Kulimba mtima kuti muzimverera
Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo iwo anayamba kukhala osamala polankhula, kudzikweza okha ngakhale m'mabuku awo. Ganizirani momwe kuyankhula kwathu, kulimba mtima, ndi chisokonezo zidzakhudza momwe timayendera. Kuyambira kugwira ntchito kwa fanolo, adasintha okha. Ndipo chikhalidwe chathu chenicheni chinkawoneka ngati chosasangalatsa. Pamwamba padali chikhalidwe chovomerezeka kwambiri ndi maganizo athu okhudza iwo: kulemekeza kapena kunyalanyaza. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono iwo anasiya kudzimva okha. Chikhulupiliro chasowa pachiyanjano. Koma izo zinkawoneka kwa ife mwachibadwa, ife tinaphunzira kukhala moyo. Nthawi zina kumverera kunabwera. Tinayesa kuyendetsa muwondo umodzi. Koma monga magulu a zosiyana zosiyana, sanatembenuke. Takhala tasiya kumvetsa kuti ndife ndani, komwe ndi mzere wathu, ndipo sitingathe kuyanjanitsa ndi mlendo. Kotero, kwa munthu waluso, wolimba mtima ndi wachikondi - kusokonekera kumakonzedwa. Timadziwa luso losewera ndi malingaliro. Timabisala, timamangirira maukonde, kukopa ndi kubwezeretsa, kuyang'ana mosiyana, kudya milomo yathu, kuletsa kunjenjemera pamabondo athu, kupha zopempha ndi kuvomereza. Kulira kwa moyo kumveka mkati, koma palibe amene amamva. Sitikukakamiza kugonana, sitingalole kuti iwo alipo. Ndife zitsanzo zokwanira, chirichonse chiri mu dongosolo, ndipo chomwe chiri cholakwika - ife tidzakhala tikupulumuka nokha ndi tokha. Ndiyeno tikulakalaka kuganiza za momwe zingakhalire zabwino, kumvetsetsa ife, kuzitenga monga momwe ziliri, dziloleni kuti mukhalebe nokha. Pakalipano, kumenyana kwathu ndi mphepo yamkuntho ikufala kwambiri moti simungadziwe. Tidzidzimangiriza ndi chidwi chokhudza ululu wosapha. Inde, tikukhala olimba. Funso ndilo, mtengo wanji.
Chikondi cha chikondi
Ndipo pokhapokha pamene chikondi cha pokhapokha cha dziko lathuli chikwanira, timakhutitsidwa ndi ife eni. Ndipo kugwa uku kwachisoni timaiwala dzina lathu. Kusiyana pakati pa "kukumbukira" ndi "kukumbukira kale" kukudza ndi nthawi zina zofunika komanso zosasangalatsa. Kuti mukhazikitse mgwirizano wamphamvu, muyenera kuwona yemwe ali mmenemo kupatula ife. Ndipo mu nthawi yokana chilakolako chofuna kukonza nthano zokongola za iye. Pambuyo pake, mpaka titazindikira kuti tikukondana ndi maloto, ndi kwa iye kuti tikumanga buku. Ziribe kanthu momwe mafunde ake atitengera ife kutali, tsiku lina ndi nthawi yokomana ndi chenicheni. Ndiyeno, nthawi zina, timakondwera kwambiri: nthawiyo, pamodzi ndi chiwonongeko, ikhoza kuonedwa ngati poyamba. Ndipo nkhani yanu ili ndi zotsatira. Kawirikawiri sizimatsatira. Nthawi yomwe vumbulutso likubwera, limakhala lomaliza. Wojambula adachoka pa chithunzicho, chithumwacho chinasanduka nthunzi: chirichonse chimene tinkadziwa chinali, zokhudzana ndi shuga. Wojambula ndi wina, nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi gawoli. Panthawi ina zofooka zake zinkafika; SALI iye. "Ichi sichoncho," mwachidwi chimatchula "ayi" poyankha. Ubale ukuwonongedwa osati kupyolera mu zolakwika zazing'onozing'ono. Pakati panu - kusiyana kwathunthu. Kupanda kufanana. Inu simukugwirizana palimodzi. Ndipo nchifukwa ninji simunazizindikire izi?
Chotsani maski
Chikondi chenicheni chimapangidwa ndi kudzikonda, ndikuchotsa zovala zanu zoteteza. Kunyada pamlingo wa maganizo ndi kumverera. Silingathe kuchita popanda kuleza mtima, kumvetsetsa ndi chifundo, ndi zachilendo kulamulira moyo wa mnzanu. Ndizoopsa kuti ife tiganizire zomwe ziti zichitike ngati tikankhira wokondedwa. Ndipo iwo ali okonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito machenjera. Kukhala chete: ngati iwe ukuumirira, ndi wofatsa; kugwiritsa ntchito nzeru za akazi; tasewera pafooka lanu. Inde, mwachitsanzo, choncho. Nthawi zonse muzikhala osamala kuti musawononge mkwiyo. Khalani osasunthika momwe mungathere. Ena amasankha njira iyi "yosunga ubale," ngakhale kuti imayambitsa iwo, kuwatsitsa. Kukhala tcheru ndi momwe timachitira ndi wokondedwa wathu kumabweretsa kuyika kwatsopano kwa zomangira pakati pathu. Ndipo mmalo mwa chikondi chokhazikika, timapeza mgwirizano wa zilakolako, nthawi zambiri zimatsutsana. Nkhanza zowopsya ndikuti, pofuna kumanga, tikuwononga. Kulota pafupi, timakhala ndi nsanje, kukwiyitsa, mkwiyo, chisoni, kusowa mphamvu ndi kutopa. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono timaphwanya mizu ya mgwirizano wathu - komabe timagwirizana kwambiri. Nthawi zina, kuti tipeŵe kuwonongeka, timayesetsa kufotokozera mfundo yomwe siili yake. Mu imodzi inagwa swoop, ife timachotsa chiyanjano.
Kutambasula
Chithunzi si munthu panobe. Nthawi zina sizomwezo. Koma nthawi zambiri timapereka ufulu wotsogolera "Ine". Iye amadziwika ndi ubwino wake ndi zovuta zomwe siziri khalidwe lathu, komabe, m'kupita kwa nthaŵi timayamba kuwazoloŵera ndi kuvomereza ngati zathu. Chivumbulutso kuti ife sitiri ife, kumapangitsa kufunika kosintha, kubwerera kwaife. Popanda njira yoteroyo, kumverera kumakhala kofanana ndi komwe kumakhala ndi wochita masewera amene amachitira mbali ya wina. Iye ndi wabodza, iye akung'amba. Ndipo lolani ena asaganize, simungadzibisire nokha. Mchitidwe wozindikira umunthu wake "kuchokera ku izi kupita ku izi" umayambitsa kusayeruzika kosayenera kwa chenicheni. Mwachitsanzo, tili otsimikiza kuti tili ndi ufulu. Nthawizonse. Ndipo ngakhale titapepesa, sititsogoleredwa ndi liwu la chikumbumtima. Sungakonde kusokoneza maganizo chifukwa cha kusamvera kwaumitsa. Tidzakambirana za momwe amachitira nthawi ina. Ndipo tsopano tidzakhala pa "mbali zotsatira" zofunikira kwambiri. Podzipenyera nokha choonadi panthawi yapamwamba kwambiri, timadzimana kuti tibwereze zolakwikazo. Ndipo ngati tikana kumvetsera maganizo osiyana ndi athu, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti tigwirizane ndi anthu athu apamtima, chifukwa tidzatha kutanthauzira zonse. Osasamala, omwe samadziwa zokhudzana ndi anthu ena, timakhulupirira kuti iwo ali olimba muzomwe amakhulupirira. Ndipotu, n'kopindulitsa kuti tilakwitsa! Nthawi iliyonse tikalakwitsa, zinthu zimachitika mwanjira inayake. Kuchokera mmenemo timapeza mkangano povomereza mfundo ina. Chitsanzo chosavuta: timagonjetsa munthu wapafupi, iye amachitapo kanthu pazomwe tikukumana nazo. Pano, chonde, ndi umboni wakuti iye alibe chidwi kwa ife. Ndipo ngati njirayi ikuchitika konse, kuchokera kwa omwe ife tikuyembekezera mwachinsinsi kuti tithandizidwe ndi kumvetsa chisoni, musaganize kuti palibe amene amasamala za ife. Komabe, kuzindikira kuti ndife okondeka kwa wina (ngati lingaliro la izi ndi zakutchire) lingakhale kusokoneza kwakukulu kwa chiwonetsero chathu. Ndipo zolakwitsa zomwe timapitiriza kuchita ndi zomveka, zimatiteteza ku zinthu zowopsya.
Epilogue
Kuyandikira kumene kulibe malo oti munthu aziyambira ndi mphamvu. Kumene amayesetsa kumvetsetsa ndikuzindikira ufulu wa wina ku ufulu. Ngakhale nthawi za chisokonezo pamtundu umenewu sizikuwopsyeza okha "Ine" ndipo sizingathetserekanitsa. Mukakhala pafupi, yesetsani gulu limodzi ndi mnzanu payekha. Mumavomereza ndikuwathandiza, kusinthanitsa mphamvu. Pogwiritsa ntchito maubwenzi, zakale zapitazo zimakhalapo pakali pano. Zitsulo zatsopano za moyo, zomwe zingasokonezedwe molakwika, zimatikumbutsa momwe kugwirizanako kuli kovuta komanso kosawerengeka. Choncho, ngakhale mawu owona mtima kwambiri ayenera kulunjika kulengedwa. Ngati mupita kukakumana ndi mtima wotseguka, kukangana sikungakhale chotchinga. Pambuyo pake, ngakhale iwo ali njira yokha yomvetsetsa nokha ndikumvetsa bwino wokondedwa wanu. Ndipotu, tonse timafuna izi.