Musaope kusintha!
Amapeza mosavuta chilankhulo chimodzimodzi ngakhale kwa alendo, nkhani iliyonse yosangalatsa imanena kuti aliyense akumva. Zimakhala zokondweretsa nthawi zonse ndi iye, ndicho chifukwa chake ali ndi abwenzi ambiri komanso okondedwa. Zikuwoneka kuti bwenzi lotero liyenera kunyada, koma ndi ndani amene akufuna kukhala mnzake wamuyaya wa "nyenyezi"! Koma momwe mungatuluke mumthunzi wake, popanda kuwononga ubale, ndikutanthauza kuti kukhala mabwenzi abwino kwambiri?
Tulukani ku Twilight
Tsindikani mphamvu zanu. Funsani anzanu zomwe zikhalidwe za khalidwe lanu ndi makhalidwe anu zimawoneka kuti ndi zokongola kwambiri, ndipo yesetsani kuwawonetsa nthawi zambiri. Ngati muli ndi kumwetulira kokongola, musaphonye mwayi wakuwonetsa. Ngati ndinu mayi wabwino, pangani maphwando, pitirizani anzanu ntchito. Khalani ndi makhalidwe abwino. Onetsetsani bwenzi lanu, yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe makhalidwe ake amayamikiridwa ndi ena. "Yesani" nokha ndipo ganizirani za zomwe mungakhale nazo, ndi zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu. Pezani ndondomeko yanu. Monga mukudziwira, kambiranani pa zovala. Mukuganiza, mukuganiza bwanji? Mwachitsanzo, mumamatira ku kavalidwe kaofesi, ndipo mumalota maketi a maxi ndi mabala omasuka. Koma ndani amene amawaletsa kuvala maola ochepa? Kotero inu mumakhala omasuka kwambiri, chifukwa chojambula chidzasonyeza umunthu wanu. Sangalalani kwambiri. Ngati muli ndi chizoloŵezi, musachite manyazi. Anthu amakonda chikhalidwe chokhudzidwa, ndi moto m'maso mwawo akulankhula za chinthu chokondeka. Kuonjezerapo, izo zidzakuthandizani kuti mukumane ndi anthu amalingaliro ndi kupeza mabwenzi. Pitani kunja ku kuwala. Zimakhala zovuta kwa eni nyumba kukhala moyo wa kampani. Khalani olimbitsa thupi, kuvina, chinenero china. Ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo wanu, mumakhala osangalatsa kwambiri kwa ena.
Kodi padzakhala chithandizo?
Kodi mnzanu angatani ngati mukulakalaka kuchoka mumthunzi wake? Ngati ali ndi chidwi chokhala yekha "nyenyezi" kumwamba, ndipo akufuna kukuwonani inu ngati mnzanu wodzipereka, pitirizani kuyanjana naye. Kodi ubalewu umatanthauza chiyani ndipo kumatanthauza kukhala mabwenzi apamtima?
Koma mkazi wodalirika sawona izi ngati zoopsya. Ndipo ngati msungwana ali ndi makhalidwe monga ubwino ndi kuyankha, ndiye kuti adzakondwera kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ochezeka komanso ochezeka.
Pamwamba pa mafunde
Kampani imene aliyense amadziwa inu, sizivuta kuti musinthe khalidwe lachizoloŵezi. Choncho, kuyamba moyo watsopano ndi kophweka pakati pa anthu omwe simukuwadziwa.
Lonjezani bwalo la anzanu. Funsani mnzanuyo kuti akuuzeni anthu atsopano.
Khalani otanganidwa kwambiri. Osakhala pambali, kumvetsera zokambirana za anthu ena, koma alowe muzokambirana.
Mu mnzanu aliyense yesetsani kuona chinachake chabwino. Chifundo chachikulu kwa anthu ndi chimodzi mwa maziko a kuyankhulana bwino. Ndithudi inu mwazindikira momwe zimakhalira zokondweretsa kulankhula ndi munthu yemwe kukambirana kumamupatsa chisangalalo.
Khalani okoma mtima komanso omvera, onetsani chidwi: mvetserani mosamala kwa otsutsana nawo ndipo onetsetsani kuti mufunseni mafunso.
Dziwani nokha. Musaope kunena kapena kuchita chinachake cholakwika. Ndi okhawo omwe sachita kanthu sali kulakwitsa.
Adadi mu yankho
Zimakhala kuti timalandira maonekedwe athu kuchokera kwa atate athu. Asayansi ochokera ku Scottish University of St. Andrew, atafufuza zithunzi za banja, anafika pamfundo yodabwitsa yakuti: amuna okongola, monga lamulo, amabadwira ana aakazi okongola ndi ana. Ndimawonedwe kawirikawiri. Koma kukongola kwa amayi sikumapatsa ana ake mwa ubwino uliwonse.
Kukongola kumapatsirana
Akatswiri a zamaganizo a ku France anachita zofufuza zodziŵika bwino. Amuna 300 anawonetsedwa zithunzi za akazi omwe amawonekera mofanana: pa imodzi mwa zithunzi zomwe adajambula ponseponse, pafupi ndi atsikana omwe amakambapo, ndipo lachitatu - palimodzi ndi atsikana oipa. Ndipo chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti amuna okongola kwambiri anali azimayi omwe akuimira chithunzi choyamba! Choncho musamachite mantha kuti posiyana ndi abwenzi okongola kwambiri mumawoneka kuti ndi "imvi".