Ngati mumakonda mwamuna kuntchito, choti muchite

Kodi munayamba mwalingalira kuti ndimathera nthawi yochuluka ndi anzako ndi anzako kusiyana ndi achibale ndi abwenzi anga? Maola asanu ndi atatu kapena oposa patsiku timayenera kumakhala limodzi (monga pabedi) ndi mabwana, anzathu, ogwira ntchito, pamene wokwatirana, ana, makolo, ziweto zimakhala bwino maola 4-5, panthawi yomweyo mwa anthu ambiri. Kodi simukuganiza kuti ndondomeko yotereyi ndi yovuta kwambiri? Mwinamwake, ndichifukwa chake ambiri amakonda maubwenzi amamveka pamabuku ovomerezeka. Ndipo ngakhale kuti aliyense akumvetsa - malingaliro ogwira ntchito akhoza kuvulaza zonse ntchitoyo, ndi ntchito kapena mbiri yake. Komabe, simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu. Kodi ndingatani ngati ndayamba kukonda ntchito? Yambani chikondi cha romance kapena kutsatira ndondomeko yosavomerezeka: "Musagone, kodi mumagwira ntchito pati?"?

Nkhani ya utumiki, kapena Aroma, yomwe inakhala nkhani

Gulu la Nautilus-Pompilius lili ndi nyimbo ndi mawu akuti: "Anawerenga bukuli, ndipo linakhala nkhani." Ndi kangati zomwe zimakhala zofunikira kwa amai omwe amasankha pa chikondi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo m'maganizo awo nthawi zonse amai amayamba kulemba mabuku osagwira ntchito kuntchito ndikubwera kuchipatala ndi zotsatira zopweteka mwa njira zopanda chilungamo, banja losweka, ntchito yowonongeka, kuchotsedwa ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, ngakhale zili zovuta kuti mapulogalamu azinthu athe kutha, ara of romance adzakhala nawo pafupi. Ndi zopanda phindu komanso zopanda phindu kubweretsa chiwerengero chokhumudwitsa cha maubwenzi ogwirizana, kupenta zoopsa zonse ndi zotsatira zake. Mabuku olemba ntchito anali, ali ndipo adzakhala! Akatswiri a zamaganizo ali ndi malangizo amodzi padziko lonse pa nkhaniyi: Kusamala mozindikira ndikugwira nawo ntchito mwachikondi pantchito, kotero kuti mu ubale umenewu panalibe malo olakwika. Musanayambe kusonyeza chidwi kwa mnzanuyo kapena kuchitapo kanthu pa chibwenzi chake, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa bwino nokha zolinga zenizeni zomwe zimayambitsa chibwenzi ndi antchito:

1. Kuposa pakati pa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa chikondi pa ntchito, ndiko kusowa kwa ubale wapamtima kapena kusowa kwa kugonana kwabwino. Izi zimagwira ntchito kwa amayi osakwatira komanso omwe ali okwatirana. Pangani chisankho chokhala mu chibwenzi chothandizira, izi ziyenera kuchotsedwa poyamba. Dzifunseni mafunso: Kodi mukuyang'ana chiani makamaka mu izi, ndipo musasokoneze chikondi ndi njala? Ngati cholinga chanu ndi kugonana popanda zoperekera, pitirirani! Chinthu chachikulu, khalani owona mtima ndi inu nokha, ndi osankhidwa anu.
2. Ubale wochuluka wa chikondi kuntchito umangirizidwa chifukwa cha kulephera kwa kuyankhulana ndi kusowa kwa chikhalidwe chachitukuko. Amayi omwe amafunidwa, kukhala ndi moyo wokhala ndi moyo, amajambula ora lirilonse, lomwe liri mndandanda wambiri, misonkhano kapena maulendo. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti ntchito ndipo potero mutenge nthawi yochuluka kuti "mubweretse" izo kumoyo wanu womwewo. Pokhala mutathetsa vutoli ndi zosangalatsa zosangalatsa ndi kudzizindikira nokha kunja kwa ntchito, mukulitsa bwalo lanu lakulankhulana ndipo mutha kuzindikira ngati chikondi "chogwira ntchito" chimenechi chiri chofunikira kwa inu.

3. Kudzidalira mopambanitsa ndi chifukwa china chofala cha mabuku olembedwa ndi ogwira nawo ntchito kuntchito. Kwa amayi, akhoza kukhala olemera kwambiri, zaka zosakhala "zoyenera", mawonekedwe osakondweretsa a maonekedwe, makompyuta, ndi zina zotero. Zinthu izi zimachepetsa mwayi wa mkazi mumsika wa chikondi, ndipo malo okha omwe angakonzekere moyo wake ndi ntchito. Anthu a Willy-nilly amakakamizidwa kulankhula bwino, kugwira ntchito zofanana, zomwe zimawabweretsa pafupi. Pankhaniyi, amai nthawi zambiri samakonda mwa munthu wina, koma m'maganizo omwe amamuchotsa ku malingaliro awo ndi maloto. Zotsatira zake - ziyembekezo zopanda chilungamo, chikondi chosweka ndi maofesi atsopano. Kotero, ngati inu mumakonda mnzanuyo ndipo mukufuna kuti muyanjane naye, yang'anani kumbuyo kwake - kodi ndi zoyenera kuti mutembenuke kuchokera kwa amuna ena? Ngati sichoncho, mwinamwake ndi nthawi yodzidzimvera?

Bwanji ngati kuli kovuta kukana chikondi cha chikondi?

Akatswiri a zamaganizo akukulangizani kuti mulawe chipatso choletsedwachi, ngati mulibe chikhumbo chochipereka. Koma musathamangire mudziwe ndi mutu wanu. Choyamba, yesani zoopsa zonse ndikuphunziranso malamulo otetezeka kuti musamangidwe m'munsi mwa shards kuchokera kumaganizo osweka:

1. Kumbukirani lamulo lalikulu la chikondi cha kampani: usagone ndi munthu yemwe angakuphe, komanso ndi munthu yemwe mungamuphe.
2. Pezani zotsatira zomwe zingatheke ndipo mulole m'malingaliro opambanitsa - kodi mwakonzeka kutero? Ngati inde, muwalole kuti amasulidwe. Lolani kuti muzisangalala ndi chikondi chenicheni!
3. Gawani chikondi ndi ntchito. Lolani kuti chikondi chanu chisasokoneze ntchitoyi, ndipo musagwire ntchito pamene mukupanga chikondi.
4. Samalani chikondi chanu chakumvetsera ndi miseche. Pitirizani kuchita zimenezi mwamseri, ngakhale mutakhala ndi munthu mfulu komanso mutha kugwirizana.
5. Musati mupereke zifukwa za miseche. Kupsompsona mu chipinda chosuta kapena kugonana pa desktop ndi nkhani yabwino kwa omanga mafilimu, koma osati mbiri yanu ya bizinesi. Kukhala ndi wina ndi mzawo sikunalowerera ngakhale pa zochitika za kampani.

6. Ngati mumayamba kukondana ndi mnzanu wokwatirana kapena muli wokwatira, musavomereze kugwirizana kwa chikondi, ngakhale ngati muli ndi zifukwa zomveka za antchito. Iyi ndi bizinesi yanu, yomwe muli nayo ufulu wosayankhula ndi aliyense.
7. Pokonda chikondi ndi zolinga zazikulu, zonse zikhoza kutha muukwati. Koma uwu ndi ubale wosiyana kwambiri, mwinamwake, kuti uwapulumutse, mmodzi wa inu ayenera kusiya ntchito. Kodi mwakonzeka?
8. Zimakhalanso kuti chikondi, chobadwira kuntchito, chimamwalira. Nanga mungagwire bwanji ntchito limodzi? Ngati kutulutsidwa sikungatheke, muyenera kuphunzira kukhala kwa okondedwa omwe alibe chidwi - osakonda, koma osadana. Zidzakhala zonyansa ngati chiyanjano choletsedwa chidzakhala katundu wa anthu onse pokhapokha atatopa.