Zipangizo zikhale zosangalatsa
Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa chomwe mukuyesera kusintha. Kusintha kwa malo kumakhala kosangalatsa kwa inu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati mupatsidwa mwayi wopita ku dacha ndikuganiza za mavuto anu, kulima ndalama zomwe mumadana nazo, ndiye kuti simungathe kukhala ndichisomo. M'malo mwake, pakuyang'anitsitsa zinthu zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani ndikuchita bizinesi yosakondedwa, mudzamva kuponderezedwa kwambiri ndikudandaula kuti mumasokoneza nthawi pazinthu zachilendo. Choncho, ngati mutasintha kusintha kuti muthe kuthetsa mavuto onsewa, pitani ku mutu womwe mwakhala mukukondana nawo, kapena omwe munalakalaka kuti muwacheze, koma osapatsidwa mwayi. Kusintha mkhalidwe kudzakuthandizani pa nkhaniyi, ngati muli wokondwa komanso wokondweretsa. Pambuyo pake, zonsezi zakonzedwa kuti zikulepheretseni kukuchotsani vutoli, ndikuthandizani kuyang'ana milandu yosathetsedwe pang'onopang'ono.
Pa intaneti okha
Ngati mukupita kwinakwake, muyenera kukumbukira kuti pamalo atsopano mumaletsedwa kulankhula za chinachake cholakwika ndi nkhawa. Ngati mutasankha ulendo wopita ndi anzanu, mukhoza kuwachenjeza kuti sangakupatseni mwayi wokhumudwa ndikuyamba mutu wa mavuto awo. Mutha kugawa chilango pamatchulidwe awo omwe amachititsa kuvutika maganizo. Anzanu akuyenera kukumbukira kuti mukuyenda kuti muleke "kuphika" m'masautso anu, kuiwala za chirichonse ndikudodometsedwa. Choncho, iyenso, sayenera kulingalira mozama ndikukhala ndi njira zomwe zimapanga zomangamanga zabwino kwa aliyense woyandikana nawo. Ngati awona kuti mwakonzeka kuganizira ndikuyamba kudandaula za malingaliro anu ndi kukayikira, ndiye nthawi yomweyo ayese kukuyang'anirani kapena kukukumbutsani mwachindunji kuti mukusintha mkhalidwe wanu kuti musadandaule m'malo atsopano, koma kuti mukhale bwino. Ngati mukuyesera kuti muvutike nokha, iwo adzabwera ndipo adzakutengani kuchokera kuntchito yosafunikira.
Terminities
Pofuna kusintha zinthu, pamafunika zoposa tsiku. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ngati mupita tsiku limodzi, mungoyamba kusokonezeka, chifukwa zonse zatha. Kuchokera pa izi zidzakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ndipo zikhoza kuchitika kuti chikhalidwe chanu chidzaipiraipira. Choncho, ngati mutasintha kusintha, muyenera kupita kwinakwake osachepera atatu kapena anayi. Panthawiyi mungathe kumvetsetsa, kuyendetsa malo atsopano, kumva zosangalatsa ndikuiwala zomwe mumasamala. Mwa njira, poonjezera kuti ndinu ochokera kumudzi wanu, ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi boma. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mwachoka kumapeto ena a dzikoli, ndipo mavuto anu ndi malingaliro anu amakhalabe kumudzi wanu, ndiye kuti zimakhala zosavuta kuziiwala. Mwa njira, mtunda umakhala wovomerezeka ngakhale pazochitikazo pamene kuvutika maganizo sikuchokera chifukwa cha mavuto, koma chifukwa cha mavuto a m'maganizo. Nkhaniyi ndi yakuti malo am'deralo amakumbukira zochitika zina. Ndipo ngati ife tiri kutali ndi iwo, ndiye kuti zisonkhezero zawo pazinyenga zachepetsedwa kwambiri. Choncho, ngati kuli kovuta kuti muyambe kuyendetsa limodzi ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena mutayika wokondedwa wanu, onetsetsani kuti mupita kutali kwambiri ndi nthawi yaitali kwambiri. Ndipo mulimonsemo, musalole wina kukukumbutsani za mavuto anu. Kumalo atsopano, omwe angakhale osiyana kwambiri ndi ozolowereka, mudzayamba kumva maganizo atsopano omwe angakumbukire zochitika zanu zakale. Koma mulimonsemo, ngati mukumva kuti simungathe kuyang'ana malo odziwika bwino, nkofunika kusintha zinthu. Chowonadi ndikuti zikumbutso zanu nthawi zonse sizidzakupatsani mtendere.
Momwe mungakhalire m'malo atsopano
Ngati mupita paulendo ndi anzanu, ndiye kuti zonse ndi zosavuta. Muyenera kugawa nthawi yanu kuti ikhale yosadandaula ndi kusinkhasinkha. Palibe amene akunena kuti muyenera kuchita ndondomeko osati kumatsatira. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, kuchita bwino tsiku ndi tsiku kungakuchititseni kudandaula kwambiri. Ndikufunikira kuti nthawizonse chinachake chiyambike ndi chinachake chisamalire. Zikomo Mulungu, ndizosavuta kuchita izi pamalo atsopano: nthawi zonse yesetsani kuyenda kwinakwake, kuyang'ana kuzungulira zochitika, kupita kumalo. Kawirikawiri, khalani ndi nthawi kuti musanagone kokha musanakhale ndi mphamvu kuti mumvetsetse ndikudzizunza nokha ndi kukumbukira. Inu ndi abwenzi anu muyenera kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere mu mpweya wabwino. Ngati muli ndi mwayi wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, onetsetsani kuti mukuchita. Ziphunzitso zakuthupi, zomwe mumakhala nazo zokondweretsa, zimachiza mwangwiro moyo wa zosafunika, maganizo ndi mavuto. Choncho, yesetsani kudzimangiriza nokha, koma katunduwa ayenera kukuthandizani.
Ndipo komabe musamamwe. Kumbukirani kuti mowa umatilimbikitsa kukumbukira nthawi yayitali komanso yonse-hyperbolize. Ngati mukuona kuti mukuganiza bwino, muzitha kumwa mowa mopitirira malire. Apo ayi, izo zidzatha ndi zamatsenga zoopsa ndi zamkhutu zina, zomwe inu mudzachita manyazi pambuyo pake.
Mowa sungagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati wina atuluka yekha. Ngakhale zikondwerero zambiri zimabweretsa anthu palimodzi, ngati mwasankha kukomana ndi kuyankhula ndi munthu wina, ndi bwino kugulira mowa, koma kudzipha nokha. Choyamba, muzowona bwino nthawi zonse zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muwone momwemo. Musaiwale kuti muli mumzinda wachilendo, koma chilichonse chikhoza kuchitika. Ndipo kachiwiri, simukuchita chilichonse chopusa, chimene mungadandaule nacho ndipo simungathe kusintha zinthuzo, komanso kukhala ndi abwenzi atsopano omwe angathenso kukumbukira zoipa zomwe mukukumbukira pamoyo wanu. Ndipo zikhoza kuchitika kuti malo omwe mwasankha kuti musinthe zinthu zidzakhala nyumba yanu yatsopano.