Chifukwa chiyani kufufuza kwa theka lachiwiri cholinga cha moyo wathu wonse? Kodi mungapeze bwanji chikondi cha moyo wanu wonse? Fufuzani kapena mungokhala ndi kuyembekezera? Fufuzani, kuyang'anitsitsa mu nkhope ya munthu aliyense ndikufunsani ngati ndinu chikonzero changa - ndi chopusa. Iye sakudziwa ngati iye ali tsogolo lanu kapena mkazi yemwe akubwera ku msonkhano wanu. Iye sakudziwa momwe iwe uliri, yemwe ali tsogolo lake.
Ndimakonda fanizo limodzi lachi Greek ponena kuti anthu sanali zomwe iwo ali tsopano. Ndipo iwo anali ndi mikono inayi, miyendo inayi, nkhope ziwiri ndi zizindikiro za kugonana, ndiko kuti, panali mkazi ndi mwamuna, iwo anali ogwirizana, iwo anali amodzi. Potero, iwo anali amphamvu, ndi opirira kwambiri, ochenjera. Iwo akhoza kudzibala okha.
Izi sizinakondweretse milungu, ndipo Zeus adasankha kuwachotsa. Ndi mphezi imodzi, iye anagawanitsa zolengedwa zonga zaumunthu ndipo anabalalika pa Dziko lapansi. Ndipo tsopano tikuyenera kuyendayenda padziko lapansi ndikuyang'ana mbali zina zathu, ndikukwera kumalo osadziwika. Pambuyo pake theka lachiwiri lidzakhala lotsimikizika , koma panjira yopita ku theka lomwe timakhala ndi ululu wambiri, mkwiyo, misozi yambiri yomwe tatsitsa, ndi angati omwe akulakwitsa, ndikuganiza za theka la wina, apa ndi! Iye ndi theka langa. Ndipo iye, izo zikutembenuka, akuyang'aniranso iye, mwamuna wake, ndipo, kukukhumudwitsani pa inu, zinali zolakwika, pang'ono chabe. Ndipo mwalakwitsa, kupweteka kumapyoza mtima wanu, mtima wanu umathyoka pamapangidwe ndi kuphwanya ngati chifaniziro chazing'ono.
Munthu aliyense amabadwa ndikukula kuti apeze moyo wake wapamtima ndikupereka moyo wake wonse wapatali ku cholinga ichi, akuyendayenda padziko lapansi ndikufunafuna moyo wake. Kwa munthu aliyense, cholinga chimenechi chimatenga malo enaake m'moyo. Kwa wina wapadera, ndi wina wachiwiri. Ngakhale ngati munthu akukana zonsezi, ndipo akunena kuti izi ndizochabechabe, akuyembekezerabe mu kuya kwa moyo wake kuti apeze chikondi cha moyo wonse mwa chozizwitsa. Mu miyoyo yathu yonse yomwe timayipeza, timayendayenda pofunafuna zosadziwika, monga momwe timayambira "ndikupezereni izo, sindikudziwa, chindibweretsereni, sindikudziwa."
Ndipo mumadziwa bwanji kuti ndi amene akufunikira? Mukudziwa bwanji kuti theka lina linapezedwa? Mwinamwake ndikwanira kupeza munthu yemwe mungathe kuphatikiza moyo ndi zomangira za sitampu mu pasipoti yanu ndi kubereka ana, yambani nkhuku ndi kudzala kaloti? Mwina iyi ndi theka limene takonzekera kufunafuna moyo. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, anthu amakwatira ndi kusudzulana kupyolera mwa, ngakhale ngakhale miyezi ingapo, koma muzaka zingapo. Iwo amalankhula mawu olumbirira, kuti ine ndidzakhala pafupi ndi chisoni, ndipo mu chisangalalo, mpaka imfa igawanike ife. Inde, ndithudi, awa ndi mawu okha omwe anali opatulika, koma tsopano iwo ali chabe mawu, ndi mwambo.
Mwamuna amapereka dzanja lake ndi mtima wake, ndipo patapita miyezi ingapo amachoka kwa mkazi wina, kapena amangoyamba kufotokozera chilichonse, kutenga zonse ndi kuganizira. Kapena mkazi yemwe amasunga malo, amathawa kwa mwamuna wake, kapena amangochoka, akunena kuti watopa ndi chirichonse, atasweka mtima wake ndi mbale zonse mnyumbamo. Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wovuta ndi munthu amene mwamusankha? Pambuyo pake, munati: "Inde, ndikuvomereza." Palibe anakukakamizani. Ndipo usanakwatirane, simunafikire tsikulo, osati awiri. Anthu asanakwatirane zaka zambiri, amayamba kukhala pamodzi, amadziwana bwino kuposa iwowo. Nanga bwanji kulumbirira ndi kupondaponda mu pasipoti kusagwirizana kwa nthawi yaitali?
N'zotheka kuti palibe maukwati osapambana. Kusiya banja tikuyang'ana bwino kuposa zomwe tili nazo. Ndiponsotu, munthu amakonzedwa kuti satero nthawi zonse, ndipo mwambi wakuti "umbombo wa fraera" watha. Ndipo atatha kale kulira, koma adzabwerera, kunyada sikulola. Kudzikuza ndi lingaliro lodzilemekeza kwambiri, ndipo timachita zotsutsana ndi kunyada pansi pa ulemu. Mphamvu zoposazo ndizo kudzidalira kwambiri mwa ife, pamwamba ndi mphuno zathu zapamwamba, ndipo mochuluka sitikuwona zomwe zikuchitika pansi pa mphuno zathu. Ndipo pansi pa mphuno zathu ndi theka lachiwiri pa mawondo ake ndi maluwa a maluwa ndipo ali ndi misozi pamaso pake akufuna kubwerera, koma sitikuwona. Chotupa chachikulucho chimatseka maso athu, ndipo timasiya kuona zomwe ndikuyamba kuona zosiyana. Chifukwa chakumverera uku, maubwenzi onse akulekanitsa, ndipo salola kuti tibwererenso chomwe chili chofunika kwambiri kwa ife, ndipo chifukwa chake timakhulupirira kuti tasankha molakwika kuti munthu uyu sali cholinga cha moyo wathu wonse. Mawu amodzi, mawu amodzi akhoza kukhumudwitsa kunyada kwathu, ndipo malingaliro omwe amachititsa kudzidalira angawononge chirichonse chomwe tinachikonda kwambiri ndikuchisunga.
Ndipo ngati, ngakhale kuzindikira kuti zodandaula zonse zaiwalika, munthu sayenera kuganiza kuti palibe msewu wobwerera. Njirayo nthawi zonse ilipo, komanso kupita patsogolo. Pambuyo pake, mukamapita mumsewu pamsewu, malo owonekera pambuyo panu samapanga ndipo samatha. Mukhoza kutembenuka nthawi iliyonse ndikubwerera. Anthu wamba, kukopa ndi kudzilimbikitsa okha, anabwera ndi mawu awa: "palibe njira yobwerera". Msewu nthawi zonse ulipo, ndi kumbuyo ndi kutsogolo ndi kumanzere ndi kulondola ndi gulu lonse la malangizo omwe muyenera kungowasankha okha. Mu moyo, msewu nthawi zonse umakhalapo, umangoyenera kuphunzira momwe mungatembenukire pamene mukufunikira.
Ndipo kotero, mukabweranso, mukhoza kubwezeretsanso theka lachiwiri, limene mwasiya posachedwapa kapena kale. Tiyenera kuphunzira momwe tingalankhulire ndi kumva mawu akuti "kukhululukira" kachiwiri. Kulimbana - kodi ichi ndi chinsinsi cha maubwenzi abwino?