Ndimomwe mwamuna wachikondi amachitira ndi kunena

Pafupifupi amayi onse akufuna kuonetsetsa kuti wokondedwa wawo amamva chisoni ndi mtima wonse kwa iwo. Ndicho chifukwa pafupifupi amayi onse ali ndi chidwi ndi funso: kodi mwamuna wachikondi amati ndi chiyani?

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Zizindikiro "zochepa" za kugwera m'chikondi

Koma kwenikweni, funso la zomwe anthu amakonda ndi kunena ndilokondweretsa komanso lodabwitsa kwambiri. Ndipotu, palibe njira imodzi yapadera yosiyana, yomwe mungathe kudziwa nthawi yomweyo ngati mumakonda ndi munthu. Aliyense amadziwa kuti aliyense wa ife ndiyekha, mwachindunji, ndipo mawonetseredwe a mtima mwa ife ndi osiyana. Anyamata ena amawerenga ndakatulo, amapereka nyimbo ndikupanga masiku okondana. Ndipo wina amakonza mosamala zipangizo zonse mnyumbamo, amapita kukagula ndikuthandiza pa chilichonse. Koma, komabe, mu khalidwe la mnyamata aliyense pali chinthu chonyenga, koma moona mtima ndi pakali pano kuti popanda mawu amatsimikizira chikondi chake.

Pa zomwe zikutanthawuza, ngati munthu yemweyo alota, werengani apa

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Choyamba, izi ndiwoneka. Monga kuti mnyamatayo sanakane ndipo sanabisike malingaliro ake, mawonekedwewo adzawathandiza. Pamene mumakonda munthu, mukufuna kuyang'ana nthawi zonse, kuyang'ana m'maso anu, phunzirani mamitamita awiri a thupi. Ndipo ngakhale ngati kumverera kuli kuyesa kubisala ndipo malingaliro akuchotsedwa nthawizonse, mwinamwake, nthawi ina munthu amaiwala za kuyang'anira ndi kusayang'ana mosayang'ana wokondedwa wake. Ndipo komabe, mu lingaliro ili pali zochepa zakumverera ndi zikhumbo. Uwu ndi mtundu wina wododometsa, wosakanikirana ndi malingaliro olakwika. Mwamuna akamakonda, mkazi amamva kuti amamuyang'ana ngati mulungu wamkazi. Ndizowona izi zomwe zimafunika. Amalongosola malingaliro onse a mnyamata. Ndipo ife tonse tikudziwa kuti chikondi chimayambitsa malingaliro abwino. Zikuwoneka kuti chinthu chachikondi ndi chodabwitsa, chokongola, chabwino komanso chosakumbukika. Ngati mkazi yemwe sadzidalira yekha, pansi pa maso ake akuyamba kukhala wokongola komanso wapadera, palibe kukayikira kuti munthuyu amamukonda kwambiri. Ndipo malingaliro oterewa ndi kusintha kwa malingaliro awo akuwonekera chifukwa mnyamatayo amamuwona mfumukazi ndipo amamveketsa maganizo ake pa mphamvu, maganizo.

Zizindikiro "zochepa" za kugwera m'chikondi

Chitsimikizo chinanso cha chikondi mwa kulankhulana mosagwirizana pakati pa anthu ndi, ndithudi, chilakolako chokhudza munthu. Zikatero, mnyamatayo akhoza kukhala pafupi ndi iye, ngati kuti amakhudza mwachangu manja, tsitsi - amalichita bwino komanso mosamvetsetseka. Ngakhale atakhala moyang'anizana, adakakugwirani ndi phazi lanu kapena kukhudza dzanja lanu pamene chinachake chikudutsa. Ngati mnyamata atenga manja ake nthawi zonse, amawatsekera ku nyumbayi, akukwapula zala zake, amakhudza tsitsi lake, amamukumbatira nthawi zonse, ampsompsona manja, osalola, ngakhale m'maloto - amakukondani, komanso moona mtima komanso sakufuna chilichonse. Pamene malingaliro ndi oyera mtima, munthu ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi chikondi ndikuchigwira. Ndipo, izi sizili ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zonse. Nthaŵi zambiri, zonsezi zimabwera ku chikhumbo chowonetsa chikondi ndi chikondi chanu mwa kugwira, kugwedeza, kukupsyopsani manja anu, cheekbones, tsitsi. Ichi ndicho chidziwitso chakumverera kwakukulu, chinthu cha makolo, pamene mukufuna, monga kukulitsa wokondedwa wanu mwachikondi chanu ndi kuteteza ndi kumpsompsona ndi kukukumbatira ku zoipa zonse padziko lapansi.

Kawirikawiri, mwamuna akamamangirira mkazi, amamuumiriza kwambiri, amamumvera kwambiri. Choncho, nthawi imodzi amafuna kumuteteza kwa olakwirawo ndikuwonetsa adani onse omwe angakhale naye yekha ndipo ndithudi sangapereke kwa wina aliyense.

Zomwe zikutanthauza, pamene munthu akukumbatira mu loto, werengani apa

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Amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi ngati mnyamata wapereka dzanja, atsegula zitseko ndi zinthu zina zoterezi. Ndipotu izi sizisonyezero za chikondi, koma ndi chizindikiro cholera. Koma, ngati munthu si njonda yeniyeni, izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangathe kukonda moona mtima. Mnyamata woteroyo amasonyeza chikondi chake m'njira zina. Mwina sangapereke maluwa, koma iye mwini adzaika mawindo atsopano m'nyumba kapena nthawi zonse adzakonza galimoto yanu. Gallantry, ndithudi ndi zabwino kwambiri. Koma si amuna onse olimba mtima omwe amasonyeza zochita zawo zachikondi. Ena a iwo amangozoloŵera kuchita zinthu motere ndi akazi, ndipo ena, mwazochita zotere zimatilepheretsa kusamala ndi kusokoneza zolakwa zawo ndi zolakwa zawo. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kumvetsetsa ngati mnyamata amakukondani, mumadziwa momwe akufunira kuti azithandizani makhalidwe komanso ndalama. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti wachinyamata akuyenera kutonthozedwa nthawi zonse, kuchita zokambirana zopanda malire ponena kuti dziko lonse lapansi ndi loopsya, ndipo ndiwe wabwino komanso sabata iliyonse kugula mphete zagolide. Ndicho china chake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati angathe kubwera kwa inu nthawi iliyonse ndi kukonza mavuto pa kompyuta (madzi, magetsi), kodi angakuchotseni kuntchito nthawi ina, mosasamala kanthu ndi galimoto kapena phazi, komanso ngati angakuthandizeni inu mu nthawi zovuta kwambiri za moyo wanu ndi kupeza njira zenizeni zothetsera mavuto. Mfundo yakuti mnyamatayo ndi wokonzeka kutenga nyenyezi kwa mtsikana kuchokera kumwamba, izi ndi zabwino ndithu. Koma, chikondi chenicheni sichisonyezedwa mu lingaliro losazindikira, koma ngati lidzaphika chakudya, mukatopa kuchokera kuntchito kapena kuyeretsa nyumba ngati mukumva zoipa.

Chilichonse chimanenedwa pazochita

Amayi onse amakhulupirira kuti ali pachibwenzi ndipo amayembekeza kuti akumva mwachikondi. Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa tonsefe timatulutsidwa pa mafilimu achikondi ndi mauthenga okhudzana ndi maukwati, omwe makani amachititsa chidwi pa kavalo woyera. Koma, ngati mukuganiza mwanzeru komanso mwakula, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chikondi sichiwonetseredwa osati ichi, koma, nthawizina, osati konse.

Ndipo kodi mwamuna wachikondi amasonyeza bwanji mmene amamvera pa zomwe akunena? Mwamuna wachikondi amayesera kupanga moyo wa mkazi wake mosavuta komanso wosangalala. Iye samayesa kupha zinyama ndikuyenda kutali kuti abweretse mbalame yamoto. M'malo mwake, mwamuna wachikondi amayang'ana njira zopezera ndalama zokwanira kuti apereke mkazi wake ndi kusalepheretsa nkhawa ndi ntchito. Munthu wachikondi adzakhalapo nthawi zonse, ndipo tsiku lililonse mumaso ake mudzatha kuwerenga: Ndimakukondani. Ndipo pamene akukukumbatira, mukumvetsa kuti palibe zitsulo ndi makoma, palibe makina ochokera m'mabuku a amai angakutetezeni ku mavuto, monga momwe angafunire.