osadziŵika, osadziŵika, mpaka kufika poti mungakondane ndi anzanu akale
mnyamata. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika, pamene sitimayamikira zomwe tili nazo, koma timayamba kuyamikira pokhapokha ngati titaya.
Pamene mudali pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata uyu, simunamverenso kumumvera chisoni kapena kukondana, kumudandaula, kupeza zolakwa zambiri, ndipo tsopano, pamene mutathyola ndipo akhoza kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana wina, mumadziwa kuti mumakonda kwambiri munthu wakale.
Inu mumangolota za izo tsopano, kumbukirani kokha
zabwino kuchokera ku chiyanjano chanu, mumadana naye bwenzi lake latsopano ndi nokha pa zomwe sizinali
Ndinawona mwa iye munthu wa maloto anu , pamene mudali pamodzi. Ndipo nthawi zonse mumaganizira za momwe munayendera kukondana ndi kale! Mwamwayi, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti pamene mudakumana, simunamuyamikire, munawona kuti kale "akukuthamangitsani", kuti adakondana nanu, ndipo munadzilola kuti mukhale ovulaza, okhumudwa ndikuyesetsani kuti mum'chitire cholakwa . Ndipo tsopano, mutayika, mumadziwa kuti wakale ndiye munthu amene mumamufuna.
Koma musataye mtima. Izi zingakonzedwe pogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri
khama. Ndipo ngati izo sizigwira ntchito, ndiye inu simungadzitsutse nokha kuti simukuchita chirichonse.
Simuyenera kulola vutoli ndikuvutika mu chete. Zambiri zimadalira momwe mudasokonekera ndi mtundu wa malingaliro okhudzana ndi inu omwe mudapatukana. Ngati inu
Anagawidwa popanda zopanda pake ndi mikangano ndi kutemberera, ndiye pali mwayi wobwezeretsa.
Chiyanjano chilichonse chiyenera kukwaniritsidwa mwamtendere ndi chitukuko. Inde, ndibwino kuti musatero
analekana, koma ngati ubalewo ulibe chiyembekezo, ndipo inu nonse mukumvetsa kuti muli bwinoko
Kuti tipeze gawo, nthawi zonse ndizofunikira kuti tichite zimenezi mwakachetechete komanso popanda kukangana. Ngakhale woyambitsa phokoso ndi chibwenzi chanu. Zoonadi, izi ndizokhumudwitsa komanso zopweteka, koma simukusowa kuti zikhale zonyansa komanso zonyansa zambiri. Musakhale munthu wonyansa, kudzikuza, kulepheretsa kukhumudwa kwanu, osatsika ndi kunyoza. Simukusowa kupanga adani. Mitu
zambiri, sizikudziwika momwe zinthu zidzakhalira mtsogolomu. N'zotheka kuti adzanong'oneza bondo ndipo adzafuna kutsitsimutsa ubale wanu. Mwina simungatsutse izi, ngati mutagawanitsa chitukuko.
Ngati ndinu wabwinobwino, ndiye kuti mutengapo mbali yoyamba kuyanjanitsa ndi kukhazikitsana. Mukhoza kupanga msonkhano ndi wachibwenzi wanu wakale. Ndipo musamachite mantha. Kambiranani naye, kambiranani naye kwambiri
moona mtima. Musaganize kuti iye mwiniyo adzaganiza zonse, pitani ku oyamba poyamba. Nthawi zambiri
maubwenzi ambiri odalirika amakhala osatheka chifukwa chakuti mnyamata ndi mtsikana onse amawopa kukhala oyamba kunena za momwe amamvera, amawopa kutsegula miyoyo yawo, amawopa kuti akhale oona mtima.
Ngakhale palibe chomwe chikuchitika, musawope cholephera. Yaikulu kwambiri
kulephera - pamene onse awiri akufuna chimodzimodzi, koma onse ndi osamvetsetseka, mwina anu
Mwamuna wakale akufunanso kutsitsimutsa ubale wanu, koma akuwopa kukuuzani za izo, akuwopa kukana kwanu ndi maloto obisika kuti mudzasintha.
Zambiri zimadalira kuti amatha kuyambitsa ubale watsopano ndi mtsikana wina.
Ngakhale zili choncho, pitirizani kupeza njira yolankhulana naye moona mtima. Mwinamwake anayamba ubale watsopano kukupusitsani kapena kuti musakhale nokha, osati kumverera kwa msungwana watsopano. Ndipo ngati zikutanthauza kuti ayamba kale kukondana ndi chibwenzi chake chatsopano ndipo ali ndi chibwenzi cholimba, ndiye kuti mumangokhala pambali ndikusokoneza nawo ndikupeza munthu watsopano.
Mulimonsemo, chikondi ndi chisomo chodabwitsa, chinthu chachikulu sichikupatsani mtundu wochititsa chidwi, koma kukondwera m'chikondi cha munthu, ngakhale sichigawidwa. Chikondi ndi bwenzi lanu lakale likutheka ngati simungokhala ndikumva zowawa. Ndizoonadi
ndizotheka kuti mudzatha kubwezeretsa, ndipo adzakayamika chifukwa cha inu
kusamala. Kungokubwezerani, kuyamikila ubale wanu ndipo musachitenso zolakwika zomwezo.