Pafupifupi chikondi chochuluka, nthawi zina, mkazi aliyense amalota, ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi amuna amafuna chinthu choti chichitike mu chiyanjano. Ndipo zowona, popanda chikondi chachikondi ngati maulendo apanyanja, galimoto m'galimoto kapena kusamba ndi makandulo ndi mafunde, ngakhale maubwenzi opanda mtambo amapeza chisautso chosayenera. Ngati mukufuna kuchepetsa chizoloŵezi chanu cha tsiku ndi tsiku ndi chikondi chochepa nthawi ndi nthawi - zonse ziri m'manja mwanu, mukusowa kulimba mtima ndi kulingalira pang'ono.
Mwamwayi, nthawi yathu, kuyatsa kwa nyali ndi botolo la vinyo wokondweretsa ndi zakudya zina, anthu ochepa okha anganene kuti zimakhala zachikondi. Anthu awonongeke kwambiri, ali ndi mwayi wambiri, womwe siwowonongeka, koma amayenera kuyesa kwambiri kupuma mu chikondi chaching'ono. Musagule zovala zamtengo wapatali ndi kuyatsa banja makandulo, ndi chikhalidwe cha moyo tsopano kuti mukwaniritse zofunikira muyenera kudabwa ndi wokondedwa wanu Mwachitsanzo, mmalo mwa lacy negligee wotsatila kugula mzimayi wamasewera wotentha kapena anamwino otentha, ndithudi musasiye mwamuna wanu wopanda chidwi. Kapena yesetsani chinachake chotentha, mwachitsanzo, latex pang'ono ndi manja mu ubweya, koma yesetsani kuti musawerenge ndi kuwala, kopanda apo mnzanuyo adzachita mantha osati kudzozedwa ndi maonekedwe anu.
Chimodzi mwa nthawi zachikondi kwambiri pakati pa okondedwa awiri ndi misonkhano ndi magawano. Tangoganizani kuti mwamuna kapena mnyamata wanu abwere pambuyo paulendo wautali komanso wovuta, akudikirira nthawi yomwe akukuonani pa sitimayo kapena pa eyapoti pambuyo polekana. Inde, tikuyembekezerani nthawiyi nonse, choncho bwanji osayankhulanso kanthu kena. Kambiranani naye ndi kumwetulira, phokoso labwino, mwachitsanzo, ndi mabuloni amitundu yosiyanasiyana, kapena ndi mpira wodyerera mmanja mwanu, ndikukhulupirirani, zotsatira zake zidzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi vaamoboi, ndikupanga msonkhano wodikiridwa kwambiri.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuzindikira kuti chikondi chimapangidwa ndi inu, mwa kuyesetsa kwanu, sikudzangokhalako kwina kulikonse, sikudzakhala ngati mvula ya chilimwe, ngati simukufikanso ndi wokondedwa wanu mu nthawi ya maluwa. M'kupita kwanthaŵi, ngakhale chibwenzi chokhumba kwambiri chimakhala chokhazikika. Choncho, simukusowa mantha kuti muzitha kuchepetsa nthawi yaitali kuti mukhale chete. Mwachitsanzo, pokonza phwando lokondwerera chakudya, polemekeza tsiku loti "lanu", yikani saladi pa mbale monga mawonekedwe a mtima, kapena muzikonza mikate ndi mitima yanu. Kapena mwinamwake mwachangu mazira m'mawa, pogwiritsa ntchito nkhungu yapadera. Sikuti tsiku lililonse ndiponse paliponse mwamuna wanu akukhumudwa pa zikondi za chikondi, zonse zimakhala bwino, iromantics idzakhala yamtengo wapatali ngati itayikidwa.
Gulani basiti kwa picniks, mulole kuti mu nyumba mwanu chinthu chimene nthawi ndi nthawi chidzakutsogolerani ku malingaliro okoma, ndi kutsimikizira zomwe zikuchitika. Mu tsiku labwino la chilimwe, pangani masangweji, tsitsani zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba ndipo muitaneni wokondeka ku pepala. Ndichifukwa chiyani mumakhala masiku abwino a chilimwe kunyumba, pamene mungakhale nokha pamodzi m'chilengedwe?
Musaiwale za zinthu zabwino zokongola. Perekani mphatso, zikhale basi positi kapena chikhalidwe chokongola chomwe chimaperekedwa monga choncho, popanda chifukwa. Lembani kalata yanu yomwe mumakonda, osati masamu, omwe ndilemba, kusiya zikhomo ndi mawu achikondi pa firiji, kapena kuyika cholemba m'thumba lanu, chipangizo cha magetsi sichikhoza kusonyeza chikondi cha manja anu, mosiyana ndi malemba olembedwa.
Zimakhulupirira kuti mwamuna amakonda pamene mkazi ali ndi zovala zazing'ono. Mwinamwake, ndi choncho, komwe mungachoke pa zocheperapo. Koma ngakhale pa nkhaniyi, zimakhala zovuta kuti zovalazo ziwoneke ngati zovala, nsalu zokhala ndi lamba ndi nsalu zabwino kwambiri zimakhala ndi zotsatira zowonjezereka, malaya akale osakongola, ndi akabudula.
Zonse zomwe tazitchula pamwambazi sizatsopano, ndipo ambiri amadziwa, koma nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha kutopa ndi kutopa, sitifuna kuyesetsa kuchita ngakhale pang'ono kuti tikambirane za chikondi. Pambuyo pake, zimadalira ife kuti tiwonetsetse kuti ubalewu suzimitsidwa, osati kutengeka ndi chizoloŵezi, ndipo zonse zinatipatsanso nthawi zosangalatsa zambiri momwe tingathere.