"Payenera kukhala chinsinsi china mwa mkazi!" - olemba ndakatulo amalemba. "... komanso chitsimikizo ndi chinsinsi" - tchulani amuna omwe anali ozunzidwa ndi amayi osadziwika kwambiri, otayika mu chipani cha instt kapena zovuta zoletsedwa. Tikudziwa motsimikiza kuti amuna, chifukwa cha "kusaka" kwawo, amatsutsana ndi amayi omwe akufunikira kuthetsedwa, kufuna ndikugonjetsedwa. Palibe amene amasangalatsidwa ndi nyama zosavuta! Mwamuna amafunikira adrenaline ndi chisangalalo pofuna kuyesa mkazi wovuta, wosalamulirika ndi wosafikika. Mmasewera awa amavomereza mu chigonjetso chake, ndipo amadzikonda yekha. Choncho, chikondi ndi mkazi yemwe amachititsa kuti mvula ikhale yamantha. Kodi munthu angakhale bwanji osamvetsetseka, osamvetseka komanso ofunika, osasintha n'kukhala chinthu chododometsa, chimene angaswe mutu wake?
- Khalani nokha. Lamulo loyamba ndi lofunikira kwambiri ndilokhalanso lokha. Kuti mudzidzipangire nokha mu fano ndi maonekedwe a nyenyezi, bwenzi, amayi - amatanthauza kusiya khalidwe lanu lapadera. Ndipo ziri mmenemo kuti chinsinsi chomwe munthu wanu woyenera akuchiyembekezera chingakhale, kapena chimene iye anali atagwera kale mu chikondi. Ndipo ngakhale makhalidwe amenewa akuoneka kuti ndi oipa kapena achikale, musafulumire kuwasiya. Pangani kafukufuku. Mwinamwake, pakati pawo pali zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani inu kukondana ndi mosiyana ndi akazi ena. Amuna samawakonda "ma templates" osangalatsa. Ndi bwino kukhala wolemekezeka kuposa wina aliyense. Mayi aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi "misala" yake!
- Sungani chinsinsi. Mulungu sanatipatse makutu awiri ndi pakamwa kamodzi kokha. Mvetserani zambiri ndipo muyankhule mochepa! Azimayi nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi chilakolako chocheza. Ndipo ngati munthu afunsa ndikufunsa, ndiye kuti ali ndi mlandu - muloleni amve. Choncho osati kwa nthawi yaitali komanso "zinsinsi za usilikali" zopereka, osati zapadera. Pokambirana ndi mwamuna (makamaka pa tsiku loyambirira) peŵani kuyankhula za inu nokha, ndi kubwereranso mafunso momveka bwino, osasiya yankho kapena nthabwala. Mwachitsanzo: "Mmm ... Ndi funso labwino bwanji! Koma pamene ndi chinsinsi! Kodi mumadziwa kusunga zinsinsi? Inde? Ndizo zabwino ... Inenso! "Khalani wofunsana naye. Muloleni iye akuuzeni zomwe iye amawona chinsinsi mwa mkazi.
- Zosokoneza. Sungani chidwi cha munthu kuti chiziwotha nthawi zonse mothandizidwa ndi chilakolako ndi kuponderezedwa. Amuna ali ndi malingaliro apamwamba kwambiri, ngakhale iwo samadziwa nthawizonse za izo. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, musayankhe funso lakuti "Kodi mumasula usiku uno?" Ndipo mwachindunji. Mpatseni munthu chakudya cha malingaliro. Ndiuzeni mozizwitsa: "Sindingayankhe. Ndinapereka zolembetsa zokhudza zosadziwika za chinsinsi ichi! "Ndipo kawirikawiri, musachedwe kuyankha mafunso. Ikani pause. Ndizosangalatsa! Ngakhale kuti, monga mtsogoleri wamphamvu wotchuka wotchedwa Somerset inolemba Moema, wanzeru Julia Lambert anati: "Musapume mwamsanga, ndipo ngati mutatenga - mutenge momwe mungathere!" Mphindi wosasinthasintha bwino kwambiri kuposa thupi lopanda thupi.
- Osadziwiratu. Monga ngati amuna samakwiya, osamvetsetsa maganizo a amayi ndi malingaliro a zochita, chidwi chawo chimakhala chokwera nthawi zonse ndi amayi omwe ali ovuta kulosera. Osadziwiratu! Mwachitsanzo:
- Kuyankhulana kosasunthika, komwe sikumabweretsa zozizwitsa zilizonse, kumangosokoneza mwadzidzidzi ndi kunena monga: "Taonani okondedwa awa. Iwo ndi okongola kwambiri! ". Ndipo ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika, pitirizani kukambirana kwanu.
- Msonkhanowu umatha msanga, mwamsanga komanso mofulumira kuposa momwe mukuyembekezera. Musati mufunsane mafunso ndipo musagwirizane ndi kukopa. Kusiya popanda kufotokoza, koma kusiya chiyembekezo chodalirika ku msonkhano wotsatira.
- Kutaya mwadzidzidzi pamtunda wa msonkhanowo, kusiya cholemba pa chophimba ndi mawu monga "Kumanzere kuteteza dziko kuchokera ku kutentha kwa dziko!" Ndipo jambulani nkhope yosangalatsa.
- Kukhala wokongola kwambiri. Chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zazikulu mwa mkazi nthawi zonse ziyenera kukhala njira zomwe amamubweretsera kukongola kwake: kutaya thupi, manicure, pedicure, kukonzedwa kwa diso, kulola kuti apitirize kukhalabe mu umbuli woyera, kuti madzulo " Butterfly, "inali" mbozi "m'mawa. Ndipo muloleni apitirize kuganiza kuti munabadwanso ndi tsitsi, tsitsi, nsalu zophimbidwa ndi nsalu, pamene akuitana ndikuuza mosangalala kuti: "Konzekerani! Mphindi khumi ndidzatero! "
- Khalani wojambula. Akazi onse ndi ochita masewera, koma luso loona ndilo kukhalabe nokha, kukhala nthawi zonse zosiyana, zodabwitsa komanso zosamvetsetseka. Wopanda masewera, kusayera komanso kusokoneza munthu amamva nthawi yomweyo. Tangoganizani kuti moyo wanu ndi kanema, ndinu khalidwe lofunika kwambiri. Sewani, mukudziyesa Oscar! Ndi kusewera, kudzidalira nokha, malingaliro anu, malingaliro ndi zochita zanu. Ganizirani za momwe mungakhalire mu izi kapena mkhalidwe umenewo, kuti ngati mutayang'ana kuchokera kunja, mukhoza kudziyamikira nokha. Khalani ndi udindo wa mkazi wachikazi wa filimu ya chic. Khulupirirani nokha, ndipo mwamuna wanu adzakuyang'anani ndi maso anu omwewo mwachikondi.
- Phunzirani ku mafano. Ndikovuta kuti tikhale ndi chizoloŵezi chokhalira chosadziwika kwa munthu, ngati izi sizili m'magazi, ndipo m'banja, akazi onse sali chitsanzo chabwino kuti apange njira yochenjera kapena kukopera chitsanzo cha khalidwe lokonzekera. Mtima wa malingaliro ndi malingaliro adzakhala mabuku, mafilimu, televizioni. Akazi amphamvu, pamapazi awo omwe anali ndi gulu lankhondo la anthu, amagawana zinsinsi zawo muvumbulutso, mabuku ndi mafilimu. Mu nkhani zawo zopambana, nthawizonse pali chinachake choti muphunzire ndi kupeza mayankho a mafunso okhudza moyo wosazimvetseka ndi wachinsinsi wazimayi. Chinthu chachikulu mu nkhaniyi, kumbukirani lamulo loyamba nambala 1 - kusintha, koma kukhalabe nokha.
- Musati muziganiza mopanda nzeru. Musakhale anzeru kwambiri ndi zinsinsi, zong'onong'ono ndi zosatheka, kotero kuti sizikuyenda bwino, monga nthabwala:
- Mzimayi ayenera kukhala ndi mwambo ...
- Mukutanthauza kuti palibe zolemba mkati mwanga?
- Chinsinsi chimodzi, osati mavuto ochulukirapo mu fizikiki yowonjezereka!