Mulimonsemo, konzekerani holide yotereyi iyenera kukhala ndi kutenga nawo mbali kwa omwe anayambitsa mwambowu. Mungayambe ndi kuyambitsa mutu wa tchuthi, mwachitsanzo, anthu otchulidwa ku katemera wa Disney. Mutu wa zojambulajambula kapena filimu ya tsiku la kubadwa kwa mwana ndi zabwino.
Ndi masewera ati omwe mungasankhe
Mwanayo ayenera kusankha masewera a tsiku lake lobadwa. Pali magulu a masewera omwe amachititsa tchuthi kukhala yosangalatsa komanso yosakumbukika, koma pali, yomwe ingathe kupha aliyense. Pazivomerezedwe zimveketseni ngati mwana wanu amakonda masewera omwe akufunsidwa, chifukwa amadziwa bwino zomwe zingasangalatse abwenzi ake. Ngati masewera sakonda, ndiye kungowachotsa pazndandanda. Pa chikondwererocho, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito kupanga zisudzo.
Penyani ana. Ngati masewera sakondeka kapena osasamala, nthawi yomweyo asiye kusewera ndikupita ku masewera ena pandandanda. Choncho maganizo a anawo sadzakhala ndi nthawi yosokoneza.
Khalani okonzeka. Masewera onse ayenera kukhala okonzeka mokwanira pa holideyi. Onetsetsani kuti mumadziwa kusewera izi kapena masewerawo.
Sikuyenera kukhala otaika. Aliyense ayenera kusangalala pa phwando. Kodi ndondomeko yanu imaphatikizapo kuti aliyense amene akuchita nawo chikondwerero ayenera kupita kunyumba ndi kumwetulira? Ndiye lingaliro lotere ngati losafunika lisakhale ndi malo pa holide. Ngati mwanjira ina mumalimbikitsa wopambana, ndiye kuti enawo akuyenera kupereka mphoto zochepa, mwachitsanzo, kwa maswiti. Ndipo kumapeto kwa tchuthi, nthawi zonse perekani mlendo aliyense papepala la maswiti.
Mndandanda wa masewera otchuka ndi zosangalatsa kwa ana pa tsiku lakubadwa
Gwirani mpira. Ana omwe amalowa nawo masewerawo, amakhala mu bwalo ndipo amalingaliridwa. Wopewera amene chiwerengero chake chimapita kumbali ya bwalo ndi mpira amapatsidwa kwa iye, amatsogolera. Kuponya mpira, woperekayo amaitana nambala, ndipo wophunzirayo ndi nambalayi ayenera kutenga mpirawo. Ngati wophunzirayo atenga mpirawo, ndiye kuti wolembayo akubwereza njirayi ndi nambala yosiyana ndi wophunzira, koma ngati mpira sagwidwe, ndiye wosewera mpira amene akulephera kugwira mpirawo amatsogolera.
Lowani mu cholinga. Wophunzira aliyense amapatsidwa mpira umodzi. Chojambula chokhala ndi chilemba ndi malo osankhidwa chimapachikidwa pamodzi mwa makoma a chipindacho. Mabatani kapena singano tating'ono taikidwa muzithunzi pambali. Mzere umatchulidwa ndi omwe ochita nawo maseŵerawo ayenera kuwombera. Ana amakopera mipira, ndipo, popanda kumangiriza mpira, yesani kugunda. Powonjezereka kwa cholinga, makamaka wosewera mpira amapeza mfundo. Chifukwa chachisangalalo pa tsiku lakubadwa kwa mwana wanu, tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tigawane pa timu, ndipo tipezerani gulu lirilonse mpira wake.
"Ndine yani?" Pamene ana abwera kudzakuchezerani, abweretseni kumbuyo kwanu ndi chithunzi cha nyama kapena chinthu ndikufunsana mafunso omwe mungathe kuyankha "inde" kapena "ayi" kuti mudziwe kuti ndani zomwezo zimatengedwa pachithunzichi. Funsani kufunsa funso loyamba "Kodi ndine nyama kapena chinthu?" Pamene chikondwererochi chifika pamapeto, omanga anawo mzere ndikuwafunsanso zomwe zidakali pansana. Zithunzi zosiyana pazojambula zingakhale akavalo, ng'ombe, bakha, sitima, ndi zina zotero.
«Zipatso zadothi». Lembani masewera angati omwe adzakhalepo, ndikuyika pakati pa chipinda chiwerengero cha mipando, imodzi yocheperapo chiwerengero cha ana. Mmodzi mwa ophunzirawo amakhala pakati ndikuuza ena "Ndikuthokozani chifukwa ..." (mwachitsanzo, pa masokosi oyera), ndipo ana omwe ali ndi masokosi oyera ayenera kusinthana malo pakati pawo. Omwe sanakhale pansi, asiya masewerawo, ndipo omalizira omwe adatha kupeza mpando wapamwamba, amayimilira pakati ndipo akunena kuti "Ndikuyamikira chifukwa ...". Ndi kuchepa kwa ophunzira, chiwerengero cha mipando imachepetsanso.
"Kuzizira". Ikani nyimbo, yomwe ana onse amavina. Ndiyeno mumayenera kufikitsa malo omwe iwo anali nawo panthawi ya kusiya nyimbo. Wophunzira aliyense yemwe adzapitiriza kuvina pambuyo poyimira nyimbo kapena, ngati sakwanitsa kukhala pamalo omwewo, sakuthawa. Wotsirizira yemwe sanasiye masewerawa wapambana.
"Tangoganizani kuchuluka kotani?" Onjezerani mtsuko kapena mbale ina ndi maswiti, mipira, kapena zinthu zina zing'onozing'ono m'chipinda, ndipo funsani ana kuti alingalire zinthu zambiri mumphika. Wopambana ndi amene amalingalira nambalayo kapena amaitanitsa nambala yomwe ili pafupi kwambiri ndi chiwerengero cha zinthu mu chotengera.
Pa maphwando a ana patsiku la kubadwa kwa mwana wanu muyenera kukhala masewera. Ngati pulogalamuyo, kuphatikizapo zakudya zokoma ndi zosangalatsa zina, ziphatikizapo masewera okhudza ana omwe, abwenzi a mwana wanu adzasangalalira kwambiri ndipo holide idzapambana. Ana ndi ophweka kwambiri kuti asangalale, ndipo, panthawi imodzimodziyo, simukusowa ndalama zazikulu kuti mugwirizane masewera ndi zosangalatsa. Kunena zoona, simukusowa ndalama.