Nthawi zambiri timazindikira kuti maubwenzi ochepa okha amatha kukhalapo kwamuyaya, koma ngati pali kusiyana, amayi ambiri amaganizira momwe angathetsere vutoli mothandizidwa ndi miyambo yamatsenga. Koma ngati njirayi idzakuthandizira kusunga maganizo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, khalani wokondwa naye, mudzaphunzira kuchokera m'nkhani yathu.
Ngakhale kuti anthu adaphunzira kulamulira mphamvu za nyukiliya, ma robbo omwe afikitsa pamwamba pa Mars akuyambitsidwa, makina a nanotechnology akupitirizabe, ena akukhulupirirabe kuti mavuto ena angathe kuthetsedwa mothandizidwa ndi miyambo ina yamatsenga. Komanso, pa intaneti ndi m'manyuzipepala, mungapeze malonda ambiri, omwe amakhulupirira kuti kubwezeretsa chikondi ndi chithandizo cha chikondi, kuonjezera zogonana, kukopa mwayi ndi chuma cha kunyumba. Zonse zomwe mukufunikira kwa inu ndizochepa, nthawi zambiri osati zochepa, kuchuluka kwa ndalama komanso kuchita mwambo wamba womwe wapangidwa kwa aliyense kasitomala.
M'nkhaniyi, sitikulinga kutsutsa akazi kufunafuna thandizo kwa amatsenga akuda ndi oyera, ochiritsa, amatsenga - tiyesa kufotokoza kuti kuyang'ana mwatcheru mkati ndi kusanthula zinthu kungapindule kwambiri kusiyana ndi kutembenukira ku mabungwe ena. Wochita zamatsenga, mumuimbire chilichonse chomwe mukufuna, ndikuyesera kuyika maganizo ake pazochitikazo. Ndizo zonse.
Munthu amene amakonda kwambiri mtima wake amamvetsetsa kuti kuti akhalebe ndi chiyanjano ndikofunikira kuti azigwira ntchito pa iwo. Ndipo ngati kusintha kwina kwachitika pakati pa anthu, ndiye kumverera kumathandiza kumvetsa kuti chinachake sichili bwino. Izi ndizomwe amatsenga omwe akukonzekera zamatsenga, zithumwa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito. Mudziko, ndithudi, pali anthu omwe ali ndi mphatso yapadera, koma nkokayikitsa kuthetsa vuto pamtunda wapadziko lonse. Tangoganizani kuti wokondedwa wanu akuuzidwa kuti adzakuonani mwa mkazi aliyense yemwe amakumana naye. Ndipo izi zingathandize bwanji kubwezeretsa chikondi chachikale?
Chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi chimamangidwa pamakhudzidwa mtima, kuyanjana pakati pa mphamvu zawo kumachitika pazigawo zosaoneka bwino, ndipo iwo omwe atembenukira kuthandiza anthu omwe ali ndi mphamvu zazikuru ali okonzeka kuyika chiyanjano chachitatu ndi omwe amachititsa kuwonongeka kwachinsinsi chanu.
Mukudziwa kuti anthu sangathe kukondana kapena kusiya chikondi, ziribe kanthu momwe amayesera, sangathe kuchita mwa kufuna kwawo - gawo ili lamoyo silingathe kulamulira. Ndicho chifukwa chake kusokonekera kulikonse kungabweretse mavuto osagwirizana ndi thanzi, ndipo nthawi zina kumataya moyo. Taganizirani izi ndipo nkutheka kuti mukuzindikira kuti mukuchita chinthu cholakwika. Kuchitapo kanthu mu chikhalidwe cha zinthu, iwe umaphwanya kukhulupirika kwa dziko lozungulira iwe, ndipo kukhazikitsidwa kwa mapulogalamu extraneous mu chidziwitso cha munthu wina sikungathe kutha momwe iwe unali kuyembekezera.
Palibe amene anganene kuti chirichonse padziko lapansi chiyenera kulipidwa. Ndipo muzochitika zathu sitinaganizirenso mbali zakuthupi za funsolo, koma zina zambiri, monga momwe mungathe kukhalira ndi moyo wonyenga. Ngakhale simukukhulupirira kuti kulibe dziko lopusitsa, ganizirani, kodi mumapeza chikondi cha munthu amene munamuchitira nkhanza? Inde, ndizo momwe kukhazikitsidwa kwa pulogalamu yomwe ikufunidwa kumawoneka ngati chidziwitso cha munthu wina. Chikhalidwe chimatipatsa ufulu wosankha, ndipo kutipangitsa ife kumverera ndi kudzipatula tokha mwayi wofufuza mkhalidwe ndi kusankha zochita.
Ngati mutasweka ndi wokondedwa wanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kuvomereza zomwe mwasankha ndikudzipatulira nokha. Apo ayi, lamulo la boomerang, malingana ndi zomwe zoipa zonse zidatumizidwa kwa wina, posachedwa adzabwerere ndi mphamvu zowirikiza, kapena katatu, zikugwira ntchito. Ndipo tsopano ganizirani ngati muli otsimikiza kuti muli ndi chiwawa pa dziko lopusitsa la munthu, mungathe kupitilira kukhala mwamtendere ndipo zotsatira zanu sizidzasintha?
Ziphunzitso zambiri za filosofi zimatsindika kuti timafunikira kulimbana ndi malingaliro ang'onoang'ono ngakhale asanatifike mitu yathu. Ngati chikhumbo choyankhula ndi amatsenga monga kale, ganizirani ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoterozo ndipo mwakonzeka kusokoneza m'tsogolo. munthuyo? Mwachibadwa, palibe amene angakugwireni chanza, koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zabwino ndi zoipa zidzabwerera mosalephera.