Kawirikawiri, kuyambira nthawi yayitali, pali zochepa zomwe zasintha mwa njira zomwe zimagwirizanitsa chiyanjano. Zonsezi zokhudzana ndi ungwiro wa chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi zofanana ndi masiku a ubwana wa makolo athu, ngakhale makolo oyambirira. Ganizirani zigawozikulu za lingaliro limeneli mwatsatanetsatane.
Choyamba ndikumverera
Ngakhale m'zaka zathu zamakono zamakono, palibe chomwe chatsintha pambuyo pamaganizo. Ndi chikondi chomwe chikhalire chigawo chachikulu cha ubale pakati pa anthu awiri, zina zonse ndi zotsatira zake zokha. Ngati pali chikondi chofanana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, ichi ndi sitepe yoyamba, kotero kuti ubale wawo ndi wabwino.
Yang'anani pozungulira, penyani achibale anu, abwenzi ndi anzanu, omwe ubale wanu ukuwoneka kuti ndinu woyenera kutsanzira ndi kuganiza kuti muli pansi pa ungwiro wotero? Yankho ndilo chikondi. Poyang'ana mawiri omwe ali abwino m'maso mwathu, timayamba kutengera chinthu china kuchokera kwa iwo ku chiyanjano chathu, chinachake chomwe chimatiwoneka chofunikira ndi chofunika, chomwe chimalola kuti ubale wathu ukhale woyenera. Palibe chinyengo, kuti timatenga zabwino kuchokera kwa ena, chifukwa anthu amaphunzira osati zolakwa chabe. Mwa kusintha malingaliro a wina kwa ife, ifeyo timakhala bwino, ndipo tilole ena atenge chinthu chabwino kwa iwo okha.
Chachiwiri ndi kuwona mtima ndi kusayera
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti tikhale ndi ubale wathanzi ndi wathanzi ndi kuthekera kuti tisagwirizane ndi mikangano pamalo opanda kanthu. Zili zoonekeratu kuti ngakhale awiriwo akondana, amakhalabe awiri, aliyense ali ndi maso ake pa moyo, ndi malamulo ake, mfundo zake, mavuto ake komanso kusintha kwake. kuyang'ana zachirengedwe, osati ngati wina amachititsa mnzanu kukhala wokondweretsa kapena wokondweretsa. Palibe ubale wopanda mikangano, koma bwino yesetsani kuchepetsa kukambirana ndi kuyankhulana.
Ngati, zitatha zonse, zakhala zikuchitika kuti, ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi ubale wabwino, sangalole aliyense kukhala mboni za kusiyana kwawo. Pali maanja amene kufotokozera ubalewo kumapezeka mosasamala malo, nthawi ndi chiwerengero cha anthu oyandikana nawo, koma ndithudi palibe aliyense mwa anthu ozungulira omwe angaganizire za ubale wawo. Mwamuna ndi mkazi omwe sagwirizana nawo nthawi zonse amavomerezana manyazi, ndipo makamaka pamene wina - amachititsa kumverera kotentha. Kotero, ngati mukuyesetsa kuti mukhale wabwino, yesetsani kutsimikiza kuti nokha kapena wina aliyense sakudziwa za kusagwirizana kwanu kapena kusakhutira kwanu.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ngati chinachake sichikugwirizana ndi khalidwe la mnzanuyo, kapena m'mawu ake muyenera kukhala chete nthawi zonse, mukupeza zolakwika, zomwe zidzatha. Lankhulani wina ndi mnzake, kambiranani nthawi zomwe zikuwoneka zolakwika, ndipo phunzirani kukhululukirana.
Chachitatu - zofuna ndi zosiyana
Kwa banja lokongola, si vuto limene munthu mmodzi amakonda chinthu chimodzi ndipo wina amachita chinachake chosiyana. Vuto limabwera pamene wina sasamala zomwe wina amaganiza ndipo sasamala za chiyani. Anthu awiri, ayenera kudziwa zofuna za wina ndi mnzake, ayenera kumvetsera ndikuthandizira zokambirana ku filimu kapena buku lomwe mwina silikusangalatsa kwambiri, koma limapangitsa kuti wina asamveke bwino.
Kusakanikirana kwachinayi
Okonda awiri amayesa kuthera nthawi yochuluka momwe zingathere palimodzi. Iwo sangapite mosiyana pa tchuthi popanda wina ndi mzake, iwo sangapite limodzi kupita ku filimu kapena kuwonetsero.
Masiku ano, zimakhala zovuta kuti awiriwa aziphatikiza nthawi yaulere, ntchito iliyonse imene imakhala nthawi yambiri, ndipo yachiwiri imagwira ntchito sabata iliyonse. Koma izi siziyenera kukhala chifukwa chomwe simungathekondwerere tsiku lachibale, tsiku laukwati ndi zina zofunika kwa makolo anu.
Yesetsani kupirira zinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku palimodzi, mutenge pamodzi kapena kuphika, kapena pitani ku sitolo kuti mukagulitse zakudya.