Mmene mungapangire mwamuna wanu wokondedwa kukhala ndi chibwenzi

Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti pang'onopang'ono amayamba kutaya chikondi, chikondi chomwe chinalipo pachiyambi cha chiyanjano. Zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku, moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku umapangitsa kuti munthu azivutika maganizo. Chikondi chimakhala chizolowezi, ndipo nthawi zina kutopa. Okwatirana amatopa ndi ntchito, kuntchito ndi nkhawa, ndipo izi zimakhudza ubale wa banja. Kuti mukhalebe lawi la nyumba, muyenera kuyesetsa kukondana wina ndi mzake. Nthawi zina wina ayenera kuiwala za nkhawa za tsiku ndi tsiku, kusonyeza malingaliro ndi kuwonjezera chikondi pang'ono pa ubalewu. Tsiku lachikondi ndi njira imodzi yowatsitsimutsa maganizo. Lero tikambirana za momwe tingakhalire ndi chibwenzi cha mwamuna wokondedwa.

Ndizosangalatsa kukhala ndi tsiku ndikuiwala zonse ndi wokondedwa wanu. Aphungu a banja amakhulupirira kuti nthawi zina anthu okwatirana amangoyenera kusiya mavuto onse komanso kukhala okhaokha. Ndipo nthawi zina anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chabwino, amangofuna kukonzekera wokondedwa wawo ngati tsiku lachikondi. Mulimonsemo, zidzakhala zogwira mtima komanso zokondweretsa kugwirizana.

Chifukwa cha tsiku lachikondi chingakhale chochitika, tsiku lachikumbutso, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo mungathe kukonzekera tsiku ndipo popanda chifukwa, kuti mupange munthu wokondedwa komanso nokha. Ndipo mukhoza kuchita izi nthawi zonse - kukonzekera tsiku ndi mzake.

Choyamba, sankhani nthawi ndi malo. Ndi bwino kukonzekera tsiku pasanapite sabata, kotero kuti m'mawa mwake, palibe aliyense wa inu amene ayenera kuthamangira kukagwira ntchito. Malo oti tsiku lachikondi lingakhale lochuluka kwambiri, zimadalira malingaliro anu ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Tsiku lachikondi siliyenera kukhala pokhapokha pa pulogalamu ya banal, monga kudya pa cafesi kapena maulendo a kanema, ngakhale pano, nanunso, zingakhale zozizwitsa. Ndipo izi siziyenera ngakhale kukhala kanyumba kanyumba kanyumba, zomwe zimayamba kukumbukira anthu ambiri. Tsiku lachikondi lingayambe nthawi zonse masana kapena m'mawa ndikutha tsiku lonse!

Mukhoza kukonza tsiku losayembekezereka ndi losadalirika, ngakhale ndi zinthu zosangalatsa, ngati mukufuna. Mukhoza kuyendayenda mumsewu wopita ku chipululu, womwe umakhala ndi malingaliro abwino, kukonzekera chipatala monga champagne ndi zipatso, pemphani oimba omwe adzakuimbirani nyimbo zabwino, ndipo mudzavina ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo mungathe, mwachitsanzo, kukonzekera ulendo wopita ku limousine mumzinda wa usiku, ndi kumpsompsona ndi mkaka. Kapena kuyenda mu bwato, sitimayo.

Mukhoza kukhala ndi picnic ngati mumakonda. N'zotheka masana, ndipo n'zotheka ndi kutentha usiku. Tengani bulangeti, bulangeti, tiyi ndi zinthu. Sangalalani wina ndi mzake, usiku, ndi nyenyezi, kutsogolera zokambirana za chikondi chosasunthika ndi zina zotero. Apa chinthu chachikulu ndikuganiza mosamala za malo a pikiniki. Mukhoza kukonza ndi wokondedwa wanu, mwachitsanzo, kukwera pa akavalo, jumphani ndi parachute. Mukhoza kutenga sitimayi ndikupita kumudzi wina wapafupi, komwe mungayende tsiku lonse ndikusangalala. Mungathe kuitanitsa kuchokera kwa akatswiri gulu la tsiku losazolowereka, mwachitsanzo, pa masewera, pogwiritsa ntchito nkhani zamatsenga, kukonzekera chithunzi cha chikondi mu malo osiyanasiyana odabwitsa. Pakhoza kukhala zambiri zomwe mungasankhe - zonse zimangokhala zongoganizira ndi ndalama. Khalani pachiyambi. Mukhoza kukonza chakudya chamakono pamwamba pa nyumba yapamwamba. Onetsetsani makandulo, yambani nyimbo, yambani chakudya chamadzulo: vinyo, zipatso, zakudya zopsereza. Ndipo inu nokha, usiku ndi nyenyezi zidzakhala!

Njira ina ndi kungopita ku hotelo, kumene mungasinthe malo omwe akudziwika bwino kuti azikhala atsopano. Mu hotelo mungathe kukonzanso zosangalatsa zadyera komanso usiku wodabwitsa wa chikondi, kugwirizanitsa malingaliro anu onse. Njirayi ndi yabwino chifukwa simungasokonezedwe ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, kusokonezeka, simukuyenera kuphika, ndiyeno kuyeretsa ndi kusamba mbale, kusintha malo a ntchito kuchokera kuchipinda chogona kupita ku chipinda cha hotelo kungakulimbikitseni chidwi chanu. Chiwerengero cha nambala pasanakhale, simungathe ngakhale tsiku limodzi, koma zingapo. Ngati muli ndi ana, muwasiye ndi anthu odalirika ndipo mupite kukamasuka. Musati mukonzekere nthawi yanu yosangulutsa, kusiya malo okonda zofuna zanu. Pumulani, kuyankhulana, kukondana wina ndi mzake. ImaiƔani za makompyuta, mafoni, milandu ndi zina zotero. Lolani chikondi chanu mu moyo wanu, kuiwala mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku.

Ngati mukufuna kukonzekera kugonana kunyumba, ndiye kuti inunso muyenera kuganizira zinthu zisanachitike. Lolani izi zikhale zodabwitsa kwa mwamuna wanu. Choyamba, taganizirani za chovala chanu. Zidzakhala zotani? Mavalidwe a madzulo, zovala zapamwamba zokongola, malaya ake, kuvala thupi lamaliseche kapena chinachake? Gwiritsani ntchito mizimu yosangalatsa. Yatsani makandulo ambiri mnyumba, yambani nyimbo za chikondi, gwiritsani ntchito nyali zonunkhira kuti mudzaze mlengalenga ndi fungo lamtundu wina. Zolinga zoterezi, fungo la bergamot, ylang-ylang, nsapato, patchouli, sinamoni, ndi zina zotere ndizoyenera koma musapitirirepo - fungo labwino likhoza kupweteka mutu. Mutha kuwaza pamaluwa paliponse, mudzaze kusamba ndi madzi otentha, onjezerani thovu. Sinthani nsalu ndi silika. Bedi, mwa njira, likhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi maluwa a rozi.

Phimbani tebulo - ikani vinyo kapena champagne, zipatso, zakudya zopatsa thanzi, mwachitsanzo, nsomba, zophika. Kumbukirani kuti chakudya sayenera kukhala cholemera komanso chopatsa thanzi kwambiri, ndipo sipangakhale kumwa mowa. Tebulo imakongoletsedwanso ndi maluwa ndi makandulo. Inu ndi mnzanuyo mukhoza kuyang'ana filimu yosangalatsa, kuvina kwa nyimbo zochepa, kuyankhula pa nkhani zokondweretsa, kuona zithunzi zolimbirana. Mukhoza kumupangitsa misala yosasangalatsa, kuvina naye kuvina ndi zina zotero. Ndipo, ndithudi, chikhalidwe chachikulu cha madzulo ano ndi kugonana kokongola.

Ngati mwakhala nthawi yochuluka, koma simunakhale ndi tsiku lokondana lachikondi, lankhulani ndi anzanu, werengani mabuku osiyanasiyana, penyani mafilimu, mwinamwake kwinakwake mungapeze lingaliro lomweli. Ndipo, ndithudi, kumanga pa zokonda za wokondedwa.

Chikondi chimalimbikitsa chikondi chathu, chimalimbitsa malingaliro athu. Zochitika zachikondi - izi ndi zomwe munthu amakumbukira moyo wake wonse. Ngakhale nthawi zina mumaganiza kuti simungaganize chilichonse, komanso kuti mulibe kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu, muyenera kuyesa! Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita, chifukwa sizowonjezereka kukonda chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu. Koma mutatha kukondana, mudzamva chikondi komanso chikondi. Koma kumbukirani kuti ndi tsiku lachikondi, maganizo ayeneranso kugwirizananso! Tsopano inu mukudziwa momwe mungapangire mwamuna wanu wokondedwa kukhala tsiku lachikondi. Chikondi ndi chimwemwe m'banja!