Choyamba, muyenera kuvomereza nokha kuti mutakhala osangalala pamodzi. Kudzudzulidwa ndi kukhumudwa sikudzatha, khalani oyamikirana wina ndi mzake pazinthu zomwe poyamba munali ndi inu. Pitirizani kukumbukira bwino, ndipo pokumbukira mnzanuyo mudzakhalabebe bwino. Panalibe tsogolo labwino - chabwino, izo sizikutanthauza kuti mmodzi wa inu ndi woipa.
Kotero nkhani yamatsenga yatha
Nthawi zina matsenga amathera - amene mumamverera ngati mfumu, patapita kanthawi anali kutali ndi kalonga. Koma kodi zosungiramo zake zonse zinachokera kuti? Yankho lake ndi lophweka - nthawizonse linalipo, iwo amangokhala osadziwika panthawi ya kukondana.
Izi zimachitika, ndipo mosiyana - munthu sanasinthe nkomwe, koma ubale suli wofanana ndi kale. Pachifukwa ichi, ndibwino kuganizira mozama za zomwe zimayambitsa kusiyana - pambuyo polekanitsa, kukumbukira bwino kungabweretseretu zopanda phindu. Inde, ndipo ena nthawi zambiri amathamangira kukudzudzulani chifukwa cholekanitsa, chifukwa kuchokera kumbali ya ubale nthawi zambiri zimawoneka bwino kuposa momwe zilili. Musalole kuti zidzudzule, kumbukirani zonse zomwe zimayambitsa ubale wanu. Muyeneradi zambiri!
Zotsatira zovuta
Njira yolakwika kwambiri yogawanika ndikulankhula momveka bwino pokhudza chisankho chanu. Komanso, munthu sayenera kuletsa chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi, ponyalanyaza mauthenga onse ndi maitanidwe. Perekani mnzanu mwayi woti afotokoze maganizo awo pazovuta. Mwina, kudakondana pakati panu ndi kukambirana moona mtima kudzakuthandizani kukonza ubale wanu. Ngati sichoncho, kukambirana kotseguka kudzakuthandizani kupeŵa kukhumudwa ndikukhala ndi abwenzi anu mtsogolo.
Musayambe zokambirana za kupatukana pamalo amodzi. Ichi ndi sitepe yovuta yomwe siyenela kuchitidwa poyera. Pezani mgwirizano pakati pa anthu amtundu wa alendo osakulemekezani inu komanso zinthu zomwe zikukugwirizanitsani. Pokhapokha ngati mukuganiza kuti munthu akhoza kukhumudwitsa kwambiri, muyenera kusankha malo odyera bwino kuti mukambirane.
Umboni weniweni
Si chifukwa chanu kuti ubalewu watha. Kotero ngakhale, mutatha kufotokozera mwakachetechete chifukwa cha kusiyana, mwamuna amakwiya ndipo amasonyeza kuti sakuchita bwino, simuyenera kudziimba mlandu. Chinthu chokha chimene chiyenera kukuvutitsani ndi kugawa katundu wanu omwe muli nawo pakhomo kapena, ngati palibe, kubwezeretsa zinthu zanu zonse zotsalira. Simukulipira ngongole kwa mnzanuyo, choncho musasiye ma akaunti anu kapena china chilichonse chomwe ali nacho.
Ubale ndi wa anthu awiri
Ngati ndinu woyambitsa phokoso, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi ndi munthu wina, n'kopanda phindu kulimbana ndi kudzidalira kwa munthu. Gwiritsani ntchito zokambirana zomwe mumaletsa kuyanjana osati chifukwa cha munthu wina, koma chifukwa chake - mavuto omwe ali nawo panopa, kuti musamapweteke maganizo a mnzanu pachabe. Musati muwononge ubale ndi munthu wodzipereka ndi womvetsa. Ngati vutoli ndi losiyana kwambiri ndi chifukwa chake kupatukana kumakhala kusakhulupirika kwa munthu, ndiye kuti ubwino wake udzakhala woposera. N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kukhala pa ubwenzi ndi munthu amene samakulemekezani?
Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kumbukirani - simukusowa kuti musokoneze maganizo anu. Kupatukana kumapweteka, kotero simusowa kukhala olimba. Popanda kukhumudwitsa chisoni, mudzakumana ndi zochitika mofulumira ndipo posachedwa mudzazindikira kuti m'tsogolomu mukhala osangalala.