Kodi mungasankhe bwanji wokondedwa?

Mayi aliyense amafuna kukonda ndi kukondedwa. Koma nthawi zina, ngakhale akazi okwatirana amadandaula kuti hafu yawo siwapereka chidwi chenicheni, chikondi chenicheni, chikondi, kukhutira ndi kugonana. Ndani amayesa kupirira zonsezi mwa iye yekha, ndipo ndani amayamba kuganiza momwe angapezere munthu kumbali yake. Ndipo nkhaniyi ikuuzeni momwe mungasankhire wokondedwa. "Zonse, ndatopa, ndikusowa munthu!", - Katya mwadzidzidzi adanena. "Ine ndine mkazi wosakwatira, ndili ndi bizinesi yanga, ndi ana awiri abwino, omwe sindingakwanitse ngakhale kusangalala pang'ono?"

"Palibe chabwino padziko lapansi," Natasha akufuula mofatsa. "Ndili ndi banja labwino ndi mnzanga ... ndithudi, ngati ankakonda kupita kunyumba nthawi zambiri ndikundipatsa nthawi - Ndidali mkazi!".

Amayi onsewa, odandaula ndi vuto limodzi - momwe mungakhalire mkazi weniweni, khalani pafupi ndi munthu wokondedwa ndikudalira thandizo lake. Inde, kukhutirana ndi kugonana pakati pa okondedwa kumachita mbali yofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa umoyo wathanzi ndi wathanzi wa mkazi, ndipo kusiya kungathe kuchepetsa kudzidalira, thanzi ndi khalidwe la moyo.

Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi wokondedwa kuti mudziwe malamulo ena:

1. Pezani munthu woyenera pa chiyanjano chotero - si zophweka. Inde, mungagwiritse ntchito makasitomala, malo odyera, malo ocheza nawo - omwe angakuthandizeni pakufufuza ndi ofunikira. Chenjerani, posankha ndi kofunika kwambiri komanso muyeso yoyamba ya chiyanjano muyenera kuchita cheke (simukufuna kuti mukhale wogwidwa ndi munthu wonyenga kapena wonyenga).

2. Ngati mwasankha mnzanu - muyenera kufotokozera maulendo onse ofanana nthawi imodzi, pamisonkhano yoyamba. Onetsetsani kuti inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mukufuna chibwenzi chotero, chifukwa chifukwa cha izi mungapewe mavuto ambiri mtsogolomu. Komanso, kambiranani ndi mnzanuyo, malo, nthawi zingapo (mwezi, masabata), njira zoyankhulirana.

3. Dziwani kuti zingakhale zotani zomwe zingathe kukhala mbali yanu komanso mbali yanu. Simungathe kuchita zinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri, monga matenda opatsirana pogonana, mimba yosafuna kapena nsanje ya amuna ndi akazi.

4. Ngati mutayamba chibwenzi, ndiye kuti muziyang'ana zinthu zonse nokha, osati kudalira mnzanuyo. Ngati mukufuna kusonkhana mwachinsinsi, musamayang'ane wokondedwa kuchokera kwa anzanu - kuntchito, m'banja, ndi abwenzi (apo-kumene chiyanjano chingakunyengeni inu kapena iye).
5. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - ubale ndi wokondedwa uyenera kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa iwe ndi iye. Choncho, ngati chiyanjano chanu chikuyamba, pitani ku siteji ya nsanje, kuopseza moyo wanu, chiwawa ndi thupi, ndiye kuti ubalewu uyenera kuyimitsidwa mwamsanga.

Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa