Kuchokera nthawi yakale, chikondi m'dziko lapansi chimadzaza miyoyo ya anthu ndi tanthawuzo, chimapangitsa kuti chilengedwe chiziyenda bwino ndi chikhalidwe, ndizojambula, zimawathandiza kukhala osangalala. Chikondi ndi chiphalaphala cha maganizo omwe angakakamize anthu kuchita zinthu, nthawi zina amisala, nthawi zina okongola, omwe poyamba ankaganiza kuti sangathe. Chikondi sichikhala ndi nthawi, palibe zopinga, palibe choletsedwa, chikondi chimapereka mapiko ndi kuukitsa kumwamba omwe adakhalapo ndikumverera kopanda malire. M'dziko lamakono, monga, komabe, nthawi zonse, chikondi chimasiyana ndipo munthu aliyense amasonyeza chikondi m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Kwa anthu ena, malingaliro a chikondi ndi ufulu ndi mbali zosiyana, zonse zotchedwa chikondi chaulere. Chifukwa cha chikondi choterocho palibe malire posankha wokondana naye, lingaliro la kukhulupirika koteroko kulibe. Anthu omwe amatsatira lamulo la chikondi choterocho, amakhulupirira kuti abwenzi sayenera kusokoneza ufulu wa wina ndi mzake. Nsanje kwa iwo ndi mawonetseredwe a umwini wokha mogwirizana ndi munthu wina.
Chikondi chaulere ndi mtundu wotsutsa anthu chifukwa cha otopa mfundo za chikondi ndi ukwati. Chikondi chaulere m'dziko lamakono ndi dziko lonse lomwe liri pafupi ndi omwe ali ndi masomphenya achikondi. Padziko lonse lapansi, kuyendetsedwa kwa unyamata kumalimbikitsa zomwe zimagwirizana. Ngati mupita kumadera 60 apakati a zaka zapitazi, mungapeze kufanana ndi a hippies omwe anali ndi maganizo ofanana. Chokondweretsa ndicho chakuti pakalipano pakhale ndi chizindikiro chake, chizindikiro cha chikondi chaulere - ndi mabotolo ofiira ndi oyera. Chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe a chikondi chaulere mu dziko lamakono ndikulumpha. Swing ndi mtundu wa moyo kwa mabanja ena. Kusuntha kumaphatikizapo kusinthanitsa anthu ogonana, omwe ndi khalidwe la chikondi chaufulu m'dziko lamakono. Kwa awiriwa, magulu apadera a swing amapangidwa, mamembala omwe amatanthauza kukhalapo kovomerezeka kwa mnzanu wokhalitsa ndi kuvomerezana kwawo kuti alowe mu gulu, komwe angakhale ndi nthawi yosangalatsa ndikudziwana ndi omwe angakhale nawo.
Kudziwa kwa osambira akuchitika osati m'magulu apadera, komanso pagombe, discotheques, malesitilanti. Kuthamanga kuli ndi zikhalidwe zake ndi malamulo a khalidwe, zomwe zimaloledwa ndi zomwe siziri, ndipo zomwe kawirikawiri zimakambidwa musanayambe kusinthanitsa ndi osankhidwa omwe asankha. Komanso palinso mfundo zoyenera komanso zoyenera za khalidwe. Odzisambira ali ndi malamulo awo ndipo chachikulu ndi chakuti n'kosatheka kuyesa kuononga ukwati wa wina. Odzimva amakhulupirira kuti amatchula maukwati apadera amene ali pamwamba pa makhalidwe abwino komanso omwe amakana maubwenzi osiyana pakati pa okwatirana. Kwa ena, kusambira ndi njira yapamwamba, pakuti wina ndi njira ya moyo. Chiwonetsero ichi cha chikondi chaulere chikukhala chodziwika kwambiri mu dziko lamakono. Ponena za chikondi chaulere m'dziko lamakono, ntchito zambiri zalembedwa, nyimbo zambirimbiri zaimbidwa, filimu yambiri yawombedwa. Ena amakhulupirira kuti chikondi chaulere chimapereka ufulu wotsata komanso zosankha, pamene ena samatsutsana ndi izi ndipo amakhulupirira kuti chikondi chenicheni ndi kudzipatulira ndi kukhulupirika kwa wokondedwa, mumzimu komanso mwathupi. Mikangano imeneyi idzatsala mpaka pali chikondi padziko lapansi. Ngakhale kuti pali malingaliro ambiri a chikondi mu dziko lapansi, amakhalabe kumverera kokongola kwambiri. Chikondi, ndipo moyo wako udzakhala wodzaza ndi tanthauzo, udzakhala wowala!