1. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi mayamiko. Awamva iwo ku adiresi yawo ndikuzindikira kuti ali osasamala, i.e. osati pa adilesi yoyenera, samalani. Ngati mutatembenuza mutu wanu wokongola, kumbukirani kuti izi ndizomwe mukuyendetsa. Tsopano adadziponya yekha kutamanda tsitsi lanu losasunthika, ndipo posachedwa, ndikuyang'ana moona mtima, angakufunseni kuti muchite pang'ono. Ndipo kukana chinthu chenicheni sichikuwonekera, monga momwe silibwino ... Pano inunso mwafika pa chingwe.
Mungatani kuti mutsimikizire kuti simukulolera kuchita zinthu molakwika? Musamachite manyazi komanso kukhumudwa mukamamva kuti muthokoza nokha. Ingomupatsanso zomwezo, mwachitsanzo, pa matamando a matamando.
2. Kumverera chisoni. Kwa amayi, chifundo ndichibadwa mwachilengedwe. Akamva anthu akufotokozera nkhani zokhudza zovuta, nthawi yomweyo amayesa kuthandiza sitata. Zilibe kanthu ngakhale nkhaniyi ikukhudzana ndi msilikali uyu. Koma sizowoneka ngati munthu weniweni akudandaula za zofooka ndi mavuto ake, kupatula nthawi zosawerengeka, pamene munthu akufuna kungolankhula ndi kungochepetsera zovuta zake. Kawirikawiri nkhani zoterezi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndipo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kulingalira ndi malingaliro anu. Pambuyo pake pempho lothandizira - izi zingakhale ndalama, weasel, ntchito ya ntchito iliyonse. Ndiye mumadziwa bwanji kuti munthu wotsutsa amayesera kuchita? Kufunsa mafunso kawirikawiri, mumvetsetsa mosavuta kuti zambiri mwazomwezi sizigwirizana. Ndipo ngati iwe, kumudodometsa, kungamusokoneze iye, ndiye zotsatira zake ziwoneka mwamsanga - iye ayamba kusokonezeka m'nkhaniyo, kuti asalankhulepo. Pambuyo pake nkhaniyi imabwera ndi pempho. Ndipo inu, pang'onopang'ono, taganizirani izi ndikuganiza kuti izi ndizongogwiritsanso ntchito, ndikugwiritsanso ntchito njira yake ndikulira, kotero kuti adzakuchitirani chifundo, chifukwa ali woimira kugonana kolimba.
3. Muzochitika zoterezi, muyenera kusankha mofulumira kwambiri. Ndipo ngati awona kuti vutoli ndi lopambana ndipo amamvetsa mwamsanga mwadala munthu, ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizirika kuti ichi ndi chinyengo, ndizo zonse. Kodi vutoli lingalephere bwanji? Sungani nthawi yoganizira ndikugwirizanitsa ndi mkwiyo wake. Pitani kwa nthawi kwinakwake, chabwino, osachepera mu chipinda.
4. Mikango. Amuna, ndipo izi ndi zoona, akunena zabodza kwambiri. Ndipo ngati munthu akukunyengani ndi mabodza, kudzakhala kokwanira kufunsa mafunso angapo ndi chidaliro mu mau, kotero zimamveka bwino kuti mwakhala mukuganiza kale za izo. Pochita izi, yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti mafunsowa ayankhidwa mzere, osamupatsa mwayi woyika mayankho. Mmenemo akukhala wamanjenje ndikudzipatula yekha.
5.Thandizani kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi, kutanthauzira zokambiranazo mu nkhani zina zomwe zikuwonekera kuti nkhani yanu siikondweretsa kwa iye. Ndipo kulankhula pa mutu umenewu kwa munthu sizosangalatsa, choncho amayamba kumamatira mawu omwe mwalankhula ndi mawu osamvetseka kuti mupite ku mutu wina wokambirana. Njira imeneyi pambali ya munthu imakulolani kuti mukhale omvetsera kwambiri ndikutsatira zokambirana zanu kuti mubwerere ku mutu wapitawo.
6. Ngati mukuyesera kuimba mlandu munthu wina, sadzilungamitsa yekha, ndipo sachita zomwe zingathetsere vutoli. M'malo mwake, ayamba kukuyesani. Kukumbukira mfundo zosasangalatsa m'moyo wanu kumayambira, ndipo kenako kumakhala kuti si iye, koma muyenera kudziyesa nokha. Ndiye mumapanga bwanji kuti musagwiritsidwe ntchito? Mmodzi sayenera kupanga zifukwa. Apa izo zinali, ndipo izo zinali. Ndipo panopa, zokambiranazo n'zosiyana kwambiri. M'tsogolomu, kumbukirani kamodzi kokha - musanene zambiri za inu nokha kwa abwenzi olakwika.
7. Kugonana kwabwino ndi kotani? Monga lamulo, akazi amakhala okhumudwa komanso omvera kwa anzawo. Ndipo mfundo yoti mkazi amaopa kukhala chidakhwa, amachititsa kuti anthu otero, ndi kuwopseza, atengere mbali zonse zomwe akufuna. Ngati mwasokonezedwa motere, yesetsani kukhala odzikwanira - kotero muthetsa mnzanuyo mwayi wakuchititsani inu, ndikuuyika motere. M'malo mwake, iye amayesa kusunga mgwirizano mwa njira iliyonse, kuti asatayike. Dzikhulupirireni nokha. Konzani kawirikawiri mawonetsero omwe mumakonda amuna ena - ndizokhumudwitsa mnzanuyo.
8. Kodi mwamunayo akuyesera kukuchotsani malo anu? Kudzudzula ndikukamba za anzanu ndi achibale anu, amayesetsa kuti, popanda kukhala ndi malo anu enieni, simunakhale ndi mwayi wocheza ndi munthu kapena kunena za zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu. Muzochitika zotero, monga lamulo, mkazi ndi wosavuta kugwiritsira ntchito. Simuyenera kugonjera izi ndikusiya maubwenzi ndi okondedwa anu.
9. Ngati mwamuna sakufuna kuchita zimene mumamupempha kuti achite, ndipo ngati atero, ndiye kuti, monga momwe akunenera, ingochotsani ... Zimene adachita, komanso ngakhale zovuta, muyenera kudzipangira nokha. M'tsogolomu, ndithudi, simungamupemphe kuti akuthandizeni, chitani nokha. Koma zidzakhala zabwino ngati musayesere tsatanetsatane ndipo muyenera kubwezeretsanso chinthu chomwe adalephera.
10. Ngati munthu akudziletsa nthawi yake pokwaniritsa ntchito yanu, chinthu chimodzi chikuwonekera bwino-akuyembekezera kukutsutsani chifukwa cha izi, kuti mugwiritse ntchito mwayi umenewu kunena kuti sadzachita chilichonse m'tsogolomu. Amatha ndi kuti amachoka, akuwombera chitseko. Ngati izi zakhazikitsidwa, musayese kuziletsa. Musanyoze. Kungomusangalatsa ndi mawu akuti "ndiwe mnyamata wabwino bwanji!". Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse kuchokera kwa iye mofulumira komanso mkhalidwe wa nkhani yomwe adapatsidwa kwa iye.
11. Chida chophweka ndi chofala kwambiri pa chiwonongeko ndi ndalama. Munthuyo, akukugwiritsani ntchito ndalama pang'ono, amayesa kubweretsa vutoli kwa iye kuti atenge mphotho yayikuru kuchokera kwa inu ndipo ayenera kumunyoza chifukwa cha kunyozedwa. Amayesetsanso kuti asokoneze ubwenzi wake ndi iwe. N'zosakumbukika kuti kutenga mphatso kuchokera kwa munthu, ndiye kuti mumadalira iye ndikuyesera kubwezera mphatso yobwerera, yokwera mtengo. Ngati munthu akukudziwani pang'ono, musatenge mphatso zamtengo wapatali zochokera kwa iye, pakuti aliyense, ngakhale chitonzo chaching'ono kwambiri pa mbali yake, adzakugwetsani. Ngati muli ndi chidaliro mwa wosankhidwa wanu, ndiye kuti, mwachibadwa, zimakulolani kuti muzichita mosiyana. Koma mulimonsemo, pezani ntchito ndikuchita zonse kuti mupeze ndalama. Khulupirirani ine, mumakhala omasuka kwambiri ndi izi.