Mawu akuti "kusokoneza" mwa anthu ambiri amachititsa mabwenzi osasangalatsa. Mutu, mawu ena amatengedwa nthawi yomweyo: "Kunyenga," "kuumiriza," "kulimbana ndi chifuniro." Komabe, kugwirizanitsa ndi kosatheka popanda kugwiritsidwa ntchito, ndipo ngati izo zikuchitika mwaluso, ndi mawu osalongosoka ndi zochita, ndiye izi zimatchedwa njira yochenjera yokhudza maganizo. Akazi ndi akatswiri akuluakulu okhwima. Chilengedwe chamatipatsa ife mphamvu yodalirika yothetsera kusokoneza ndi nzeru. Ndipo ngakhale kuti luso lakugwiritsa ntchito anthu ndi mphatso, ayenera kuphunzira kuphunzira mosamala.
Kujambula kwa kugwiritsidwa kwa akazi
Ngati mkazi weniweni ali ndi mphamvu yogwiritsira ntchito, sipadzakhala mkazi wotsalira. Ndipo amunawo adzakhumudwa poyamba. Iwo ali okonzeka ndi okondwa kuti asocheretsedwe, ngati iwo amachititsa manyazi awo kudzidalira, ndipo iwo amadzimverera okha kuti apambane. Kuchita luso limeneli ndi kotheka kudzera muzochita ndi zomwe zikuchitika. Zomwe zimagwira mtima m'maganizo a munthu zimapeza zomwe akufuna, osati kupanikizika ndi zofuna, koma kudzera mwa chikhumbo chake chofuna kuchita zofuna zake. Atsikana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito talente amasonyeza kuyambira zaka zoyambirira za moyo. Ali ndi zaka zambiri, amamvetsetsa bwino momwe akukongoletsera, prikorashivanie kapena madiresi atsopano amachita pa iwo ozungulira. Inde, chiwonetsero cha chikazi, zokopa zovala, nthano - iyi ndi njira yosavuta ya kugwiritsira ntchito akazi, zofunikira zomwe atsikana amaphunzira kuyambira ali ana.
Ndili ndi zaka, njira zogwiritsira ntchito zovuta zimakhala zovuta ndikuzifikitsa ku ungwiro, kapena sizibweretsedwa, ndiyeno zimakhala zosavuta kuti munthu aziwoneka wonyenga komanso wokhumudwitsa. Ndipo zochita za anthu ziri chimodzimodzi mosiyana. Kuti akhale mmodzi mwa akazi omwe amatha kuyendetsa gulu la asilikali pokhapokha nthawi ndi malo ndi ndodo yokwera, munthu ayenera kumvetsa zachinsinsi za amuna oganiza bwino komanso kuphunzira momwe angakhudzire chisankho chawo kotero kuti chimawachitikiranso kuti chinali chosankha popanda kusankha. Kugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru kwa amayi kumasiyana ndi "ubongo wa ubongo" chifukwa munthu amakhala ndi chidaliro chonse kuti amapanga zisankho zonse, ndipo yekhayo! Ndipo safunikira kuti adziŵe kuti akuchita zochita zake pa ndondomeko yofotokozedwa momveka bwino ndi mkaziyo.
Njira "zapamwamba" zogwiritsira ntchito munthu
Kugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru munthu ndi sayansi yonse ndi malamulo ake ndi malamulo ake. Ndipo dongosolo lino la chidziwitso liyenera kumvetsetsedwa osati ndi lingaliro chabe, komanso ndi moyo, popeza sizongomveka bwino pano pomwe ndizofunikira, koma chidziwitso chimodzimodzi. Kuphunzira chiphunzitsocho kumayambira pa njira zofunikira zogwiritsira ntchito, ndipo padzakhala njira zawo zokha, zosinthidwa ndi chizoloŵezi chopitirira. Ndizochita zomwe zingamutsogolere mkazi ku msinkhu wa mbuye. Ndipo komabe, lamulo loyamba ndi loyamba la kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa munthu ndi ulemu. Ngati mukufuna chisomo kuchokera kwa munthu, samalani kuti kusokoneza kwanu sikumuchititsa manyazi. Kusakhulupirika, "zopanda pake", mwinamwake, zimapangitsa mphindi pang'ono, koma pambuyo pake ziyenera kulipidwa kwambiri kwa iwo.
Mndandanda wa njira 1. Tamandani. Tamandani munthu wanu! Nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse! Pankhaniyi, ndi bwino kutamanda kusiyana ndi kutamanda. Koma pali chikhalidwe chimodzi choyenera: osaphwanya moyo! Kuyamika ndi ndondomeko ya zoyenera zake zikhale zoyenera. Yang'anani mwatcheru ndi kuyamba kuyamika chifukwa cha zomwe poyamba munkazitenga. Ngati mumapeza ndikutamanda makhalidwe omwe amadzikweza nawo, adzakuyenderani mapiri.
Njira nambala 2. Chosowa. Mufunikire kuthandizidwa ndi munthu, koma osati mwaukali chifukwa chosasamala za zopempha zanu, koma mwachinyengo ndi nzeru. Musanene kuti: "Ndikangati kangati mundipempha kuti ndilowetse foni ku foni yanga?" Pitani ku vuto kuchokera kumbali ina: "Ndiwonetseni momwe ndingayikitsire foniyo pafoni. Sindikumvetsa popanda iwe. " Lolani munthuyo akuthandizeni ngakhale pamene simusowa, ndipo ayamba kuchita zinthu.
Njira nambala 3. Kukongola. Ndithudi, ndi mphamvu yoopsa ndi imodzi mwa zida zamphamvu kwambiri pakugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa munthu. Tsitsi, mitundu yobiriwira, zonunkhira, zodzoladzola, zovala zonyenga, kudzikongoletsa ndi chirichonse chimene chimagwera pansi pa lingaliro la kukongola kwachikazi kwa amuna ndi opambana-kupambana zida zogwiritsira ntchito. Gwiritsani ntchito mochepa. Chilengedwe chaonetsetsa kuti amuna kutsogolo kwa kukongola samakhala opanda mavuto.
Njira nambala 4. Chikondi. Muzichita mwachikondi. Amuna ngati amphaka, ngakhale achiwawa kwambiri, amalephera kuyang'anitsitsa pamene chovala chachikondi, chachikondi chimayandikira. Musanapemphe munthuyo kuti akwaniritse zikhumbo zake, mum'gwire ndi mawonekedwe, masompsono kapena manja. Ndipo pokambirana, gwiritsani ntchito chipangizocho "kusokoneza maganizo": musanamve pempho, mutamandeni kapena mundiuze yankho loyenera.
Njira nambala 5. Kugonana. Zakale kwambiri, koma kugwiritsidwa ntchito molimbika kumakhalabe kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana. "Chibadwa chokha" chingathe kugwiritsidwa ntchito polamulira munthu. Geishas, okalamba amtendere komanso "agulugufe" usiku wamba pogwiritsa ntchito kugonana akhala akutha kugwiritsira ntchito amuna amphamvu, ndipo kudzera mwa iwo ndi kudalira kwawo pamakhalidwe abwino, amalamulira mafuko onse. Dziwani kuti njira yeniyeni ya golide ikhoza kukhala pamisonkhano yapadera yomwe imapangidwa kwa amayi omwe akufuna kudziwa zinsinsi zogwiritsira ntchito amuna pogonana.
Njira nambala 6. Misozi. Osati njira yabwino kwambiri, koma nthawi zambiri yogwiritsira ntchito malingaliro a mwamuna. Amuna amaopa misozi ya akazi. Ndi "ntchito yamvula" iyi mukhoza kuwamverera, kukhululukira chifundo ndi kukhumba kuthandizira. Kusayanjanitsa misozi ya mwamuna sikungasiyidwe. Chinthu chachikulu sichikugwedeza ndodo kuti kulira kusasandulike kukhala amatsenga. Ndipo musagwiritse ntchito "njira yoletsedwa" nthawi zambiri, mwamuna angamvetse mosavuta kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwanu ndikusiya kuyankha misozi moyenera.
Njira nambala 7. Zakudya. Munthu wanjala ndi munthu woipa. Musayese kukakamiza munthu wanjala, makamaka ngati pempho lanu silikukondweretsedwa. Dyetsani munthu wokoma ndi wokhutiritsa, momwe iye akukondera, ndipo pokhapokha perekani kupereka nsembe yake ya hockey pa concert yanu. Inde, njira imodziyi siingakhale yokwanira kuphunzitsa munthu wokonda miyambo yamtundu, koma muli ndi zida zina zotsutsana, zomwe zimakakamiza munthu kuti akunyengereni kuti mumutenge naye kumsonkhano.