Tonsefe tinkayenera kumva zamwano mu adiresi yathu ndipo tinadabwa kuti sitinadziwe momwe tingachitire kwa iwo molondola. Yambani kukhala wamwano kapena kulira chifukwa cholakwira. Katswiri wathu wa zamaganizo amapereka malangizo angapo a momwe angayankhire mwanzeru kwa wolakwirayo mwachipongwe. Limapereka chitsanzo cha mawu omwe angakuthandizeni kuchoka pa zinthu zosasangalatsa bwino.
Momwe mungayankhire moyenera kuchitonzo
Choyamba, tiyeni tiyankhule za mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zotsatira zoyenera kuchitonzo.
Kukhala wodekha
Musaganizane ndi njira iyi, chifukwa, monga mukudziwira, wolakwira nthawi zonse amakhala wokhutira ngati awona kuti chinthu chimene akukakamizidwa nacho ndichokutaya mtima kapena kutenga nawo mbali mukumenyana. Onetsani wolakwira kuti simukukhudzidwa ndi malingaliro ake ndipo mukungodabwa pang'ono ndi kukwiya kumbali yake. Ngati mwakhala pa kompyuta kapena mukugwira ntchito popanda kuyang'ana mmwamba, funsani kuti: "Kodi muli ndi vuto?" kapena "Kodi mukuyankhula ndi ine?" Zomwe amachitapo nthawi zambiri zimachepetsa kutentha kwa wolakwira, chifukwa mawu ake sanabweretse zotsatira zake. Kuwonjezera, chirichonse: inu mudzapeza mbiri ya munthu wanzeru, wodekha ndi wodalirika. Kuyankha mwatsatanetsatane kutukwana kumatanthauza kuti usatsikire kumtunda.
Aikido
Sitikukakamiza kukonzekera nkhondo ndikuchita chiwawa. Aikido - njira yamaganizo yotanthauzira kusayamika kwa womuthandizira kwanu. Pali nthawi pamene boor silimangokhala pamtundu umodzi kapena pamaso pa gulu lonse limakuchititsani manyazi, muzochitika ngati palibe yankho - ndilolakwika. Muyenera kuteteza ulemu wanu ndi ulemu wanu, chabwino? Gwiritsani ntchito njira ya Aikido, yomwe, ndiyoyamika interlocutor kwa nthawi yomwe mwawonetsera zolephera zanu. Muuzeni kuti simungamuchitire zimenezi, chifukwa simusamala. Onetsetsani kuti mayankho anu sali achinyengo, muyenera kusonyeza chitsulo chimodzimodzi, chomwe tinakambirana m'ndime yapitayi. Malizitsani kukambirana ndi mawu omwe mumaganizira mofatsa za zolephera zanu usikuuno ndikuyesera kuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mudzisinthe nokha. Monga lamulo, zoterezo zimawakhumudwitsa abambo, ndipo mboni zonse zakumenyana zimavomereza mbali yanu movomerezeka!
Zanudlivost
Ngati muli ndi nzeru zakuya kuposa momwe mumachitira nkhanza (ndipo kawirikawiri zimachitika), mukhoza kubwera njira zowonongeka. Mwachitsanzo, boor akukuuzani kuti: "Muli ndi nthendayi patebulo, ngati mutasintha kuchokera ku nkhumba ...", yankhani chonyoza ichi: Darwin adatsimikizira kuti nkhumba siziri zamoyo za Homo Sapiens kumbuyo kwa zaka za zana la khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu. Ndikhoza kukupatsani bukuli kuti mukhalebe ndi deta yolondola. "Gwirizanitsani, yankho ili likuyimira mawu a wolakwirayo ndikumuika pamtendere!
Kunyalanyaza
Osati aliyense anganyalanyaze kuukiridwa, ndipo sikuli koyenera nthawi zonse. Koma pali nthawi pamene kunyoza ndi kochepa kwambiri moti mumangofuna kugwedeza, amati, ndi munthu wopusa ndi woipa ameneyu. Musadziteteze! Onetsani, poyang'ana mchitidwe wodetsa mtima, onetsani kuti simukukhudzidwa ndi mawu achibwana, komanso kuti simukuwaganizira. Musayankhe mochenjera, musanyoze pobwezera, izi ndi zomwe abambo amayembekezera kuchokera kwa inu.
Chimene simukusowa, yankhani wozunza:
- Yankhulani mwachinyengo ndi nkhanza
- kwezani mawu anu kwa wothandizira
- kusonyeza kufooka, kulira
Ngati lero simunaganizire za khalidwe lanu m'masautso, mungafunike nthawi yophunzitsa. Funsani munthu pafupi ndi inu kuti muyese zovuta zambiri ndipo yesetsani njira zomwe mukuyankhira poyipitsa zomwe tapereka.
Momwe mungadzitetezere komanso osalira, werengani pano .
Mmene mungayankhire ndikunyoza molondola, mwanzeru komanso mokongola
Ndipo tsopano mawu ena omwe angakuthandizeni kuyankha mwano mwachinyengo, bwino ndi kuseketsa:
"Ndikhululukireni, kodi ndizo zonse?"
"Ndinali ndi maganizo abwino"
"Kunyada sikukugwirizana kwambiri"
"Kodi mukuyembekezera yankho labwino kapena choonadi?"
"Nchifukwa chiyani mukuyesera kuyang'ana kuposa iwe?"
"Monga wina aliyense, ndili ndi masiku oipa." "Usakhumudwe, zonse zidzakhala bwino"
"Inde, ndithudi, pitirizani. Pitirizani kukhala ndi mwayi kumbali yanu" (ngati wina akukwera wopanda phazi)
"Zikuwoneka kuti udindo umenewu sukugwirizana ndi iwe." Kodi ukufunanji kwenikweni? "
"Ndikukuthokozani chifukwa chochita chidwi ndi munthu wanga"
"Kodi mukufuna kundikhumudwitsa?"
"Kunyada sikofunika."
Tsopano mumadziwa momwe mungayankhire mwaulemu, mwaluso komanso mwanzeru. Modzichepetsa ife tikukhumba kuti tisakumane nawo pa moyo wa boor!