Akazi onse amafuna kukhala okongola kwa amuna, omwe amadziwika kuti amakonda maso. Maola ambiri, masiku, miyezi ya moyo wake, amayi akuloledwa kupita ku mawonekedwe abwino. Kawirikawiri izi sizongoganizira zokhazokha, koma zimathandizanso - amuna amasunga nthawi yawo mwachikondi panthawi yoyamba, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sipangakhale nthawi yowonetsera chisokonezo pamsana. Koma kodi ndiyeso yabwino yotani?
Masiku ano, chikhalidwe cha anthu ambiri chimakhudza zofuna za amuna ndi maonekedwe awo za kukongola kwa akazi. Ndipo zinachitikadi kuti kuchokera pa TV akuwonetsera, kuchokera m'magazini ophwanyika ndi owonetsera malonda, fashoni ya thupi laling'ono la mkazi limalimbikitsidwa. Kodi abambo amavomereza kuti atsikana ochepa kwambiri ndi okongola kuposa mafuta? Kodi amaganiza chiyani za akazi onse?
Andrey Tishchenko, wazaka 35, wokonza zovala
"Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi miyala yopanga zitsanzo kuti ndiwonetse zovala zomwe ndimapanga. Standard 90-60-90, zikomo Mulungu, ndi chinthu chakale, ndipo lero mitundu yobiriwira ikukhala yeniyeni. Ndikofunika kwa ine kuti zitsanzo zanga ndi zachikazi, zokongola komanso ... zokoma. Inde, monga wopanga, ndimakonda atsikana ali ndi chiwerengero cha hourglass, koma monga mwamuna, sindikudziwa kuti mkazi ali ndi chiuno, ngati maso ake akudalira kwambiri kuti sangatsutse komanso kuti ndi wangwiro. Amayi okongola okongola! Musamachite manyazi kuti musalowere pansi pa zomwe zimatchedwa "miyezo ya kukongola". Akazi a Aslavi akhala akudziwika chifukwa cha mawonekedwe awo. Musadzipweteke nokha ndi zakudya zowonongeka. Masiku ano zimakhala zochititsa chidwi kuti zikhale zamphamvu komanso zamtengo wapatali! "
Alexander Komarov, wazaka 40, wochizira mankhwala
"Sindikukumbukira yemwe anati:" Amuna amadziyesa kuti amakonda akazi ochepetsera, vinyo wouma ndi juga. Ndipotu, iwo amakonda akazi okongola, vinyo wokoma ndi moyo wamtendere. " Ndikulembera mawu alionse. Ndikutsimikiza kuti amuna, omwe akazi awo amalemba zizindikiro ndi mafupa, amafunitsitsa mwachinsinsi akazi enieni a Chirasha (mwa mawu abwino) - okhwima ndi otentha, ngati mikate. Anyamata! Musadandaule! Dyetsa! Ndikukuuzani kuchokera pa zomwe ndikukumana nazo: Akazi okongola amadziwa kukonda. Iwo ndi achibadwa, ofewa, okondedwa, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chakudya. Iwo amadyetsedwa bwino ndi osangalala, ndipo, chifukwa chake - zabwino! "
Alexey Kudasov, wazaka 28, wolemba
"Inde, palibe kutsutsana pa zokonda. Wina amakonda kukonda kwambiri, ndipo wina amapereka "magazi ndi mkaka." Koma pali amayi abwino kwambiri, ali odzaza, pali "mu thupi", ndipo pali zonenepa zonenepa. Sindikufuna kukhumudwitsa aliyense - Ine ndekha ndinali wolemera kwambiri, kotero ndikudziwa momwe kulemera kwowonjezera kumakhudza thanzi labwino ndi maganizo. Sindikufuna bwenzi langa, mu phukusi ndi kunenepa kwambiri, kupita ku zovuta, mavuto ndi thupi. Ndikufuna msungwana wathanzi, wokhuthala yemwe angakhoze kubereka ndi kubereka ana abwinobwino. Ndimakhulupirira kuti mayi yemwe sangathe (kuwerenga "sakufuna") amachotsa mapaundi owonjezera, wouma komanso wosasamala thanzi lake. "
Makar Udovichenko, wazaka 52, wolemba masewero
"Ndikutsimikiza kuti chiwerengero chilichonse ndi chabwino, ngati ndi mkazi yemwe amakhulupirira moona mtima. Sizowona kuti abambo amadzikweza kwambiri ndi azimayi komanso opyolera mwa akazi owala. Mulimonsemo, palibe amuna otero pakati pa abwenzi anga ndi mabwenzi anga. Koma, ndithudi, china chokwanira - mkazi womeza mafuta, wopanda pake - safunanso kuti awone aliyense pambali pake. Kunenepa kwambiri sikungokhala kokongola, koma kuvulaza thanzi. Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zosiyana, koma ngati mkazi adzilemekeza yekha ndi mwamuna wake, zidzatengera ku zakudya ndi moyo. Izi ndi nkhani zofunika kwambiri. Ndikukhulupirira kuti kuti thupi lalikulu likhale lokongola ndi lokongola, pamene likusiya kukongola kokongola pamalo oyenera, likupezeka kwa aliyense. Padzakhala chilakolako ... kapena cholimbikitsa mwa mawonekedwe a munthu yemwe si waulesi kwambiri kuti adzikhala wokhazikika. "
Ilya Karpov, wazaka 25, wochita malonda
"Kunena zoona, n'zovuta kuona mkazi atakhala ndi mafuta ambiri. Ndi chiyani chosangalatsa chokhala ndi thalala, yomwe inadzifikitsa yokha? Ngati sakufuna kugwira ntchito payekha, ndiye chitsimikizo chotani choti akufuna kugwira ntchito pa ubale? Mwamuna ndi amene amachititsa kuti banja lake likhale losangalala, ndipo ngati akwaniritsa ntchito yake, ali ndi ufulu wowona mkazi pafupi naye, yemwe adzasangalala ndi kukongola kwake ndi chiyanjano chake. Ndili ndi ine sadzachita manyazi kuwonetsa anthu - ndimakhala ndi moyo wathanzi ndikupita ku masewera. Ndipo ine ndi iye? Mkazi wochuluka ndi munthu wanzeru amawoneka ngati banja lopusa komanso lonyenga. Zikomo, musatero! "
Oleg Kovalev, wa zaka 46, wagalimoto
"Kwa ine, monga, ine ndikuganiza, kwa amuna ambiri, kukwanira kwathunthu kwazimayi sikokhalanso njira yoyenera yosankha. Choyamba, ndikuyamikira mwanzeru nzeru, nzeru, chikazi, chithumwa ndi zokha. Ndipo ikhoza kuwonetsedwanso mwa mitundu yobiriwira, yotulutsa madzi, yomwe imakhala yovuta kwambiri muzhik. Ndipo chisokonezo cha akazi otero ndi chachikulu. Iwo ali ndi chifuno chokhala ndi moyo wathanzi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amayenera kumenyana ndi zochitika za anthu ndi kutsimikizira kuti akazi okongola sali ocheperapo ndi zokongola zochepa. Ine ndikanati, mosiyana kwambiri. Nthawi zina mumadabwa, monga momwe amadziwidwira, amatha kukhalabe achikazi ndi okongola, kumanga ntchito ndi kukwaniritsa zozizwitsa, mosavuta mofulumira ndi zochitika zamakono zowoneka bwino. Chabwino, ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale bwino kuposa thupi laling'ono lofewa, lofewa lomwe limakupangitsani kutentha ndi kuzibisa kuchokera ku dzuwa? Kungopeka, ndithudi. Koma bbw wanga wokondedwa adzamvetsa, chifukwa amakhalanso osangalala kwambiri. "
Pomaliza, tiyenera kuzindikira kuti maganizo a amuna sagwirizana ndi mabodza a chikhalidwe chambiri. Nthawi zambiri, kukhuta kwa mkazi sikofunika kwambiri kwa amuna. Angathe kudziwa momwe akumvetsetsa kuti mkazi ndi chilengedwe, komanso kuti ali ndi mawonekedwe ake abwino. Zokwanira kuphunzitsa amuna ndikupangitsani masomphenya a momwe kukongola kwa mkazi kuyenera kuyang'ana, kukwanitsa kudzuka muzochitika zakale ndi chikondi. Mmenemo iwo adzamvetsetsa bwino!