Kodi mungadziwe bwanji za kugonana kwa mnzanu mwa njira yake?

Akatswiri a zamaganizo padziko lonse amanena kuti kugonana kwa munthu kumadalira mosavuta ndi kukoma kwake ndi zizolowezi zake. Choncho, pokonzekera kuyesera kochepa - mutatha kuyang'ana wokonda ndikudziwa momwe adye ndi zomwe amadya, mukhoza kuphunzira zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi malingaliro ake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati zina mwazakudya zimakonda mbatata yokazinga ndi mafuta ochotsa - mungathe kuiwala za kulenga pa bedi. Kunja kwa "pulogalamu yamakono", sangathe kuvomereza kuti achoke, ngakhale wokonda akhoza kukhala wabwino nthawi yomweyo. Ngati munthu ali ndi gourmet, ndiye mu ubale wapamtima adziwonetsanso yekha moyenera, chifukwa kukondwera naye ndiko koposa zonse! Pamaso pa mnzanuyo, mutsegule makadi onse popanda mthunzi wamanyazi, kutchula ngakhale malingaliro okhwima a kugonana, sitingathe kumugwedeza.

Mr. Fastfood
Ngati munthu ali kale kuposa makumi atatu, ndipo chakudya chake chimakhala ndi ma hamburgers ndi pizza, ndiye tikhoza kunena kuti kugonana kwake malingaliro ake ndi ochepa. Malinga ndi anthu ogonana, amuna oterewa, monga lamulo, ndi okonda kwambiri. Mwa njira yokhudza chakudya, anthu ambiri ogonana pogonana ndi otsimikizirika kuti oimira a magulu apakati apakati amasangalala ndi kugonana kwambiri kuposa "dystrophics" omwe amathetsa mavuto awo nthawi zonse, amadzilepheretsa kudya.

Chowonadi chenicheni
Wokonda masewera akhoza kukhala mwamuna yemwe amamwa chakudya pang'onopang'ono, akuyendetsa bwino chidutswa chilichonse. Panthawi ya chakudya, amangokhalira kukonda chakudya, kubwezeretsanso, choncho samakhala wokhumudwa pabedi: kumayambiriro kwa nthawi yayitali, kuperewera kosalekeza komanso kugonana mokwanira komanso kugonana mokwanira - ndicho chimene muyenera kuyembekezera kuchokera kwa munthu wotereyu. Mwamuna yemwe, panthawi yoyamba kudya, amayamba kuyamwa chakudya kapena amachikonda, amasamala kwambiri posankha wosankhidwa, koma ali pabedi amadziwonetsera yekha mu ulemerero wake ndipo ndithudi adzamukondweretsa.

Mwamuna "Glutton"
Munthu wotereyu amadziwika ndi chilakolako chake chosalamulirika, ngakhale chosasinthasintha. Amadya mofulumira kwambiri, osakhala ndi nthawi yofunafuna chakudya, komanso amatsuka mbale imodzi, ndikusakaniza ndi mzere wotsatira: saladi, masangweji, maswiti ndi zakudya zamphongo, amwe madzi onse ndi madzi ndikugwiritsira ntchito mbale yophika nyama. Ndi chibwenzi chonchi simungathe kumasuka: kugonana ndi iye kumakhala kosautsa, kochepa kwambiri komanso kofulumira, opanda chikondi ndi chikondi, malinga ndi mfundo yakuti: "Ndinachita bizinesi - yendani molimba mtima." Kuonjezera apo, kawirikawiri pambuyo pa chisangalalo amuna oterewa akugona mofulumira, osakhala ngakhale chidwi ndi udindo wa wokondedwa. Ndipo ili ndi funso: Kodi ndi bwino kudzigwirizanitsa nokha ndi kugonana ndi mwamuna yemwe, kupatula kudya, sakudziwa kanthu kalikonse kozungulira? Ndiponsotu, chiwerengero chachikulu chomwe mukuopsezedwa ndi ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku pafupi ndi wophika, popanda gawo la zosangalatsa ndi kuyamikira.

Poganizira kuti uyu ndi mwamuna wanu, musamafulumire kugona naye pabedi: kuchokera pa firilo losavomerezeka ndi kovuta kuchotsa popanda kugonana. Ndi bwino kupita ku cafe yapafupi kapena malo ogulitsira, kumene, poyang'ana njira yake yopezera chakudya, mukhoza kuphunzira bwino kugonana kwake. Koma kumbukirani kuti zomwe amakonda ndi zizoloŵezi za amuna zimasiyana malinga ndi mkhalidwe ndi zochitika. Kotero ngati ili ndi tsiku lanu loyamba, ndipo bwana wanu ali ndi mantha, mukudziwa kuti akhoza kuchita chinachake cholakwika. Musamamuweruze moyenera, mwinamwake sizinthu zonse zoipa monga momwe zingamvekere poyamba. Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lachiwiri, lachitatu ndikuyesera ndipo kenako pezani zogwirizana.