Chirichonse chimachitika mmoyo wathu kwa nthawi yoyamba. Chikondi choyamba, kumpsompsona koyamba, kugonana koyamba. Aliyense ali ndi izi malinga ndi zochitika zawo. Kuyanjana koyamba ndi munthu ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wa mtsikana, yemwe amakumbukira kosatha. Ndi momwe momwe chibwenzi chidzakhalira mtsogolo komanso moyo wapamtima. Nthawi zina asanakwatirane asanakwane atsikana ambiri amazunzidwa ndi kukayikira ngati kuli koyenera kuchita ndi kuopa ululu womwe umayendera. Ndiyeno funso limabwera pa momwe tingakhalire pa ubwenzi woyamba ndi munthu, chifukwa cha khalidweli zimadalira kwambiri, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kukumbukira - zokondweretsa kapena ayi.
Kuwopsya kwakukulu kwa chiyanjano choyamba
Atsikana ambiri amaopa kwambiri chifukwa chakuti kugonana koyamba kumabweretsa ululu. Koma kupweteka koteroko sikuli kwakukulu, ndipo kutuluka kwa magazi sikuli kolimba. Ngati mtsikanayo ali ndi munthu wolimba kwambiri, pambuyo poyambirira, magazi ambiri angayambe kuwonekera. Ngati kutuluka kwa magazi sikukhala kwa nthawi yaitali, muyenera kufunsa dokotala. Pali milandu pamene palibe magazi pambuyo poyandikira. Kawirikawiri, izi zimadalira kapangidwe ndi makulidwe a anthu. Ndi momwe mungakhalire pachibwenzi choyamba ndi mwamuna, ngati pali ululu wambiri? Pano pali njira ziwiri: woyamba - mnyamata angayese kukulowetsani mwamphamvu (mulibe nthawi yochepetsetsa minofu yake ndi kuopa kupweteka), yachiwiri - adzadzilamulira yekha ndikuchita zonse mwakachetechete. Njira ziwiri izi ndi zabwino, ziri kwa inu. Kugonana nthawi yotsatira ndikulimbikitsidwa masiku asanu ndi atatu mutatha kukondana. Kupyolera mu nthawi ino payenera kukhala machiritso a misonzi ya anthu.
Mwa njira, anyamata ali ndi mantha awo oyamba kugonana. Kuopa kwakukulu ndiko kukwera msanga. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kupereka mnzanuyo caresses, zomwe zingachepetse kukangana kwake ndikuthandizira kuti athe kuganizira momwe akumvera. Ndipo muyenera kukhala okondwa nazo. Kumbukirani kuti chiyambi choyambirira ndi kutayika kwa namwali kumathandiza kuchepetsa chiberekero ndi mafuta a chilengedwe, zomwe zidzathandiza kuyambitsidwa kwa mbolo wamwamuna. Zidzakhala zoyenera ngati mumakondwera ndi munthu yemwe amamuthandiza.
Kukayikira kutali
Momwe mumakhalira zimadalira maganizo anu oyambirira. Ndicho chifukwa chake tiyenera kutaya mantha onse ndi kukayikira. Yesetsani kukonzekera mwakhama. Ngati mumapita kukayikira pang'ono, musachedwe. Chabwino, ngati mwatsimikiza mtima kuti mupite ku chigonjetso chogonjetsa, kumbukirani zotsatirazi: Musagwiritse ntchito mowa kwambiri musanayambe kugonana, kutsiriza - galasi la vinyo kapena champagne kuti musangalale.
Zinthu pa nthawi yoyamba kugonana
Amagwira ntchito yofunikira kwambiri pa nthawi yoyamba kugonana. Chizolowezi chokhazikika ndi changwiro. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutapuma pantchito ndi mwamuna m'chipinda chanu, mumakhala otetezeka komanso otetezeka. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti pali makhalidwe ngati bedi losasuka komanso bafa. Muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti palibe wina akukuvutitsani. Sankhani nyimbo zosangalatsa, samalirani. Zidzakhala bwino kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta amtengo wapatali, kuti ngati simungathe kupeza chisangalalo chokwanira, pewani kuuma kosauka mukazi.
Maudindo oyamba kugonana
Muyenera kusankha zosankha zomwe mungathe kuyendetsa kuyenda kwa mnzanuyo. Kuchokera pazomwe zimakhala zoyenera: umoyo waumishonale wapamwamba (mkazi pansi), "Doggy style" (ngati mukumva kupweteka, musagwirane manja anu m'makutu, pamene mukukweza mmunsi wanu mmwamba), "Wokwera" (apa mungathe kudziletsa nokha), " Spoons "(mkaziyo ali pambali pake).
Ngati mumamva ululu pa nthawi yoyamba, muyenera kuyendetsa pakhosi. Izi zidzachepetsa kupweteka ngati mukubvunda.
Kulera
Kumbukirani kuti pamene mukugonana koyamba simungathe kutenga pakati, koma kachilombo ka HIV. Choncho, ndi bwino kulingalira za kulera. Njira yabwino ndi kondomu. Kondomu yabwino yosankhidwa yapamwamba imatenthedwa ndipo, monga lamulo, sikumverera. Ndikofunika kukambirana njira zogwiritsira ntchito njira zoberekera chithandizo pasanapite nthawi.