Iye anabala mwana mu loto: kodi ndi chiyani?
Zambiri zotanthauzira zogwirizana ndi chiwembucho zimanyamula malingaliro abwino kwa wolota. Mwachitsanzo, malinga ndi bukhu la Miller la maloto, kubala mwana ndi chizindikiro chabwino, kubweretsa chipatso kwa banja, kukhazikika kwachuma komanso kubereka mosavuta m'moyo weniweni. Koma kutanthauzira kwina konse kumadalira zaka zingati wolota, kodi mwanayo anali ndi chiwerewere chotani, ngakhale zinali zovuta kubereka, ndi zina zotero.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zaka za wolota maloto. Atsikana aang'ono amakhala mayi mu loto ali ndi tanthawuzo kawiri. Malinga ndi kutanthauzira kumodzi, ngati mtsikanayo atabala mwana, ndiye posachedwa adzakwatirana ndipo zochitikazo maloto zidzachitika ndithu. Ukwati umalonjeza kukhala wokondwa, wolimba komanso wautali. Koma kwa otanthauzira ena n'zotheka kupeza malingaliro osiyana kwambiri a malotowo, malinga ndi zomwe msungwanayo adzasokonezedwe ndi kuperekedwa ndi bwenzi lapamtima kapena wosankhidwa, yemwe ali naye chikondi. Mu womasulira wa Medea, wina akhoza kupeza kutanthauzira kufotokozera malotowo ngati chiopsezo cholowa mu maubwenzi ovuta omwe sangatsogolere ku zabwino zilizonse. Kukwatirana ndi chikhalidwe chomwecho kumalonjeza kugwirizana kwambiri ndi wokwatirana ndi banja lake. Koma ngati olotawo akudutsa mosavuta komanso opanda mavuto, ndiye kuti mwamsanga mungathe kuyembekezera kusintha kwa ndalama. Kwa akazi achikulire, malotowo akhoza kulengeza thanzi labwino, kuthetsa matenda.
Ngati mtsikana wapatsidwa kubadwa m'maloto, ndiye chizindikiro cha mavuto osangalatsa, msonkhano ndi anzanu. Sikunatchulidwe kuti pambuyo pa loto lotolo wolota adzamva kuvomerezedwa kapena kuvomereza kuchokera kwa munthu wokongola. M'mabuku ena a maloto chizindikirochi chikufotokozedwa ngati kufotokozera msanga kwa ubale kapena chonyansa. Kubereka mwana - kuyembekezera mphoto ya ndalama kapena kugula kopindulitsa kwambiri. Chiwembuchi chikhonza kuwonetsanso mphamvu ndi chipiriro, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lililonse.
Ngati kunali kovuta kubereka ana mu loto ndi chizindikiro chosakhutira ndi moyo, thupi lofooka. Akazi omwe amakota malingaliro otere amakhala atatopa m'moyo weniweni, pali ntchito zambiri ndi mavuto pa mapewa awo.
Kukonza tsatanetsatane, ndiko kuti, kubadwa kosavuta, kumanena kuti m'moyo mwanu pali abwenzi omwe adzathetsa mavuto anu onse ndi zosangalatsa, kukutetezani ku mavuto.
Mmene mungatanthauzire ngati mkazi wina amabereka m'maloto?
Kulandira kapena kuona kubadwira mu loto ndi chizindikiro chabwino kwa wolota. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti mkaziyo ali ndi moyo weniweni ndani. Izi zikhoza kukhala wachibale wanu, mnzanu kapena ngakhale mlendo. Koma mulimonsemo, lotoli likuimira thanzi labwino, kusintha kwa maubwenzi m'banja. Pambuyo pa zomwe mwawona, mutha kukonzekera bwino ulendo womwe mukufuna ku dziko lakutali. Aliyense amene ayamba, wokhudzana ndi bizinesi kapena chilakolako, adzapambana.
Kubala ana mu maloto sikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzaphunzira za zosangalatsa zanu. Koma ngakhale kutanthauzira kotanthawuzidwa kungasinthe kwambiri moyo wawo posachedwa.