Choyamba, mukufuna kuyamba ndi malangizo ena, ganizirani mosamala, kodi mukufuna kukondanso mwamuna wanu? Pambuyo pake, ngati malingalirowo atha kwamuyaya, ndiye kuti lawi la moto silidzatha. Simungayambenso kukondana, koma ngati mukumva kuti chirichonse sichinakhazikike mpaka mapeto, ndipo simukufuna kutaya maganizo awo kwanthawizonse, ndiye ndikuwoneka kuti ndiyenera kuyesa. Kotero, tiyeni tiwone zomwe tingachite kuti tikondane mwamuna wathu kachiwiri.
Bwererani ku chiyambi cha ubale wanu.
Chilichonse mu dziko chili ndi chiyambi, mtsinje uliwonse uli ndi msewu uliwonse, komanso chikondi chako. Mwina, kuti kachiwiri kukondana ndi mwamuna wanu, mumangobwerera kumalo kumene mudali pachiyambi cha ubale wanu. Yendani pa paki komwe mudapsompsona koyamba, pitani ku cafe kumene adakutsogolerani. Apanso, konzekerani ulendo wawung'ono kupita kumalo kumene mudakakhala. Mwinamwake malo omwe chirichonse chinayambira, chidzakutsitsirani malingaliro anu kwa mwamuna wanu!
Pezani munthu watsopano mwa mwamuna.
Kwa zaka zambiri, mukhoza kudzizoloŵera ndi kudyetsedwa ndi chirichonse, ngakhale okondedwa anu. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti palibe chinthu chatsopano mwa munthu uyu, yesetsani kuyang'ana mwamuna wake mwanjira ina! Pezani zinthu zomwe simunazizindikire ndipo simunagwirizane nazo. Pambuyo pake, ngati mutaleka kukonda mwamuna wanu wakale, mwinamwake mukhoza kukonda wina watsopano! Mwinamwake, izi ndizo zomwe mukusowa, zomwe zingakonde kachiwiri. Pambuyo pake, nthawi zina timakhala timagwirizana, koma nthawi yomweyo sitimapenya kanthu kalikonse kokhudza munthu. Yesetsani kupeza mwa mwamuna ndi mbali zatsopano.
Konzani zomwe zimakhumudwitsa mwamuna wake.
Izi zimachitika kuti zofooka izo, zomwe sizinasamalire pachiyambi cha ubale, pambuyo pa zaka zimayamba kukwiyitsa molakwika ndikupha mwachindunji kumverera. Zinthu zomwe poyamba zinkawoneka zabwino ndipo sizinayambitse kusamvana pambuyo pa zaka zingathe kuwalimbikitsa. N'zomvetsa chisoni, koma ndi zoona. Pochotsa cholakwika ichi pachiyanjano, lankhulani ndi mwamuna wanu, mufotokozereni momwe kuli kofunikira kuti muchotse zolakwa zanu, kuti izi zimakhudza maganizo oipa. Osati kuti mwamunayo nthawi yomweyo amakumvetsani ndipo amavomereza, koma kumapeto, zikuwoneka kuti akhoza kupereka nsembe chifukwa cha chikondi chanu.
Kupatula pang'ono kwa pang'ono.
Kutalika ndi nthawi ndi chinthu chochititsa chidwi, nthawi zina amapanga zozizwitsa ndi anthu komanso maganizo. Ndipo zomwe zimakuwonetsani kuti mumazimva bwino, pomwe phulusa lina, patatha masabata anayi likhale yekha pachipatala chokha ndi chilengedwe (kapena ulendo wawung'ono ndi chibwenzi, kapena china chake) popanda kuyanjana ndi mwamuna wake, mutabwereranso akuyaka ndi moto woyaka ndi woyaka moto chikondi. Mosiyana ndi gulu loyambirira, pomwe mudapemphedwa kuyendera limodzi, ndibwino kuti muchite mosiyana. Mwamuna wanga nayenso akhoza kulangizidwa kuti apite ku lamulo kuti apite. Ndiponsotu, palibe chabwino chokhazika mtima pansi kusiyana ndi kupumula pang'ono.
Monga momwe mukuonera, pali njira zingapo komanso malingaliro oti mukondane ndi mwamuna wanu kachiwiri kapena mupatseni chidziwitso chatsopano ku ubale wotha. Koma ndikufuna kudzibwereza ndekha ndikumangoganizira kuti zonse zimakhala zomveka bwino pokhapokha mwa inu ndi mmenemo mumakhalabe nyali yamoto. Apo ayi, inu mumayesera kuyimba pa makala ozizira ndi oviira ndipo simungapeze chilichonse. Ndi chifukwa chake kuti chinthu chilichonse chiyenera kuyamba, choyamba, ndi kumvetsetsa bwino, kaya zonsezi ndi zomveka.