Pambuyo pake, wokondedwa, amafunika kuyamikira, ndizo ngati mphatso ya chiwonongeko. Ngati mutha kuthetsa vuto la munthu wina, ndiye kuti mutayatsa chidwi chanu.
Tiyenera kuyembekezera zaka za chikondi chenicheni, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kungodzikonda tokha ndikukhulupirira mwayi.
Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti amakonda munthu amene amadzikonda yekha. Ndikofunika kulandira malingaliro abwino, kusangalala ndi kulankhulana ndi abwenzi, mphindi iliyonse ya moyo.
Musataya nthawi yanu kuganizira za kuti mulibe wokondedwa, koma yesetsani kudzikondweretsa nokha, ndipo chitani chilichonse kuti izi zitheke. Ndiyeno mudzapambana, ndipo zidzawonekera m'moyo wanu.
Ndi bwenzi, maubwenzi si nthawizonse ophweka komanso ophweka. Zidzakhala zovuta kwa inu ngati simumvetsa chifukwa chake anasankha.
Mwinamwake muli naye chifukwa mukuwopa kukhala nokha. Mwinamwake izo ziri. Kapena mwinamwake simunakonzekere kumverera kwakukulu. Kusonkhana ndi ena, kudzinyenga, kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa, mwinamwake kutopa. Mwinamwake ndi bwino kukhala ndekha kwazing'ono?
Si chinthu choipa kuti tikhale nokha. Ngati izi sizikumveka zogwira mtima, yesetsani kudziyika nokha pamalo ake. Ndi ena, nthawi zonse muzichita zomwe akuyenera kukuchitirani.
Wokondedwa si chinthu chimene aliyense amawonetsedwa, chomwe amasonyeza. Osati galimoto yake, udindowu uyenera kukhala wokondweretsa kwa inu, iye mwiniyo ayenera kukhala wofunikira ndi wosangalatsa.
Musati mutenge ntchito yosadziletsa, izi zidzangopangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wopanikizika. Ngati simukukonda mwamuna, muyenera kumusiya. Ndipo ngakhale munthu amakonda zinthu zina, sizikutanthauza kuti akusowa chibwenzi ndi zomwezo. Ndibwino kukhala ndi chinthu chofanana ndi anthu. Pamene anthu awiri amagwirizanitsa zofuna zosiyanasiyana, ubalewu ndi wosangalatsa.
Televizioni ndi cinema zimapanga chinyengo chakuti chikondi chidzakhalapo kwamuyaya. Koma, mwatsoka sichoncho. Kwa moyo wonse, chikondi sichinthu chosowa, chifukwa timasintha tokha, chiwonetsero chathu cha dziko chimasintha ndi ife.
Munthu amene mwakhala naye kwa nthawi yaitali, amasiya kukhalapo, simumvetsa zomwe mumapeza. Ngakhale ubale wabwino ukufika pamalo apamwamba ndipo sungapitirize kukula. Izi zimachitika pamene wina asiya kukonda wina.
Maubale sangathe kukhala pakati pa okonda osasintha. Kukonda kumangokhalira kumverera kapena kukhala wopanda pake.
Ngati nthawi zonse mumasiya simukuyenera kuzindikira, ngati kuti ndinu mtundu wopanda pake. Inu muli ofanana ndi pamene mudakondana ndi mnzanu. Anangosintha maganizo ake.
Ndizowopsya kusiya. Koma kupyolera mu zonsezi muyenera kudutsa, muyenera kupulumuka. Moyo sukhalitsa pamenepo, munthu wolakwika basi sanalipo. Adakali patsogolo. Ululu mu mtima, udzatha, ndipo kachiwiri iwe udzakula mokondwa. Phunzirani kusungulumwa, mungathe kupulumuka, kukhala olimba, ndikukumana ndi mnzanuyo. Kokha, musadandaule, muyenera kukhulupirira kuti chirichonse chidzakhala chabwino pamoyo wanu.