Atsikana akale: chithandizo chowonjezera cha mabuku a maloto

Ngati mtsikana wina akulota, nkofunika kumvetsera maganizo anu, chifukwa masomphenya onse a usiku amadalira kwambiri mtima wathu. Cholondola ndikutanthauzira, muyenera kulingalira zonse zomwe mungakumbukire mmawa wotsatira.

Kutanthauzira: Kuwona msungwana wakale mu maloto

• Kukhalapo kwa zosangalatsa kukumbukira pambuyo kudzuka kumasonyeza kuti ubale wanu ndi chibwenzi chakale watha ndipo mwakhala mukuganiza zomveka.
• Ngati m'mawa musapumitse kukumbukira kwanu, zingatheke kuti ubale wanu ndi mtsikana wakalewo sungathe kukwaniritsidwa ndipo muyenera kulankhula. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mudzatha kubwezeretsa kulankhulana kwapafupi, koma sikungapweteke kumvetsa.
• Wotanthauzira maloto amamasulira maloto a bwenzi lake lakale la chibwenzi chake, monga chodetsa nkhaŵa za m'mbuyomo wa otota ndi anthu ozungulira. Iye samaneneratu choipa chirichonse, koma amangosonyeza kuti kusokonezeka kulikonse ndi nkhawa ziri zopanda pake.
• Kwa achinyamata, chilakolako chakale chingakhale chizoloŵezi cha chibwenzi chatsopano. Makamaka mutakumana naye ndithu mwangozi.
• Ngati nthawi zambiri mumalota kugonana ndi chibwenzi, ndiye kuti muyenera kukonzekera kuti posachedwapa anthu kapena zochitika zakale zikukumbutsani. Palibe chitsimikizo kuti malingaliro a izi adzakhala osangalatsa kwambiri, koma nkhawa imatsimikizika.
• Ngati adalota kuti akale abweranso, ndiye kuti nthawi yobwezeretsa chibwenzi chitatha ndipo mnyamatayo amakhala wokonzeka kuti azidziwana bwino.

Ngati maloto akale ndi mnyamata wake watsopano

Zina zingathandize wolota kumvetsetsa yekha komanso mmene akumvera.
• Kuwona bwenzi lanu lakale ndi mnyamata watsopano limatanthauza kuti bwenzi lenilenilo likufuna kulembetsa mgwirizano wawo, ndipo zingatheke kutero.
• Ukwati ndi chibwenzi chakale umatanthauza kuti m'moyo weniweni mnyamata posachedwa adzapeza banja lake.
• Ngati mzimayi woteroyo ali ndi maloto ali ndi chidwi chambiri, ndipo wolota akupitirizabe kukomana naye mwachinsinsi pamoyo weniweni, ndiye ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa malo ake. Pali mtsikana wina yemwe amamumvera chisoni, koma amaopa kuvomereza maganizo ake.

Ngati mumalota kupsompsonana kapena zochita zina ndi bwenzi lanu lakale

• Chithandizo chodziwika kwambiri pa kupsompsona mu bukhu la Mota la loto limati munthu ogona amakhala ndi mavuto ochuluka omwe amachokera m'mbuyomo. Kuchita nawo ndizotheka kokha ngati munthu akumasula zochitika zonse zapitazo, amasiya kuzunzidwa ndi kukumbukira ndikuyamba kukhala ndi moyo.
• Ngati muloto lanu kulira koyamba, ndiye kuti mukhonza kukhala ndi mavuto ochulukirapo. Koma palinso mbali yabwino: mavuto anu amachititsa chifundo pakati pa anthu ambiri ndipo adzakondwera kukuvetserani kukuthandizani kuthetsa.
• Wakale wamimbayo amachititsa mavuto mu ubale watsopano. Mwinamwake, iwo adzatha panthawi yopuma, monga zapitazo, koma kulakwitsa kwa mnyamata sikudzakhala mu izi.
• Ndikofunika kumvetsera kutanthauzira, ngati mtsikana wakale sanalota nthawi yayitali, ndipo mwadzidzidzi anakhala heroine wa masomphenya usiku. Mwinamwake, iye anali ndi loto la wolota, ndipo nkutheka kuti iye amaletsa mphekesera zamtundu uliwonse za iye. Chithandizo chomwecho chikugwiranso ntchito kwa mkazi wakale, ndi kusintha kokha komwe mkazi wakale woweruza akuyimira kusintha kwabwino payekha.