala ndi kumenya mbale sikoyenera, sikunadziwika ngati kuli koipa - ndi khalidwe lake lachilendo. Kukwanitsa kwathunthu "kutseka" ndi kumasuka kwathu, monga lamulo, kumabweretsa kukolola kwakukulu kuntchito. Mahomoni, testosterone ndi vasopressin amachititsa kuti munthu azifufuza kafukufuku nthawi zonse ndikufuna kutsimikizira kuti ali wamkulu. Malingana ndi sayansi, nthawi zambiri izi zimawonetseredwa bwino kwambiri mwanayo atabadwa.
Kapangidwe kapadera wa ubongo ndi chifukwa chake kuti theka lachiwerengero cha anthu sichiwona zambiri zochititsa chidwi zokhudza athu, akazi, taonani. Mu gawo ili, monga lamulo, muli ndi tsitsi latsopano, manicure ndi bizinesi kunyumba. Zikuwoneka kuti sizingatheke kwambiri. Kukonza chisokonezo sikungopanda phindu, ubongo wa munthu sudzautenga, koma umagwiritsa ntchito zidule zazing'ono, ndipo ngati, kunena za iye yekha, kutsimikiziridwa ndi magetsi a sayansi, n'zotheka. Zoona, ndibwino kuti musapitirire kutero, koma kuyesa kupeza njira yoyenera kwa wina ndi mzake ndi kusamvana bwino, pambuyo pake, mgwirizano mu maubwenzi ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa chivindikiro cham'mbuyo cham'mbuyo kapena thumba lotseguka la mankhwala a mano, ndipo kusiyana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi kwakukulu kwambiri kusiyana ndi komwe kumawonedwa pa x-ray chithunzi.
Ndipo ngati mumanyalanyaza zomwe mwapezazo ndikuyang'ana moyenera zinthu, kodi si onse omwe ali ndi ufulu wopeza nthawi ndi malo awo enieni? Pambuyo pa zonse, monga akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti kukhala pamodzi ndiko kutsutsana kwa maiko awiri omwe apangidwa kuti apange chikhalidwe chofanana, osati mosiyana.