Ndipo zimakhala zovuta nthawi zina kuvomereza kuti munthu amene mumamukhulupirira zinsinsi zanu zonse, amene kwa zaka zingapo adziwa kale za inu kuposa moyo wina uliwonse padziko lino lapansi wakhala wolemetsa. Pali zifukwa zambiri zoti izi zichitike. Amzanga nthawi zonse amagwirizana ndi zofunikanso, kumvetsetsa, kudalira komanso kumverera kokhulupirira wina ndi mzake. Komabe, kusintha kwa moyo wa wina wa inu nthawi zina kungabweretse zotsatira zoipa. Chiwembuchi chimadziwika ndi ululu ndipo chimabwereza kangapo kamodzi m'moyo, komanso m'mabuku a mabuku ndi ma cinema.
Anzanga aakazi anali okondwa ndipo ankakhala, monga akunena, moyo mu moyo, ndipo mmodzi wa iwo amapeza mnyamata, ndipo zinthu zonse zikusintha. Iwo sagwiritsanso ntchito nthawi yofanana, chidaliro cha ubalewo chicheperachepera, chifukwa chimodzi cha izo chili ndi chinachake chimene wina alibe. Kapena choipa kwambiri, pamene chibwenzicho chiyamba kuchitira nsanje mnyamatayo, nthawi zina mwachangu "kumangobwereza" zake, kuyesera kubwezeretsanso masiku akale, pamene iye anali pakati pa chidwi. Anthu ambiri amakumana ndi vutoli mwachibadwa, chifukwa izi ndizosapeweka ndipo zimachitika kawirikawiri. Kulankhulana momveka bwino kumene malo a mnzanu mu mtima mwanu akhalabe malo ake, ndipo mnyamatayu ndi gawo losiyana kwambiri la malingaliro ndi maubwenzi, monga lamulo, zokwanira. Zangotsekedwa kwambiri ndi munthu yemwe mumakhala naye anzanu kwa nthawi yambiri ndikumuuza zakukumana nazo zonse, ndizoipa komanso osakhala okoma. Inde, ndipo chinachake chikuchitika m'moyo wanu, pamene ambiri a ife tidandaula? Pezani nthawi yolankhulana naye, fotokozani zonsezi, ndipo ngati mutachita zonse bwino, mudzakhalabe ndi bwenzi lanu komanso wokondedwa wanu, pokhala ndi moyo wabwino.
Nthawi zina pali zina zomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa kwa anzako kuti azilankhulana momveka bwino, akukambirana za kuchoka pa zovuta, kufunafuna chithandizo kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo kachiwiri, mwamsanga pamene umodzi wa iwo uli ndi moyo ukuyamba kuwongolera, winayo ayamba kudzimva wosasamala ndi wosafunikira. Muzochitika izi, zingapo zingatheke. Mmodzi wa iwo ndi kuti bwenzi lanu mosadzimvera anasankha yekha udindo wa "mlangizi" ndi "chovala" mu moyo, ndipo sangathe kukhala popanda munthu amene akusowa nthawi zonse. Kawirikawiri anthu a mtundu uwu sali okonzeka m'miyoyo yawo ndipo iwo amafunika kudzimva okha pakufunikanso m'maganizo awo. Ndipo pamene inu nonse muli oipa, iwo adzakhala ndi inu, akukumana ndi inu moona mtima ndi kuthandizira kuti mutengepo mbali pazochitika zanu.
Ndipo pamene mukukhala olimba, ndipo chikhalidwe chanu chikukula, simukusowa chiyankhulo choyamba cha gawo losasangalatsa. Mkhalidwe uwu, sikuli kofulumira kusiya ubwenzi ndi mnzako, chifukwa, ziribe kanthu, munthu uyu anali thandizo lanu ndipo kamodzi kuthandizira, ndipo si bwino kulipira kuyamikira zinthu zoterozo. Yesetsani kubweretsa chinthu chabwino m'moyo wa chibwenzi chanu, musonyeze kuti palibe mdima wokha padziko lapansi. Mulole iye ayesere kukhala wachimwemwe nayenso. Mukamasunga bwenzi lanu, kumuthandiza pa nthawi yovuta, mumangopindula mtsogolo. Izi zimachitika, ndi zina, pamene mnzanu samangokhalira kumva chisoni ndi inu, komanso kumva za mavuto anu ndi mavuto anu, amapeza kukhutira mkati mwa kukwaniritsa ukulu wake. Izi zimachitanso, ndipo simuyenera kupirira muzochitika zotere, pokhapokha mutavomereza kuti moyo wanu wonse ukhale chidziwitso cha wina. Zili choncho kuti mukakhala ndi mavuto osakhalitsa, munthu woteroyo adzataya chidwi ndi inu ndipo zonse zidzathetsedweratu.
Komabe, sikuti zonse zimakhala zowawa nthawi zonse. Nthaŵi zambiri, mavuto mu ubale ndi osakhalitsa ndipo zimachitika kwa anthu onse, mosasamala za msinkhu komanso udindo. Ubwenzi ndi malo apamtima kwambiri, abwenzi nthawizonse amakhalabe chithandizo ndi malo ena, nthawi zina amagwiritsa ntchito malo ambiri m'mitima yathu kuposa achibale. Titha kuwakhulupirira onse, popanda kuwopa kuti akuperekedwa kapena kusekedwa, zosankha zawo nthawi zambiri zinkatithandiza kuchoka pa zovuta pamoyo wathu. Ndikofunika kuti muwazindikire mwaulemu, komanso osabalalitsidwa ndi ubale weniweni wa anthu chifukwa cha mavuto. Ndipo ngati mukumva kuti mnzanuyo akukuvutitsani, koma akadali munthu yemweyo yemwe mumamukhulupirira ndi zinsinsi zanu komanso amene anakuthandizani nthawi zikwi zambiri, ndiye kuti yesetsani kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika. Mwinamwake, mumatopa pang'ono ndipo ndibwino kupita nthawi kuti mupumule ndikupeza zina. Kuyankhulana kumafuna mphamvu zambiri zamalingaliro ndipo zikuonekeratu kuti mmodzi wa inu akhoza kutopa, musachite mantha kumuwuza za izo.
Bwanji ngati mnzanga atakulemetsani? Musamafulumire ndi kuganiza ndipo musapange chisankho chokhwima pa munthu yemwe ali wofunika kwa inu, chifukwa mawu ndi zochita sangathe kubwezeretsanso, ndipo kutaya mnzanu wabwino ndikosavuta kusiyana ndi kupeza yatsopano.