Bwanji ndikulota za kundikumbatira?
Kuti mumvetse bwino tanthauzo la tulo, muyenera kuganizira zonse zomwe zili, popeza mfundo zochepetsetsa zingakhale zofunika kwambiri.
- Kutanthauzira koyamba ndi kofala kwambiri ndikuti kumaphatikizapo malonjezano a maloto okondweretsa misonkhano ndi kukhazikitsa ubale weniweni wauzimu.
- Koma mu bukhu laling'ono la maloto a Veles akuti mutamva kuti wina akukumbatirana mu maloto, zowona mungathe kuwononga maubwenzi ndi munthu uyu. Kuwonjezera apo, maloto ngati amenewa angakhale chiwonetsero cha kusakhulupirika, kusakhulupirika ndi mavuto ena okhudzana ndi ubale pakati pa anthu.
- Ngati mwawona maloto omwe munamukumbatira wakufayo, yesetsani kukumbukira yemwe anali woyamba kuyambapo. Ngati muli, ndiye kuti kusintha kwakukulu kukuyembekezerani patsogolo panu. Ndipo pamene wakufa ananena kuti malotowa alibe tanthauzo lililonse.
- Kudandaula mu maloto ndi abambo akunena kuti wolota posachedwapa adzakhala ndi munthu wamphamvu kwambiri yemwe angathandize pazochita zonse.
Bwanji mukulota mnyamata yemwe amakonda, werengani pano
Ngati munthu akukumbatira mu loto
Malingana ndi kutanthauzira kwa mabuku ambiri a maloto, kukumbatirana ndi mnyamata wokondedwa kumasonyeza kuti zolinga zanu zidzakwaniritsidwa. Koma izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa nkhani zomwe mnyamata uja anakumbatidwa ndi iwe mwini. Komabe, ndipo maloto omwe wokondedwa wanu amakumbatira iwe sakhala ndi tanthauzo lililonse loipa. Iye akunena kuti ubale wamphamvu wa chikhulupiliro udzakhazikitsidwa pakati pa abwenzi.
Ngati mnyamata yemwe mumamukonda, amakugwirani kumbuyo, musasangalatse. Mwinamwake mukuchita zinthu modalira kwambiri, ndipo mnyamatayo sangakhale wabwino ngati momwe mukuganizira. Choncho, yang'anani mwakukonda wanu kuti muteteze kumbuyo kumbuyo.
Kukumbatirana kwa mnyamata wosadziwika kumanena kuti pamaso panu kuyembekezera anthu ambiri omwe mumadziwana nawo, omwe pakapita nthawi adzakula kukhala mabwenzi amphamvu kwambiri. Pali mwayi waukulu kuti musinthe ntchito ndikusunthira gulu lalikulu ndi labwino. Komanso, pakati pa anzako atsopano adzakhala mnyamata wanu wam'tsogolo.
Ngati munthu akukukumbutsani m'maloto, pomwe mukukumana ndi chilakolako champhamvu ndi kukondana, ndiye kuti chibwenzi chatsopano sichidzakudikirirani nthawi yaitali. Izi zimagwira ntchito makamaka kwa atsikana omwe alibe osankhidwa panthawiyi. Kwa omwe adapeza kale moyo wawo, kugona kumalonjeza kusintha kwatsopano kwa ubalewu. Msungwana yemwe akumukumbatira mnyamata mu dziwe kapena mu bafa posachedwa adzaphatikizidwa mu chiyanjano chomwe, ngakhale chidzakhala chokhumba kwambiri, chidzatha msanga. Koma muzimva kukumbatirana kwa mwamuna wake - chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri. Ngakhalenso ngati okwatirana sali nthawi yabwino pachibwenzi, malotowa akuti miyoyo yawo idzakhala yabwino ndipo ubale wawo umakhala wotentha komanso wabwino.
Pofufuza maloto anu, onetsetsani kuti mukuganizira zomwe munakumana nazo. Ndikumverera kwanu komwe kungakhale chinsinsi chotsegula zomwe mukuwona m'maloto.
Pa zomwe zikutanthawuza, ngati munthu yemweyo alota, werengani apa