Pano pali msungwana wa zaka zinayi akuti "Agogo, ndimakukondani kwambiri, choncho ndikukonda, ndipo munandipatsa chokoleti?"
Sikutanthauza kuti kugula maswiti ndi masewero a ndalama ndikupambana chikondi cha mtsikana akhoza azakhali onse akuyenda mumsewu.
Timaphunzitsidwa ubwana kuti ngati simungathe kugula chikondi, ndiko kulondola. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kufunafuna anthu olemera sikulakwa, ndipo pafupifupi aliyense akulota kuti mwamuna anali wolemera komanso wosabereka ngati n'kotheka. Zolembedwa m'mabuku zimapindula chifukwa chogwidwa ndi mwamuna wolemera, magazini ofunika kwambiri akufalitsa mndandanda wa malo abwino kumene "miyendo ya miyendo" ikudyetsa. Ndalama ndi thupi ndi mwazi wa dziko lino. Palibe, ngakhale munthu wounikiridwa kwambiri, waphunzira kukhala ndi anthu komanso kuchita popanda "zonyansa". Kaya ndi koyenera kulankhula za ife, amayi ofooka: zodzoladzola ndi madiresi, salons ndi magulu a masewera - zonsezi sizingakhale gawo la moyo ngati muli osauka. Chikondi ndicho chinthu chomaliza chimene munthu wokwiya, wotopa amalingalira, amakakamizika kugwira ntchito zitatu kuti athe kulipira ngongole zonse ndikugula chakudya ndi zovala. Ndalama ndi chifukwa chachikulu cha mabanja amakangano. Mkazi amalandira zambiri - mwamuna ayamba kuyesa zovuta ndi kutaya kunja odziwika bwino kwa onse akuyang'ana kudziwonetsera yekha umulungu. Iwo samapindula onse awiri - chiwerewere chimodzi chimayamba. Ndi chikondi chotani!
Kuwonjezeka kwa chikhalidwe cha banja kudzera muukwati wopindulitsa si chinyengo cha ife kapena ngakhale mbadwo wakale. Nthaŵi zonse panali achinyamata ndi atsikana omwe ankawona unyamata, kukongola ndi malingaliro monga ndalama zopezera ndalama zopindulitsa kuti akope "wogulitsa" mwa wokondedwa, mbuye, ndipo ngati ali ndi mwayi, ndiye theka lachiwiri lovomerezeka. Uwu ndiwo moyo, koma zowona sizingayankhe funso ngati n'zotheka kugula chikondi chenicheni cha ndalama. Nthawi zina "mbali yogulitsa" imagwiritsa ntchito mwaluso malingaliro enieni omwe phwando likukhala mosungira ndalama ndipo saganiza kuti malingalirowo sali owona mtima. Ndikuwona. kuti kuchokera ku khalidwe lachikhalidwe khalidwe ili silolandiridwa, koma nthawizonse limakhala lofunikira, mu chinenero cha msika. Kwa omwe amalembedwa mndandanda wambiri pa mutu wakuti "Momwe mungagwirizane ndi inu nokha ...", ngati sitikufuna izi. Ndipo chinthu choyipa chotero ndi pafupifupi munthu wolemera ndi wopambana. Choncho, chikondi chenichenicho ngati kudzipereka kwathunthu kugula ndalama sizingagwire ntchito, koma pano pali kutsanzira kwabwino kuchokera ku zojambula zopanda phindu kapena wojambula - ndithudi. Pa zinthu zoterezi nthawi zonse zimakhala zofunikira, chifukwa anthu ambiri amangokhalira kuwonjezeka kwambiri ndipo amakonzekera kuti akwaniritse zotsatira zomwe sakuzoloŵera kuyembekezera kumverera kulikonse kumeneko.
Zoonadi, kuti mukhoza kugula chikondi chenicheni, ndikumva chisoni komanso kuwononga miyoyo ya anthu oposa mmodzi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri chisankho sichimathandiza osauka ndi achikondi. Mu izi, mwinamwake, mungathe kumuimba mlandu wina aliyense, koma kaŵirikaŵiri chifukwa chake - mwachikhulupiliro chopezekapo kuti chikondi chenicheni chikugulitsidwa. Kodi n'zotheka kugula chikondi chenicheni cha ndalama? Kodi izi sizinanso zonyansa kuposa kugulitsa chikondi?
Mwamwayi, chikondi ndi ndalama zimagwirizana kwambiri m'malingaliro athu, chifukwa chikondi chimayang'ana pa msinkhu wosamvetsetseka monga chofunika kuti pakhale banja, ndipo ukwati ndi kubadwa kwa ana ndizo chuma chambiri. Kotero popanda chitsulo chosasangalatsa sungakhoze kuchita, ndipo anthu ambiri amapereka nsembe, kukhala moyo, kudziyesa. Ngati muli ndi mwayi, ubale wotere udzakhala chizoloŵezi ndi ubwenzi, ndipo patapita nthawi pang'ono, chikondi. Moyo ndi wodabwitsa, ndipo simukuganiza kuti mumapeza pati, kumene mumataya.