Inu munali limodzi, okondana wina ndi mzake, koma kenako munathyola. Nthawi inadutsa. Ululuwo unadutsa pang'ono, koma chiyembekezo cha chimwemwe sichinamwalire. Ndipo mumasankha kuyesanso chikondi. Kodi n'zotheka kuyamba chiyanjano kachiwiri, kuti muwalembenso kachiwiri?
Mavuto ali mu chiyanjano chilichonse: kulera ana, ochezeka ndipo, ndithudi, mu ubale wapakati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Vuto limayambitsa mavuto omwe amayenera kuthana nawo, kuti amvetsetse zomwe zimayambitsa. Vuto lathu ndiloti, pakukumana ndi mavuto, nthawi zambiri m'malo moyesera kumvetsetsa kuti chiyambi chake ndi chiyani, timachizindikira ngati chinthu chosapeŵeka mu ubalewu. "Mwinamwake, si" theka langa "", ife tikuganiza, ndi kusankha kuswa ndi mwamuna. Kapena, kukangana, mukutentha kwa chilakolako timanyenga wina ndi mzake mawu achipongwe ndikutseka chitseko, ndikubweranso ndikupepesa chifukwa cha mkwiyo ndi kunyada.
Nthawi imapita. Moyo umapitirira. Mwinamwake mukukumana ndi misonkhano yatsopano ndi magawano, koma maganizo akubwera kwa iye. Mukuganiza za zomwe sizingakhale zoipa ngati adayitana, mutha kutenga sitepe yoyamba nokha, koma ... kodi ndizofunika?
Kubwereranso kwa amene kale anali naye - vutoli ndi lofala. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, pafupifupi kotala la mabanja osweka kenako amayamba ubale kachiwiri. Komabe, musanaganize chithunzi cha kukondana kachiwiri, ndi bwino kuganizira momwe mukufunikira.
Ndikofunika kusasakaniza chikhulupiliro cha chikondi choyambirira ndi mwayi weniweni kuti ukhazikitse mgwirizano. Chikumbutso chimakonzedwa kotero kuti kaŵirikaŵiri amasunga nthawi zokondana, kuchotsa chinachake chosasangalatsa, kuti asativulaze. N'zosatheka kuti khalidwe lake ndi zizolowezi zake zasintha kwambiri, kotero musayembekezere kuti simukuyenera kuyang'ana zambiri pansi pa sokosi zonyansa za sofa kapena dikirani theka la ora pansi pa khomo la chimbudzi pamene akukhala pamenepo ndi laputopu. Kuphatikiza pazinthu zapanyumba izi, mwinamwake, mavuto oyankhulana adzabwerera. Inde, kukula ndi kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, munthu amamvetsetsa ndi kulekerera. Ganizirani ngati muli ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti muvomereze.
Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mukufuna kuyambiranso, chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake kusiyana kwanu kunachitika nthawi ina. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu momasuka, moona mtima ndi mwakachetechete, osagwidwa chifukwa cha kutsutsidwa komanso osabisa chilichonse. "Ndinasiya kukukonda" komanso "Ndinakondana nanu" - mayankho omwe samanena zambiri za chirichonse. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa chomwe chinayambitsa chisokonezo: kutha kwa kugonana, mavuto mu kumvetsetsa, kutayika kotayika? Ndikofunikira kudziwa chomwe chinapangitsa chikhumbo chotsitsimutsa chiyanjano.
Kuyamba chibwenzi pambuyo panthawi yopuma ndi kovuta. Musati muyembeze kuti izo zidzatsitsimutsa chimodzimodzi chikondi chomwe inu munali nacho poyamba. Kusamvana kumawulula zolakwitsa za anthu onse, kusiya mabala pamtima. Pakapita nthawi anthu amasintha. Koma ubale wanu sudzakhalanso watsopano: mumamudziwa bwino, mphamvu zake ndi zofooka zake, zizoloŵezi zake. Zimatengera kulimba mtima ndi wokonzeka kuzindikira osati zolakwa zake zokha, komanso zake, kutseguka ndi kudalirana wina ndi mzake. Kuyambira ndi slate yoyera ndi kovuta, koma palibe yemwe akuvutitsa kuyesa.