Nthawi zina ndimafuna kuti abwenzi anga, amayi kapena alongo azikhala osangalatsa kwa anzanga. Bwanji osasangalatsa ndi osakondweretsa okondedwa anu? Sikoyenera kuyang'ana chifukwa chowapangira mphatso. Koma ngati wina ali ndi tsiku lobadwa posachedwa, ndiye nthawi yoti mupeze zodabwitsa. Lero tikambirana za mphatso zabwino.
Choyamba, muyenera kukhala ndi chisangalalo chachikulu. Mukakhala bwino, mukufuna kuti aliyense akhale wosangalala. Sichoncho? Pempherani bwenzi lanu ku cafe kapena kuresitilanti, pangani chikondwerero. Ngakhale ngati palibe chifukwa, ingokondweretsani, chifukwa sivuta kupanga chikondwerero chozungulira, makamaka ngati muli ndi chisangalalo chachikulu.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani kwa achibale anu?
Kupuma ndi kusangalala ndibwino! Panthawiyi, ndikufuna kuti banja langa likhale lokonda. Kupatsa atsikana omwe mumakonda? Ndipotu, si zosavuta kuti akazi azikondweretsa, monga zikuwonekera poyamba. Kodi izi ndi zomwe mukufuna kulandira lero ngati mphatso?
Mphatso zomwe siziyenera kuperekedwa kwa mkazi (chibwenzi, amayi, mlongo)
Pali zinthu zina zomwe simukuyenera kupereka kwa mnzanuyo. Iwo sangakondweretse donayo komanso amanyoza maganizo ake. Apatseni iwo kokha ngati akukuuzani inu za izo. Kotero, apa pali mndandanda waifupi:
- Mphatso zochezeka. Zovala zamkati kapena zinthu zina zochepetsera siziperekedwa kwa mnzako kapena ngakhale chibwenzi. Kokha ngati uyu ndi mnzanu wapamtima, ndipo sakuwona kuti ndizolakwika. Zonse zimadalira ubale wanu. Mulimonsemo, ichi si mphatso yopambana kwambiri, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo.
- Zodzoladzola. Zina mwa izo zikhoza kumveka pa mawonekedwe a munthu ndipo iwe ukhoza kumukhumudwitsa mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, mphatso yothandizira kuchokera ku dothi kapena zonona za makwinya. Musanapereke chinthu choterocho, muyenera kuganizira mofatsa, koma kodi simukukhumudwitsa munthu yemwe ali ndi mphatso?
- "Mphatso ziwiri." Pa tsiku lino, sikoyenera kupatsa mphatso ziwiri, zomwe zapangidwa kwa anthu angapo. Izi zikutanthauza kuyala pa bedi lachiwiri, mbale ya mbale kapena makapu. Muyenera kupereka mphatso kwa mtsikana, osati banja.
- Zinthu zina zapakhomo. Musamapatse dona poto ndi casserole. Zidzakhumudwitsa mkazi aliyense. Pambuyo pake, tchuthili likufuna kupeza chinthu chosangalatsa ndi chachikondi.
Ndi mphatso ziti zomwe mungasankhe?
Kotero kwa ndani yemwe angapereke? Funso ili likuyamba kusokoneza. Aliyense akuyembekezera inu mphatso yabwino. Tiyeni tione yemwe ndifunika kupereka.
Kwa amayi anga okondedwa
Kodi amayi anu okondedwa akuyembekezera chiyani? Mwinanso, sikuli kovuta kusankha mphatso kwa amayi anga. Pambuyo pake, mumadziwa mwamsanga chimene akufuna kuti apeze. Ngati sichoncho, timatha kutaya maganizo angapo.
Zida za nyumba - nthawi zonse zimafunika. Mukhoza kugula nsalu yokongola kapena seti lachibedi. Adzayamikira khama lanu. Mukhoza kugula mawotchi okongola okongoletsera kapena mbale zopangidwa ndi manja. Ngati amayi anu akuledzeretsani ndi zovuta, mukhoza kupeza zinthu zochititsa chidwi kwa iye. Adzasangalala.
Nthawi zonse mumamugulira chinachake kuchokera kumagulu ovala zovala. Tembolee, yemwe ali ngati mwana wokondedwa adzatha kutenga chinthu kwa amayi ake wokondedwa kapena kusankha zosangalatsa zake. Mayi ake atangom'kwanira ngongole, ndiye kuti mumamupatsa watsopano.
Ngati ziri zoyenera, kwa amayi n'kotheka kupereka chirichonse, chirichonse. Mugule iye zodzoladzola zabwino zothandizira khungu. Chinthu chachikulu choti mudziwe mtundu wa khungu. Sankhani khungu la makwinya komanso khungu loyera. Pambuyo pake, mukufuna kuti nthawi zonse akhalebe wamng'ono komanso wokongola.
Amayi akhoza kupereka zipangizo zofunika. Mwachitsanzo, wothandizira wabwino tsopano ndi multivarker. Choncho, ngati ndalama zikuloleza, mukhoza kumusangalatsa ndi mnzanga wapamtima kukhitchini.
Yandikirani mnzanu
Chifukwa cha chibwenzicho n'zotheka ndi kuswa "zikhomo" pa mphatso. Pambuyo pake, ngati muli ndi ubale wapamtima ndi iye, ndiye kuti ndibwino kupereka dazhenie nsalu. Kungakhale bongo lokongola, limene wakhala akulota kale.
Ngati mnzanu amakonda kuwerenga, ndiye kuti mukhoza kumupatsa mabuku osangalatsa. Muyenera kumudziwa zokonda zake. Kodi amayamba kuvina kapena kukhala wathanzi? Perekani kulembetsa. Tangolani zomwe iye akulota posachedwapa. Mwinamwake iye watha kale kuthamangira kunja ndipo iwe ukhoza kumupangitsa iye kukhala wachimwemwe ndi mphatso yokondweretsa ndi yofunikira.
Ngati simukupereka wina aliyense, mukhoza kugula maswiti okha. Ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi tiyi, ndiye kuti mungamupeze tiyi wapachiyambi. Tikukulimbikitsani kuti muyese tiyi ya buluu kuchokera ku Thailand. Iye adzayesa molondola izo.
Wothandizana naye pa ntchito
Kodi mungasankhe chiyani kwa anzawo ogwira ntchito? Ndikufuna kuti izi zikhale zosangalatsa, koma nthawi imodzimodziyo mphatsoyo isakhale yotsika mtengo. Mukhoza kugula maswiti kapena kupereka maluwa. Mayi nthawi zonse amasangalala kulandira maluwa okoma mu mphatso.
Kwa mwana wanga wokondedwa
Zonse zimadalira zaka za mwana wanu wamkazi. Ngati ali kale wamkulu, mphatso ziyenera kukhala "akulu". Candy apa mwachiwonekere sangachite. Mukhoza kugula zinthu zatsopano kuchokera ku zovala. Ngati mwanayo wakhala akufuna kuti adye mafuta onunkhira, ndiye kuti tsopano ndi nthawi yokwaniritsa chikhumbo chake.
Mtsikana wamng'ono adzakondwera ndi chidole kapena chodzola cha ana. Bweretsani ku zosangalatsa zosangalatsa. Onetsani kuganiza pang'ono. Perekani mphatso yomwe simukuiiwala mwana wanu wokondedwa. Mwachitsanzo, maluwa a chokoleti. Ndizotsekemera kwambiri. Mwana wokondwa amakhala wotsimikizika.
Tikuyembekeza kuti tikhoza kuthandizira kusankha mphatso kwa amayi anu apamtima ndi okondedwa. Lero mukuwonetsa okondedwa anu momwe mumawakondera ndikuwayamikira. Musaiwale za okondedwa anu. Chosafunika ndi mtengo wa mphatso, chofunika kwambiri, ndiwe wofunika. Dzichepetseni nokha ndi okondedwa anu.